Part I: Experience in Educating Children Model essay 1500 Today's children are all only children, and everyone in the family loves them dearly. At the same time, everyone realizes that children are becoming more and more difficult to manage. Many parents have the same experience, neither soft nor hard, but now family education is very important, and no one can ignore it. Now let's talk about our experience:
1. The topic of women's education and training cannot be explained quickly. It needs a rather difficult, complicated and long stage, and then through this stage, we will constantly sum up experiences and lessons and take measures, which may or may not be successful. But as long as you have been working hard, paying painstaking efforts and costs, and treating everything correctly, there will be good results.
I don't deliberately raise children, but the necessary care and education are not omitted. The first is to learn how to communicate with each other, how to cultivate the feelings between father and son, and how to talk to him. You needn't talk about the truth. At this point, some parents mistakenly think that telling the truth to their children will have good results, but it is not necessarily true! Children are born naive and like to listen to exciting things, while people who are not excited will dislike you or even alienate you, so they can't communicate. This is very important. I think if my children like me and get close to me, it will be the first step to success. Next, it is not impossible for him to listen to the truth occasionally. Of course, don't push your luck, or he will be completely abandoned. The reason should be easy to understand, as long as he understands, he will stop immediately, otherwise he will give up the important reason. In addition, after children get along with their parents, they will naturally ask many questions for their parents to answer. Parents must seriously answer anything that can be answered. If the child is blind, he will ask fewer questions. At this time, the gap began to appear.
2. Don't object to anything that children are interested in, even if it doesn't help him obviously. Parents must learn how to "fly with the wind". Of course, anyone can tell the truth, but it is not so easy to do it. I often forget myself when I am upset.
Education and training are two inseparable parts. Therefore, in the process of educating women, we should pay attention to cultivating children's specialties and hobbies.
3. Paying attention to children's ideological and moral education is the first factor and key to determine their future life path. Children will inevitably be negatively affected by the surrounding environment during their growth. Therefore, we should educate our children from the front, help them distinguish right from wrong, be true and kind, and cultivate their kindness, tolerance, positive optimism and compassion. Good qualities such as objectivity and justice, as well as codes of conduct such as loving the collective, respecting teachers and abiding by all rules and regulations.
Pay attention to the cultivation of children's behavior habits. Once good behavior habits are developed, children will benefit for life. First of all, let children do what they can, such as doing housework. Secondly, let children develop the habit of independent learning and thinking. In view of children's hyperactivity and inattention, we consciously guide children to make their own study plans.
4. To be a guide for children, parents should start from themselves. Parents are places where children imitate and set an example. Therefore, parents should start from themselves, and the words and deeds that are not conducive to children must never be revealed in front of children; When criticizing children in education, parents should agree and have to disagree, and spend more than 1 hour every day to communicate with children to understand their learning situation and school situation; Ask him every day about his excitement and unhappiness at school, so that the child's emotions can be vented, so as to grasp the signs of unexpected development in time; In learning, parents should learn synchronously with their children, consult relevant materials for the key points and difficulties of their children's learning, and grow up with them.
5. Be good at tapping children's potential advantages and cultivating children's specialties and hobbies. Every child has his strong points. Parents should develop their strengths and avoid weaknesses, be good at tapping their children's upper hand and conduct conscious training. I think parents should first be familiar with or good at the relevant content of children's specialties, and guide and encourage children to persist in learning. I believe that the income will be high. Children's thinking is born out of curiosity and hobbies, and parents should never erase the traces of their children's flashes. In response to children's curiosity or all kinds of strange questions, we always patiently answer them and observe them with them, so that they can be inspired and use their brains in the process of experiencing feelings. Children's hobbies, such as skating, swimming, cycling, playing ball games, etc. We all let him try and exercise.
6. To educate children, we must start with small things, find bad clues, correct them in time, nip them in the bud and avoid connivance. It is very wrong and dangerous to think that children will naturally understand when they grow up and get used to it. Farmers should plant cowpeas from an early age and guide cowpeas to grow along poles, so as to absorb enough sunlight and air and produce rich and beautiful cowpeas. If the bean seedlings grow up, they can't blossom and bear fruit, or they can only bear skinny cowpeas, and then they are guided by Homo erectus. I am afraid that even if some branches are broken, it is not easy to produce good beans. Isn't education a woman's business?
