The student is obviously impatient. She eagerly told me, if there is a connection in the ambiguous period, how can we make boys pay more attention to themselves and take the initiative to further warm up the connection?
First of all, from this example, the man takes the initiative to pay money every time, which shows that he has a good impression on girls. Boys are also considering it, and there are likely to be many other options.
The boy took the initiative to ask the girl's emotional experience, which shows that he also included the girl in the category of considering the goal.
At this stage, there is no need to expose the sense of demand as much as possible. It is necessary to speed up the promotion and display of their own use value, and show their stronger side with the help of WeChat circle of friends and friends, so as to attract boys.
Chatting should be more interesting, unexpected, and unchangeable, and stand out in the range that boys can choose, so that boys will tend to you.
In fact, sometimes the love between a man and a woman is warm at first, but after a long time, a man is easily regarded as a spare tire. At this moment, we need to promote the relationship between two people in some ways. How to guide boys to be girlfriends for you?
1 Stimulate each other with other friends of the opposite sex.
For the kind of boy who only cares about warmth but doesn't give him a name, you need to distance yourself from him resolutely and let him know that you don't just like the warmth with him.
Girls can talk about people who have a good impression on you in their daily life in the near future, and also confess to you. You never know whether you should accept them or not.
At this time, if you have a good impression on the man, you will be anxious.
2 Learn to invest with emotion.
In a relationship, in addition to temporary investment and money investment, emotional investment also plays a particularly important role. In other words, if you can correctly guide the other person to improve your emotional input, the other two inputs piled on you are certainly not easy.
Many people don't express their feelings because they show enough emotional use value in ordinary communication and make the other person feel comfortable with you. If they want to be with you all the time, they have a confession
The word emotion, in social psychology, is another name for a series of full-time work experiences, and it is a mental state produced by the synthesis of various feelings, concepts and personal behaviors.
Emotionally, emotional involvement is actually the feeling of making the heart beat faster and making the other person feel that he loves you.
Have you ever experienced it? In the whole process of chatting with the cold male god, I was already anxious and excited. Talk to me, talk to me. Suddenly, the cold male god didn't reply to your message.
At this time, you must be beating drums in your heart: Did I say something wrong? After more than ten minutes, I finally responded, and you sighed deeply: I thought too much, and I was right. He is always in a bad mood for a while, which causes your mood ups and downs.
When you cause such emotional ups and downs, you will also be curious. Why on earth is this? The first part of your research is the whole process of your emotional investment in her.
Similarly, in fact, emotional involvement will make him always care about your changes, and he will spend a lot of energy to scientifically study why the other person is like this and why. When he spends time, his feelings for you will gradually arouse, and then you will gradually become different from others in his heart, which is the effect of making that person's mood fluctuate.
3 use the word _ to allude.
Sometimes girls are shy and hate forcing each other to admit their girlfriend's true identity. At this time, you also use the word _ to hint at him. For example, people say that everyone has been together like lovers for so many years, but I didn't expect you to make it clear.
If a boy reacts at the moment, he is obviously playing dumb and pretending to be clear.
Naturally, this is only under normal circumstances. In order to make yourself feel better, you can face up to his feelings for you and propose to find a moderate opportunity to make it clear immediately and clearly put forward your doubts about this relationship.
You can find a suitable opportunity to say that you don't want to have all contact with him anymore, because you are not sure about everyone's relationship, and then join the blacklist and all his contact numbers except electricity.
See each other's reaction. If he really loves you, he will try his best to contact you and explain his feelings.
If the boy is avoiding the situation and refuses to get a response, it is suggested to stop heating up again in stages until the other party gets an answer. When this relationship can't be maintained, make friends or say goodbye afterwards.
4 improve their own use value and show "scarce resources".
Boys have an unspeakable desire to reject warm girls. Using this basic principle, we can introduce competitors into the warm taste, show "scarce resources" and attract boys to swear sovereignty.
What are scarce resources?
It is the scarcity of things that attracts everyone to compete. Using everyone's body is to show that everyone is paying attention to many equally outstanding boys, and it is more infectious for boys to get this result by pressing the edge.
For example, if you mention to a boy that you want to go to a restaurant, he will have all the reactions if he goes. At this moment, instead of showing all your dissatisfaction, you immediately posted a beautiful photo of going to a restaurant with other little boyfriends the next day; Or refuse his invitation and say, "I have an appointment with someone else."