My brother got married and had no money to buy a house, but my sister had money, so I lent my brother 65,438+10,000 yuan. After buying a house, my brother was depressed and didn't make any money for a

My brother got married and had no money to buy a house, but my sister had money, so I lent my brother 65,438+10,000 yuan. After buying a house, my brother was depressed and didn't make any money for a year. My sister urged him to pay back the money. It depends on how my sister urges me.

If you just talk verbally, just remind me that this is normal. After all, 65,438+10,000 yuan is not a small sum.

If the tone is firm, you must return it. I suggest my brother and sister sit down and talk face to face, explain their situation to my sister, and discuss whether to return part of it next year or first.