7. Give children more spiritual encouragement and keep cheering for them on the road of life. The road to growth is long and uneven, so parents should give them more enthusiasm and care, so that they have the confidence to overcome failure. These are my own experiences in the process of educating children. Of course, this is not comprehensive. In the future education process, I will try to find more ways and summarize more, and strive to do better and more comprehensively.
Next, I will share with you 10 "Love Method".
First, look at children with loving eyes.
Second, face the child with a loving smile.
Third, listen to children with love.
Fourth, look for children with loving eyes.
Fifth, use the desire for love to mobilize children.
Sixth, infect children with the details of love.
Seven, encourage children with the language of love.
Eight, discipline children with love.
Nine, tolerate children with a loving attitude.
Ten, return the opportunity of love to the child.
Chapter II: Experience in Educating Children Model essay 1500 Children are the treasure in every parent's heart, and we all expect them to grow sturdily. In the process of educating children, besides teachers, parents also play an important role. Family education is as important as school education. My daughter is six and a half years old and has just entered the first grade of primary school. In the process of educating children to grow up, my deepest experience is:
A warm family environment is the source of children's healthy growth.
Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents must not always quarrel with their tongues in front of their children, which will make them feel fear, inferiority or even disgust, which will not only alienate the feelings between children and parents, but also lead to extreme behavior among peers. Giving children a safe, comfortable and warm home is the first step to teach them. Family members should love each other and live in harmony. In this regard, we use practical actions to let our daughter feel the warmth of the family.
Second, it is very important to cultivate children's good moral character step by step.
Our daughter started kindergarten at the age of 3 and entered the formal education system. We should lay a good foundation for her to take the first step in life and cultivate some good qualities in her life, so as to get rid of the common problem of "self-centered" contemporary only child.
You can tell her the story of "Kong Rong makes pears" and put it into practice, so that she can understand the truth of respecting the old and loving the young; Tell her that it is very happy to help others and let her know that she should help others; When playing with friends, give and take and so on. In my spare time, I often play games with my daughter. I said the last sentence: "My sister fell." The daughter added, "I'll help her up right away." We will never get tired of such games.
Third, cultivate children's hands-on and self-care potential.
The importance adults attach to children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether adults attach importance to it or not, and whether the educational methods are correct or not, the first is the concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is especially important for children to have a good habit of loving their work. Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's independence, sense of responsibility, self-confidence, willpower and other good qualities and various potentials.
Therefore, when my daughter was very young, I began to ask her to do some housework as much as I could. Such as: packaging toys, dressing, washing handkerchiefs, washing socks, making beds, etc. Of course, children often can't do well, so we can't judge them by the standards of adults. As long as the child has made efforts, parents should fully affirm it. This is a challenge for them, and it requires children to make great efforts.
Fourth, let children be less stressed and more simple.
After studying, we should pay attention to let the children relax properly, take half an hour to walk and jog every night, use this time to understand the children's spiritual needs, and often have heart-to-heart talks with children, observe the children's physical and mental changes at any time, and be good at opening their hearts with small things in life.
Learn to look at your child with appreciation, and be good at catching the bright spot in her. Don't compare your own children with others' children, compare your children's present and past, look at their progress vertically, find and affirm any achievements they have made in time, let them feel our praise and encouragement, and improve their self-confidence and good study habits.
Children's hearts are sensitive. What kind of seeds are sown, what kind of flowers and fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents will sow the seeds of beauty, kindness and friendliness. Let beautiful, kind and friendly flowers bloom in children's hearts. Don't let the "ambitious" psychology become the pressure of children, let nature take its course and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, so that children can study easily. Believe that gold always shines!
Part III: Experience in Educating Children Model essay 1500 Family is a child's first school, parents are a child's first teacher, and they are also role models for children's growth, so good family education plays a vital role in children's life.
When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach my children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and know a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of dealing with people, so that they can develop a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Of course, for children who are only over two years old, vague teaching of abstruse truth can't make him understand the meaning, and children naturally won't understand it, so they need to start from bit by bit in life.
