Looking at this title alone, many people may think of unknown so, but if we know the whole story, we will understand how disappointed this daughter-in-law is with this marriage.
The source of the story is a self-media article, and the woman's name is Xiaoling.
She fell in love with her boyfriend for four years and decided to step into the marriage hall. Because of their emotional foundation, the two first got a marriage certificate and then began to prepare for the wedding.
Unexpectedly, their wedding was strongly opposed by her mother-in-law. In Xiaoling's mother-in-law's view, since the two have already received the marriage certificate, it is good to live well. There's really no need to waste money on a wedding.
Not only that, after learning that Xiaoling had 200,000 yuan in deposits, her mother-in-law asked her to spend 65,438+10,000 yuan to decorate the house, and another 65,438+10,000 yuan to buy a car instead of walking.
This makes Xiaoling very disgusted. She thought she married her husband, and she didn't want a bride price, a car, a house or even a wedding photo. Her mother-in-law really shouldn't care about the 200 thousand in her hand.
After being wronged, Xiaoling couldn't help complaining to her husband. She thought she would be comforted by her husband, but she didn't expect him to think that what her mother did was right.
Just married, her husband didn't score, Xiaoling felt particularly disappointed and suddenly had the idea of divorce.
Not long after this incident, Xiaoling's mother-in-law learned that the 200,000 had not moved, and she began to play the idea of the 200,000.
This time, instead of letting Xiaoling decorate the house for herself, she asked Xiaoling to pay a down payment of 200,000 yuan for the house.
Although my mother-in-law said that the name of Xiaoling's in-laws was written on the house book, everyone knew that this house was for Xiaoling's disappointing brother-in-law.
If it is understandable that my mother-in-law was thinking of Xiaoling and his wife last time, then this time, her mother-in-law really went too far.
However, what makes Xiaoling more sad is not what her mother-in-law did, but her husband's attitude. In the face of his mother's constant calculation of his wife's money, he chose to stand by and watch her.
At this point, Xiaoling gave up completely and proposed a divorce to her husband.
At first, Xiaoling's husband disagreed with the divorce. Xiaoling was so angry that she bluntly said that her husband should not be ignorant of filial piety and should not indulge her mother-in-law in calculating herself again and again.
That's what happened. Seeking truth from facts, it is understandable for Xiaoling's mother-in-law to give advice and suggestions to her son and daughter-in-law, but she should respect the opinions of Xiaoling's husband and wife instead of telling them what to do in their lives.
We shouldn't even count the 200 thousand in the daughter-in-law's hand. There is nothing wrong with loving each other, but we still have to distinguish each other. If Xiaoling's mother-in-law really has difficulties, it is understandable to ask her daughter-in-law. The point is that she had ulterior motives twice.
Besides, Xiaoling's husband not only didn't stop her mother's behavior, but even took it for granted. It was really speechless.
In the face of such an excellent mother-in-law and husband, Xiaoling returned and divorced. What's the matter?
Xiaoling's mother-in-law is feudal and doesn't take herself as an outsider. Instead of discouraging her, Xiaoling's husband has always supported her mother's practice, which is the straw that crushed Xiaoling.
Marriage needs to be maintained by both husband and wife. Xiaoling's husband is filial to his parents, but it should not be right or wrong.
He only cares about his parents' face and never considers his wife's feelings. If such a man doesn't get divorced, will there be a New Year?
For Xiaoling, it's really a pity to get married for four years, but in a failed marriage, the best way is to stop loss in time, rather than make do with it.
Imagine if Xiaoling continues to bear it, I'm afraid she will either quarrel with her mother-in-law or complain to her husband every day. This kind of marriage is not happy at all. What's the use?
It is very touching to say that there are still many people like Xiaoling's mother-in-law today.
They are selfish and self-righteous and always want to rely on their in-laws to interfere in their children's lives.
As long as you observe carefully, you will know that Xiaoling's mother-in-law is not a case in life.
I think Xiaoling did a good job. She didn't give in just because she cared about mutual affection and face. In fact, as long as she gives in once, there will be endless trouble in the future.
What is the difficulty in choosing to make do? The difficult thing is to make up your mind and make a choice to change. Xiaoling is brave and deserves praise.
To tell the truth, this story is made up at first glance, but it brings us a lot of thoughts and feelings, which is the most rare.
I wish every girl can follow her heart and say without hesitation when she encounters the same situation as Xiaoling? No? In order to make a choice bravely.