When I was 23 to 25 years old, I entered the workplace. After several years of tempering, I was given some important tasks at the age of 28. At the age of 30, I was the beginning of many people's career promotion and served as a small supervisor. Every five years is an organizational promotion point, from manager to senior manager, director, department head, department head, vice president, president and so on.
However, this career path may not fully meet expectations. Perhaps you have seen that some "ten thousand-year-old grass-roots supervisors" in the organization have been small supervisors since they were around 30 years old and have never been promoted. They are not incompetent, and may even be promoted because of their good work performance when they were young; However, after becoming a supervisor, his performance was not as good as expected, and his career stopped here and was gradually surpassed by younger generations.
If you are 35 years old and haven't entered the top of the company, you will be in an extremely embarrassing situation. First of all, at the manager level, the company can find someone aged 28-35 to replace you. If you are over 35 years old, you can find someone above the director level to help the company be a department-level executive, participate in high-level decision-making or formulate the company's future development plan.
The pattern of winning resources in the first half and winning in the second half
Family problems, at this age of getting married and having children, can't change much. If you want to make a bigger breakthrough in your work, you should pay attention to balancing work and family life.
Back to the work level, many people, from executives to junior managers, have not broken through the elite thinking of going it alone in the workplace. Even if you are promoted to the manager level, you will only rob your subordinates of their jobs. Without breakthrough performance, they will not be promoted again. Management itself can no longer be the same as before, but should lead others to start a career.
We should learn the process of "finding problems → establishing assumptions → proposing schemes → implementing verification → tracking and correcting → accumulating results", which is a management exercise from executors to managers. Then constantly sum up experience and break through yourself.
The accumulation of contacts and resources is also an important link. Please note that people who can make great achievements in their careers will have good ability to accumulate and transfer resources.
In addition, if you encounter the ceiling of the workplace, you must first make clear whether the platform is suitable for you. If there is no problem with the platform, you can try to reactivate your work enthusiasm through further study and job transfer.
No one will really have nothing, so-called nothing, but your life is not satisfactory. Even if you really have no house, car or savings, at least you should be responsible. At this age, there are old people in the world and villains in the world. These responsibilities are something that one must bear bravely.
Life is faced with one choice after another, and it is also faced with opportunities that follow. It's just that some people can't catch it and make too many mistakes. At the most unsatisfactory moment in life, the most important thing is to keep a positive attitude. Is to learn from the past. Start to re-run your career and life in a down-to-earth manner.
In this era, it is difficult to find an ideal job, but it is not difficult to find a job at all. Wisdom makes wisdom, and no wisdom makes strength. Everyone can start from scratch and change their life bit by bit. Even so, you really hit the bottom. There is nothing to be discouraged. Because it's already done, what could be worse?
As a contemporary and the same age as you. I believe that if people can face up to their responsibilities, they will not aim too high, relax themselves, hate work, and will not do anything big or small. At this age, it is entirely possible to start over. When you really find your own value, go and gain something through your efforts. You will find that hope is always there, and life is simple, dull and happy, not far away at all.
If you don't give up on yourself, no one can make you give up. What is terrible is not the reality of nothing, but a heart that thinks it is only worthy of failure!
Give you three sentences, as shown in the figure:
Secondly, first deny one thing, not having nothing, but saying that you are forty without being confused. This kind of confusion has nothing to do with success or failure, but more emphasis is on having the ability to see through the world and many problems.
More than 40 years of precipitation will not be cleaned up because of the loss of 2.8 million yuan of 20 16. Instead, it spent 2.8 million yuan to buy some experience, experience, qualifications, lessons, accumulation and precipitation.
Can these bought experiences, experiences, qualifications, lessons, accumulation and precipitation be realized?
If so, how to make it cash out and improve the situation?
This is probably a subject that needs to be calmed down and sorted out.
I want to remind you again:
Don't criticize yourself, allow pessimism and loss; But don't spoil the depressed mood, don't always be pessimistic and don't always be confused.
Everything has its lovely versatility. Who knows if the next window God opens for you will go straight to the depths of the rainbow?
Cheer up and return to an open-minded and talented state as soon as possible. There is no reason, no reason, because there are old people and little people in the world, because life first gives us a lot of responsibilities, and then gives us some luxuries: dreams and ideals.
It's just that luxury goods are temporarily lost, but the responsibility always comes back, and there is no reason to restore openness and glory. As for the lost luxury, we can continue to get rid of it, continue to regain our dreams and continue on the road. There are many such people, and the generation after 70 is the majority.
Isn't it great to be alive and well?
A person's life is nothing more than food, clothing, housing and transportation. It doesn't matter if you don't have too much worldly property. You should be healthy. When you are in a reinforced concrete city, all you see and hear is money, and all you hear is the heart of comparison. Then you not only have no advantage, but also worry because your heart is full of money. Money needs your limited wisdom to win.
Similarly, when you are in nature, go to a farmhouse on the hillside and eat a chicken stewed with mushrooms, garlic and yellow flowers, you will take a deep breath and sigh that the world can take its time, and there is peace in the world!
When you come to the intensive care unit, you will realize the value of life, the debt of personnel, and the unfinished business that can't stop. I forgot the name of the president of the United States. At the age of sixty, he said, "I'm retiring soon. I want to be with my grandchildren. There are still many rivers waiting for me to go fishing. "
Of course, we don't necessarily have the same hobbies. We have different national conditions and different family backgrounds, but we are all ordinary people. We should have our own life, that is, the life we like and yearn for, even if we set up a small tent, we should be happy.
Come on!
Finally, I wish peace and happiness.
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