? First of all, in the face of the confusion and inconsistency of the help seekers, the positive and optimistic outlook on human nature and life of psychological counselors should be the keynote of the counseling atmosphere. Secondly, counselors should take the initiative to guide the seekers to think. Guiding refers to guiding from the current topic to another topic. Guidance does not directly suggest changing the topic, but leads to a new topic from the original topic. Finally, we must master the clarification technology. Clarification techniques are often used in consultation. Simply put, through the clarification of the problem, the helper can know his current predicament, know his position, confirm his boundary, clarify those vague ideas and problems expressed by the helper, and grasp the real situation.