Before teaching mental health class, I was also an excellent Chinese teacher and head teacher. I never thought that one day I would change my major. I remember once, the headmaster called me and asked me to go to her office. I went to see her and took out a red-headed document, saying that every school should take mental health classes and be equipped with mental health teachers. She thinks I have a good personality and am very suitable for this course. She asked me if I would like to. If I would, I would hand in my work as soon as possible within one year and take off my certificate. At that time, I didn't know what this course was, so I thought it was a minor course. The teacher won't let me unload the head teacher in class, just to take care of me. I didn't want to be a class teacher for a long time, so I was grateful and agreed without hesitation.
When I got home, I told my husband that he agreed. After all, it's much easier than being a class teacher, but he said that the psychology teacher might be a little crazy.
After taking over as a psychology teacher, I studied teaching practice, studied examination contents and participated in various mental health trainings in the city. With my active efforts, I got the qualification certificate at the end of the year and became a full-time mental health teacher. Since then, I have opened a clinic online, giving lectures to teachers and parents regularly, receiving free psychological counseling from students, and often going out to give lectures after school. I became an enviable psychology teacher.
Looking back on my growing experience, I often feel very proud. There are often worries that colleagues can't solve, so they say to find teacher Zhang! Teacher Zhang seems to have become omnipotent, making me feel more valuable!
After a long journey and some experiences, I will be sincere and cherish it. Learning makes my will stronger and stronger. I helped others and myself at the same time. Up to now, I haven't become a psycho like my husband said. Ha ha! Life tells us that everyone has the right to choose the road of life, whether happy or sad, we should take life seriously on the road, so as to slowly open up our own green space!
The feeling of psychological pain requires you to accept all kinds of human beings, be merciful to all beings, strive to improve yourself and accompany visitors out of the quagmire of life.
Someone asked me: What's the difference between being a counselor and before? My answer is: I can get used to seeing everyone and understanding everything! !
Friends often come to consult.
When I first started to learn psychological counseling, I felt that psychological counseling was a great career, and I could earn considerable income while helping others.
Later, I really became a practicing psychological counselor, only to find that there is considerable investment behind the considerable income. And those visitors who have grown up here not only rely on my help, but also rely on our joint efforts and their own strength.
When I first started to understand the psychological counseling industry, I thought that psychological counselors were people who knew a lot, knew a lot of methods and knew a lot of things, so I thought that psychological counselors were people who had no worries.
After becoming a counselor, I found that counselors may know more about themselves and others. Therefore, there is no way to give a "perfect" answer through a few hundred words;
Psychological counselors are also mortal, still in the mortal world, so there will still be suffering as mortals. It's just that I know some ways to adjust myself, know where my inner core strength is, and strengthen these resources and strength when I have no troubles. It's like building a dam before the flood.
Before I became a counselor, I thought it was great to listen to many life stories.
It's great to be a counselor and find that you can really hear all kinds of stories. It's just that there is a lot of heaviness and pain behind it, so listening to these stories also needs a certain ability of digestion and absorption, otherwise it will be easy to indigestion and even cause some problems.
The biggest feeling of being a consultant is to be a "Buddha".
The greatness of Buddha lies in the worship of all sentient beings, and his answer is "I know"! Counselors are so effective, they are the buddhas of the past; A consultant is willing to get out of the status quo, then he is the Buddha now. The beginning of negotiation is the solution of the problem. It is not the consultant who helps others, but himself.
When I was a chaperone for the first time, I accompanied the counselors through the psychological process and tasted their mixed feelings. Our consultants can taste all kinds of human beings and push others.
Then as a guide, help them understand themselves, find a knot and explore ways to solve problems. Our consultants can help themselves to be entertained and grow by helping others.
We are not omnipotent and should not aim at solving all problems. We should aim at helping others and helping ourselves. The problem comes from the consultant, and we should return to the reality of the consultant.
Amitabha, my life is up to me, not Buddha.
Hahaha, I have been a consultant for ten years, and I am glad to have such a problem!
Feeling is divided into three stages.
The first stage is when I just started working, and I feel that I have mastered a magical power, like magic. You can see through people's hearts and point out life. Seeing people around me makes me look awesome. Now I feel like a psycho. In fact, this state is only the beginning. Meeting is superficial and the mentality is floating.
The second stage is about one or two years of employment, lasting five or six years. I find psychological counseling difficult, but when I'm on the road, I can't do it without leaving. I had to bite the bullet and continue my study. I force myself to read 200 books every year, really not because of diligence, but because I have too much knowledge to learn. Buying books costs 5000 yuan a year, and there are many long-term training courses, either in class or on the way to class! It's okay. I like it. It's hard, but I can hold it back. I have read many cases during this period, and I feel that my understanding of human nature is relatively calm, just synthesizing the books in class. In the work in Lincheng, the theories you usually learn are not exactly the same, because the theories are standardized and not exactly the same in clinic. There are many contacts with peers at this stage, so they are all academic discussions. At this stage, spending money is like running water. Professional study, consulting room rent, books, supervision, after a few years, savings are empty.
The third stage is these years, and I feel much more peaceful. I attend classes occasionally, often read books and write articles, and I will make some new friends and respect life more. The likes and dislikes in my heart faded a little and became a longer wait. I don't pursue immediate quick success, I am willing to wait for a person to change, and one thing will change for a longer time.
It's really expensive to learn as a consultant. I spent nearly 6.5438 million yuan, so you should be careful. This is a long-term investment and learning project!
For me, this is a very attractive and creative career, so I love it very much, and of course there are times when I am tired.
Still a mortal, there will still be troubles, but there are many channels to solve them.
Full of sense of accomplishment, happiness!