First, give them enough face. Because they are our elders, they have experienced much more social experience than we do, so in their hearts, they usually feel that their decisions and speeches are decisive and authoritative. When we communicate with them, we must respect them and affirm that their experience over the years is reasonable. At the same time, put forward your own views and opinions and ask them to help us make a decision, so that we can open the communication channels first and avoid many communication troubles later. After communicating with your elders, you must respect them.
Second, targeted communication. When we usually communicate with our elders, we will be brought to other topics by other topics of our elders, and then lose the goal of communication. For example, if you are discussing with your mother whether to resign after the year, you may lose the meaning of this conversation because of other things. In the end, I can't help you make a decision, and I waste time communicating with each other. So when communicating with them, we must pay attention to the sense of purpose;
Third, respect each other's position. Know how to think from the other person's point of view. Why is he worried about you? The advice I give you is for your consideration. If you have such an idea, there will be no contradiction between you and your elders. We see that there are many contradictions between the younger generation and the older generation on the internet, in fact, because you can't consider the problem from each other's point of view.
When communicating with elders, we must pay attention to their face, but we must also communicate with the target and don't be led astray by them. The most important thing is to think from their perspective, so as to avoid some communication conflicts.