A friend Xiaoyun told me that her parents asked her three sisters to pay hundreds of thousands for her brother's marriage, and the down payment for her brother's new house was also shared by the sisters. Xiaoyun was very angry at that time. Xiaoyun said that he had to give everything to his brother since he was a child. He wants to protect his brother and give him all the good things. I didn't expect that even his brother would buy a house now. Xiaoyun's two sisters accepted it obediently. Xiaoyun bought a house with her husband after she got married. The down payment of her house is borrowed from others, and she has to pay back thousands of dollars in loans every month. Xiaoyun's parents didn't lend her any help when she was most in need, and kept asking her for money. Xiaoyun was really cold at that time. ?
At that time, after Xiaoyun went out to work, only 1000 yuan was left every month, and all the rest was called to his mother. Xiaoyun's mother said at the time that the money would be saved for her and given to her when she got married. But in the end, I didn't give Xiaoyun a penny. Xiaoyun said that she was really stupid at that time and was instilled with the idea of helping her brother from an early age. She thinks it is natural for her parents to buy things for her brother with her money, which is better for her brother.
After Xiaoyun got married, she saw her mother-in-law treat her daughter, only to find that not every girl lives like her, and others love her daughter very much. At that time, Xiaoyun began to reflect on what kind of life she had lived before and how her parents treated her since childhood. Why does she always have to accept the ideas instilled in her by her parents? Xiaoyun said that she didn't understand what it was like to have the pain of her elders and her husband until she got married. Xiaoyun thinks she should change. She should live for herself and her small family. She shared her brother's wedding money with her sisters, and the money for the house was gone. I just think the money is filial to my parents, and I won't spend money for my brother in the future. She will still honor her parents on holidays.
It's really scary to have Voldemort's parents. This kind of daughter with bottomless parents loves her son. In my heart, daughters are just tools to make money, and sons are the children they really love. But what's the use of such a son? If you don't work hard, your sister will pay for yourself. At the end of the day, when parents need to take care of him, or when his daughter takes care of him at the bedside, his son probably won't see anyone.