(A) The first is to create a good family environment.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity and numbness, all because of the lack of love in the family. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Parents should set an example.
In family education, parents are role models for children, and their words and deeds will have a great influence on children inadvertently. Therefore, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, can they think about whether they have done this? I remember once, when the child made a mistake, I severely reprimanded him and said some harsh words, saying that if you do this again, I will hit you.
I didn't think there was a problem at first, but later he actually learned this sentence and kept saying that I hit you. This makes me regret and feel sad. I regret that I shouldn't have said this to my children before. Sadly, my child said this to my mother. Therefore, when children can still correct, we parents must be cautious and think twice about our every move. No matter how angry you are, think about what effect I will have on the children.
(3) Appropriate rewards and punishments, seeking truth from facts.
If the child is right, we should praise him attentively, and if the child is wrong, we should correct him in time. Reward and punishment should be measured, and enough is enough. Although education experts advocate praising children more at present, I think this should be divided a little because I have personal experience.
Children play with building blocks when they are over one year old. It was a mistake, but I think he praised and encouraged him in the first game. I tried to promote his progress, but it backfired. Instead, every time I take it, I make mistakes and become stubborn. No matter what I said, he still didn't understand, which made me think that if I had corrected him the first time he took it, maybe this wouldn't happen now.
Therefore, I insist that parents should seek truth from facts when praising their children, and should not praise them blindly. Of course, the criticism is more moderate. If you criticize too much, or even hit your child, your child will gradually become rebellious. The child did something wrong, but still insisted on using reason to persuade him that he could not turn over the old account. The most important thing is that what you say can make children understand and listen.
I will tell my child a lot of truth when he did something wrong before. As a result, he still went his own way. After listening to the recommendation of experts, children can understand what you say better, and don't say some vague truths. And when the child loses his temper willfully, he won't listen to anything you say, so my approach is to treat it coldly, let the child make trouble by himself, and parents can look on coldly. When the child feels that crying is meaningless, we will talk to him about it when he calms down, which is more effective.
Let him know that if you keep telling him this and that when he loses his temper, it will only aggravate the development of the situation. If the crying continues, then we can only take him away from the scene and distract the child, which may be better.
(4) Let children learn to respect others.
Let children learn to respect others. First of all, parents should learn to respect their children. This is my consistent insistence. When the child is very young, I can squat down and listen to his advice. Some people will say, what can such a small child think? In fact, although the child is young, he is still an individual, and he has thoughts, so we should respect him more.
For example, children bring toys every time they go out. At first, his grandfather always stopped him from bringing toys, but after a long time, he didn't go out. Although the toy is put down, it will cry for a long time. Now think about it, crying at that time may be because of dissatisfaction with the disrespect of adults. After that, I discussed it with the children. At first, I discussed with him what toys to take out. Gradually, he took the initiative to discuss with me and became obedient.
Even outside, when children get along with children, I will teach them to respect others. For example, if he sees other children's toys and wants to play with them, I will teach him to discuss with them, "If you don't play, can you give me the toys for a while?" When other children want his toys, I will teach him, "Give the toy to this child for a while, will you?" Everything depends on the child's own wishes, and the wishes of adults cannot be imposed.
I've made such a mistake before. When I was playing with my friend's children, I saw my friend's children crying for toys. I always grabbed their toys for other children without thinking. Therefore, since then, children have developed the habit of holding toys and crying when they take them off while sleeping. I feel that I hurt his self-esteem, and my disrespect for him has caused him serious consequences. Although with the passage of time, the children gradually recovered.
(5) Cultivate children's work habits.
When the child just knew how to sit, we had put him on the stool to have dinner with his family. Although he couldn't eat by himself at that time, we insisted that he see how adults eat, so the child slowly learned to eat by himself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, washing dishes and moving stools.
Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not putting his toys around and littering.
(6) Cultivate children's study habits.
There was a time when my family watched too much TV and my children watched too much TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So at this moment, my family learned to read, even if they didn't read, they also learned to read. Although the time is not long, the habit is gradually formed, and it would be better if it were accumulated bit by bit.
