When many prospective couples talk about marriage, they often face many contradictions and differences, and these contradictions and differences are also a test or hardship. If handled well, it will naturally enter the marriage hall smoothly. If not handled properly, they may go their separate ways and turn against each other.
Marriage is to combine two people through law or a social contract and morality, and then establish a family and form a new blood relationship. It is precisely because the two married people are not related by blood, so the personality and feelings of the two married people, as well as whether the two families can live in harmony and other factors determine whether this marriage can be combined.
If the woman's request is reasonable, there are no other excessive demands, but the man has various excuses that the wedding cost is too high, the woman's name cannot be added to the real estate license, the bride price is too much, the dowry is too little, the cost can be omitted, and the cost can be less ... Then, such a person will advise you not to get married.
Marriage is a matter of spending money, and most people only intend to get married once in their lives. In this case, isn't it expensive to get married? What's more, marriage is a major event in life, not to mention the depth of feelings. If you can't bear it, such people are either immature, have problems with their thoughts or conduct, or are too selfish even if they are mature. To put it bluntly, they only think for themselves, only for themselves and their families, and don't care about the woman and their families at all. It's not worth trusting at all.
Don't think that there are not many such people. Many people have experienced love and reached the stage of talking about marriage, but in the end they were separated because of wedding gifts, buying a house and other things. It can be seen that there are many problem families, problem parents and problem men.
In fact, as long as the woman and her family are not too demanding, but there are various reasons and excuses to shirk, it is really not worth marrying.
Although money can't measure everything, it can at least show some attitudes and emotions. If a man refuses to add your name to the wedding room, but he doesn't buy a house in full before marriage, but needs you to help him repay the loan, then such a man must be very calculating, either he can't achieve great things, or he is too deep-minded and always thinking, or he doesn't pay attention to you at all, just regards you as a tool for washing and cooking in the family.
As a girl, if you are not married and your children are around your parents, please remember one thing: a man who refuses to spend money for you will definitely not be good to you. Even if he is "good-looking" for a while, it may be just a show, or there must be something inappropriate that your current experience can't recognize. Money can judge your position in each other's hearts and their feelings for you to a certain extent. Never marry a man who refuses to spend money for you.
Think about it. Do your parents think you spend too much money? People who really love you don't think you spend so much money, and they don't think you deserve it, while some men don't. Every penny they spend will be kept in mind, and they will secretly doubt whether they spend too much money, whether you are worthy of his spending money for you, and will secretly calculate other things. There must be endless troubles in the future life. Not only is the heart tired, but it is also hurt. This kind of person is not as good as recognizing in advance and not marrying.