Blind date is a very common way to get married in China. Many young people who have entered the age threshold of leftover men and women in their lives will definitely seek help and arrange blind dates when they reach a certain age, so blind dates will pay attention to boys.
Matters needing attention in boys' blind date 1 1. Etiquette and dress
The first impression is very important, that is, as the saying goes, "feel, feel or call." Especially blind date is the first time to meet, so it is very important to leave a good impression. Dress neatly and generously on the clothes table, and don't need to be engraved on the clothes, just be generous and decent. Make-up only needs simple light makeup, and the hairstyle can avoid being too fancy, which is easy to leave an unreliable image for the other party.
Second, get to know each other in advance. Make a plan and prepare a topic.
Before dating, get to know each other as much as possible, plan the meeting place according to each other's preferences, give each other some reference directions, and ask each other's opinions more, which will leave a feeling of being valued in each other's hearts. In the process of blind date, Guan can properly prepare topics according to each other's preferences to avoid the embarrassing situation that leads to silence in the process of blind date again.
Third, carefully prepare the meeting ceremony.
No matter who it is, people of all ages like the surprise at the moment they receive gifts. You can prepare a meeting gift for each other. It doesn't need to be too expensive The main thing is to let the other person feel your heart. However, giving gifts to each other is not blind. When choosing gifts, you can give some simple but fashionable gifts, such as some trinkets: key chains, brooches, etc.
Fourth, arrive at the meeting place in advance.
When dating, it is best to wait for the other party half an hour earlier than the appointed time, especially for men. Don't let the lady wait for you, or she will think that you don't pay enough attention to her and leave a bad impression on the other party. Arriving at the meeting place in advance will give the other party a sense of importance and show a gentleman's demeanor as a man.
Five, pay attention to manners
In the process of blind date, don't ask the other person's salary at the beginning, and talk about a few personal topics. Don't hesitate when chatting with each other. Just chat naturally like friends. In the chat, you can praise each other appropriately, talk with each other about work, knowledge, hobbies, etc., and leave a very comfortable feeling for each other.
Remember to express your preferences when asking girls, so that girls can know you better. Don't talk big, self-confidence is a good thing, don't be arrogant, show your true self. Be modest in doing B, don't cater to each other deliberately, don't interrupt each other's speech at will, and take care of each other's feelings in words and actions.
6. Send the girl home after the blind date.
After the blind date, you can ask the other person's residence, show your gentlemanly demeanor and send the other person home. This will not only leave a good impression on the other party, but also on her relatives and friends. Whether this blind date is successful or not, whether the other person is your favorite or not, as a man, you should be a gentleman and send her safely to her destination.
Matters needing attention in boys' blind date 2 First, boys' blind date skills
1, don't dress up. In fact, if it is a boy, it is better to be clean and fresh. Overdressing will give each other a feeling of being unreliable.
2, don't brag, in fact, many times boys will say some big words to make each other worship themselves, but in fact, modern people are smart, you can see it when you praise each other.
3. The date place does not need to be too expensive, but it should not be too off the table, such as a clean, quiet and slightly literary place.
Don't talk about the past. Nowadays, many boys will talk about how I was when I was a child and how I studied when I was dating. In fact, the other party is generally not interested.
5, take the initiative to send each other home, a boy should be a gentleman, after dinner or finished, take the initiative to send girls home, can get more goodwill.
Second, the boys blind date matters needing attention
1, you'd better go alone.
Because girls are shy, it is ok to bring their families, but it is not good for boys to have a little treasure.
2, pay attention to all kinds of small details
Arrive early, the other party should stand up to show respect, don't be masculine, give priority to women when ordering, and don't make any comments on anything.
3. Don't wear strange clothes
It's best to wear it plain and quiet, not too fancy, such as tights and bean shoes. Don't wear it, otherwise it will directly become a spiritual guy, without intention, but it must be serious, and the hairstyle should not be too dressed, just simple and refreshing.
Matters needing attention in boys' blind date 3 1. What matters should boys pay attention to when they go on blind date?
1, dress appropriately
On the first blind date, boys should pay attention to their appearance, take a shower, cut their hair and put on appropriate clothes. When people are confident, their spiritual temperament will be different and they will leave a good impression on each other.
Step 2 behave appropriately
A girl cares about details, such as eating in a restaurant, helping her pull a chair, asking her to order or asking her more about her taste when ordering. These behaviors are reflected in every detail of life and can leave a good impression on each other.
3, chat topics should be relaxed
When we meet for the first time, in fact, two people don't have too many topics to chat freely from the beginning, so boys must take the initiative, don't look too old-fashioned, make people feel like running away, talk more about relaxed and pleasant topics, start with girls' hobbies and talk more about women's sexy interests.
4. The topic of discussion should not be private and sensitive.
Don't discuss too sensitive and personal topics without knowing each other. Don't ask each other about their past emotional state, and don't discuss sensitive topics such as religion without knowing each other, so as to avoid the embarrassing situation that what you hate is exactly what the other person likes.
Second, the details that boys should pay attention to on blind date
1, little tricks appear
You don't realize these little tricks. You usually get used to them, but the consequences will be serious. Don't change your sitting posture frequently when dating, don't shake your legs, shake your head and look around. These little moves are very easy to arouse others' disgust. Boys always fail in blind date, because boys make girls look immature and too many small moves give each other a bad impression. The first impression should be calm. After all, it is a blind date, and the age is naturally not small.
Step 2 act natural
Don't be nervous, just like facing an ordinary friend. The more nervous, the easier it is to make a fool of yourself. Speak naturally, listen more, and try to extract more information from the other person's less language, such as whether the other person likes you or not, and whether the other person is slow or introverted. Self-confidence is the most important thing. Many girls like confident boys, even if they have no car or house, their hearts are not empty.
Step 3 dress
Not long ago, there was a news that a man wore a pair of special shoes to go on a blind date and was hacked. Dressing is really important. Dress doesn't need to be too formal, you can be a little casual, don't wear fancy clothes, it's best to be clean and tidy. In fact, in this world of looking at appearance, we should pay more attention to our clothes and appearance and give ourselves extra points.
Third, matters needing attention in blind date
1, don't "audit" as soon as you come up.
A person's basic situation is stereotyped and can't be changed anyway. You'll know sooner or later anyway. There is no need to ask in a hurry. It will only disgust people and seriously destroy the chat atmosphere between two people. When the topic of "audit" is asked at the end, it will definitely usher in a very embarrassing chat atmosphere.
Deliberately avoiding asking about the basic situation will make the other person unable to hold back first, have a strong curiosity about you, and try to talk about interesting content and relaxed content.
2. Give the other person a chance to speak.
The weakness of human nature says:
"Talking is like passing a ball and catching it. It's never a one-way pass. If one of them misses the ball, there will be awkward silence until someone picks it up again and continues to pass the ball, and everything can return to normal. "
So don't just talk to yourself, try to let the other person talk more and don't interrupt, because after being interrupted by you, you will lose your previous enthusiasm and interest and the atmosphere will be destroyed.
Whether the other person likes it or not, just say what he wants to say, and don't give the other person a chance to speak. This is a big no-no.
3. Avoid arguments as much as possible.
If you don't agree with each other's views or can't understand each other's hobbies when chatting, don't argue. People are different and have certain differences, including differences in ideas, emotions and hobbies. Even if you can't accept it, learn to respect it.
You know, we can never change another person, and the result can only be a bad breakup.