As the saying goes, it is better to read thousands of books than to take Wan Li Road. Therefore, as long as I have time, I will still take my children out for a walk. Learning knowledge in nature can make children understand it better. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The point is that children love it. I think it is most important to cultivate interest.
(7) Don't spoil children.
The child's father is often in other places, and the child can't see his father several times a year, so as a mother, I should not only do my mother's duty but also be the protagonist of my father. So I always want to cultivate the child's masculinity intentionally or unintentionally, but I spoil him and spoil him. For example, if a child falls, I never help him up. I always encourage him to fall and get up again, and then pat off the dirt.
If it's broken, even if it hurts, it won't show. Just tell him it's okay. So at this time, the child fell. As long as it's not serious, he hardly cries. Instead, he comforted me and said, "Mom, I'm fine!" " Although it seems that I am cold-blooded, I think I did the right thing, especially for a boy, we must cultivate his strong character and not be cowardly.
The above is my little experience, or that sentence, every child is an independent individual, so every child has his own unique personality, and there is no omnipotent education. It can only be every parent's continuous exploration and practice in family education. Some people say that children are the second life of parents, and parents grow up in the process of children's growth. Let's grow up with them!
Chapter IV: Experience in Educating Children Model essay 1500 Violence can only bring violence, and communication is the correct way to solve the problem. Many parents are very concerned about their children's education. Every parent wants to educate excellent children, but sometimes he is too hasty. We should take our time and grow together. The following is the experience of parents in educating their children: moral education must start with children.
Almost every family in China wants to have a successful child and a successful daughter. According to modern education, it means studying well and being admitted to a famous university. Therefore, in real life, most parents pay more attention to their children's intellectual input, and enroll their children in many interest classes and cram schools, which tend to neglect moral education and personality cultivation in early childhood. When children are teenagers and begin to enter adolescence and rebellious period, the difficulty of education and training will increase a lot.
My daughter is four years old. She studies in Class 3, xx Kindergarten, xx City. I am xx years old, and my child has naturally become the apple of my husband and wife's eye. I gave my daughter an English name "xx", which means angel.
But when the child was one and a half years old, my wife and I began to pay attention to and discuss the moral education of the child, especially my wife. Children should be polite to their elders from an early age, greet them when they meet, and educate them not to spit or litter. Once, I deliberately threw a waste paper ball in front of her, and the child immediately said, "Dad is uncivilized and litters." I immediately admitted my mistake in front of the children. We also pay special attention to training children to obey the rules, such as learning to line up in order, crossing the road without running a red light, walking on the sidewalk, crossing the road with a zebra crossing and so on.
Children's moral education also includes learning to share, learning to love, and learning to honor the elderly. Together with other children, in addition to sharing food, she is also required to bring her beloved toys to the kindergarten, so that all children can participate and let her experience happiness in sharing! When the daughter was born, her grandparents had been arranged to live in a nursing home. Similarly, her mother did very well. There are four Sundays in a month, and there are two Sundays. I must take my daughter to Yikang Hospital in Yantian, Shenzhen to reunite with the elderly (there are also two Sundays when the children's uncles and aunts take their children to visit the elderly). For more than four years, we have never stopped, because we understand that the filial piety of the Chinese nation for thousands of years needs to be passed down and carried forward.
In the process of children's growth, there will always be wayward, naughty and even small mistakes in daily life. In the process of educating children, we must pay attention to the occasion and never educate and admonish children in front of many people, especially grandparents, grandparents and many relatives and friends. The former is easy to rescue soldiers and fails to educate children; The latter is easy for children to lose face, but it will be more rebellious and the effect of education will be greatly reduced. When you are alone with your child, you should patiently reason with your child and let him know what is wrong. Similarly, when educating children, we must pay attention to ways and means, less reprimand, less abuse, more praise and more encouragement, and cultivate children's self-confidence. At the same time, let the children know the shortcomings, and more importantly, let the children know how to make up for them.
Of course, I also have a lot of confusion about my children's future education. In today's superior material conditions, how to put an end to children's comparison psychology, how to cultivate her spirit of thrift, hard work and simplicity, and how to prevent children from indulging in video games. These are what my wife and I have learned and understood for four years.