Why do you charge for psychological counseling?

1. Psychological counseling is a process in which psychological counselors help guide visitors to discuss and deal with psychological problems. Visitors will get unprecedented relaxation and relief, be tolerant and accepted, and this result is created by the labor and time paid by psychological counselors, and their efforts should be rewarded. 2. Paid service is conducive to establishing a close and good consulting relationship between the consultant and the helper, and at the same time naturally forming a service contract relationship, which not only shows the sincerity and trust of the helper, but also endows the consultant with obligations and responsibilities; In order to respect the consultant's time, the helper will of course take the initiative to cooperate with the doctor to see the doctor on time. After the consultant enters the service role, he will certainly do his best. Both sides can devote themselves wholeheartedly to the consultation, and the consultation effect can be guaranteed. 3. The consultation fee itself is a psychological process to overcome one's inner contradictions and dare to trust, which has a certain effect of psychotherapy and correction of bad personality: the process of psychological consultation requires the cooperation of both parties, from the outside to the inside, from beginning to end, the process of working side by side with efforts, free psychological consultation, and the motivation of help-seekers to actively explore and change themselves when receiving treatment is often insufficient. I always hope that the counselor can comfortably solve the problem that has been bothering him for a long time, which is waiting for others. At the same time, fee-based service is also a code of conduct for clients' medical treatment behavior. According to the content agreed with the consultant, consulting within the agreed time will play a positive role in enhancing the self-awareness, responsibility and self-control ability of the consultant. 4. Because you are a professional, you charge. Free psychological counseling is often more casual and unprofessional. This randomness is harmful and has a negative impact on both sides of the negotiation. Because there is no charge, customers often regard consultants as the object of venting their bad emotions and self-expression, but they stay away from Wan Li, the psychological crux, and come whenever they want, and the problem remains; And consultants, because they don't charge, it is difficult to maintain their sense of responsibility and enthusiasm for helping others, and even feel that their careful work has become a dispensable trash can for others, which is very frustrating. 5. Psychological counseling is different from chatting with ordinary friends. Before becoming a consultant, psychological counselors should study the theory and technology of psychology for a long time, pass the national registered consultant qualification examination and the internship stage of clinical psychological counseling, which will invest huge energy and learning expenses. After long-term tempering and training, psychological counselors can deeply feel the feelings of the seekers, keenly capture the hidden problems in the hearts of the seekers, and use matching psychological techniques to help the seekers sort out the problems and encourage them to face them, so as to change, gradually let their minds grow and break through psychological barriers. 6. So, for your sake and mine, please respect the paid consultation, others' efforts and your own gains.