In the process of blind date, listen to each other's thoughts and opinions as much as possible. Through conscious questioning and in-depth conversation, we can understand each other's values, outlook on life and morality. Then listen carefully to each other's answers and observe each other's reaction to some sensitive topics or conflicts of values. If the other person has strong expressive ability, it is best to ask questions to guide the topic, and then let the other person express more. This way is very efficient for observing blind date men, because men really talk too much, especially when it comes to things they are familiar with, and at this time, just watch quietly.
Besides words, politeness is also very important. Observe each other's attitudes and behaviors in daily life, including communication with others, ways to deal with problems, and attitudes towards family, work and social responsibilities. All these can give you some clues to understand each other's values and morality. The simplest thing is to see how the other party treats the service staff. If you are rude to the waiter in a restaurant, then this person must have a bad character. Of course, being polite enough to the service staff does not necessarily mean being a good person. There is no formula for screening blind date objects, only exclusion method.
In addition, we can also judge a person's three views from his hobbies. To put it simply, those who like mobile games and tennis are definitely more popular. Sports is not only a hobby, but also represents a healthier life concept. Those who play games as a hobby are usually addicted to games. Understand each other's hobbies and try to explore whether there are similarities. * * * The same hobby can reflect the lifestyle and value orientation of both parties, thus indirectly understanding each other's three views. Besides interest, you can also consciously discuss some important topics, such as marriage, family, career and religion. By discussing these topics, we can gradually understand each other's positions and viewpoints.
Alfred has always liked American dating culture. Blind date is dating. We will date, meet and chat, but we are still inspecting each other. It's not the same as establishing a relationship. Although the above methods can help you understand each other's three views, blind date is only the beginning. Real understanding takes time and getting along. Constant communication helps to better understand each other's three views and determine whether it is suitable for establishing a long-term relationship.