Xiao Li is my college classmate. When we called today, he told me that he broke up with his girlfriend Xiao Wang. Xiao Wang broke up first, and he agreed. He said he was too tired to see the future. Actually, I know both of them very well. We have known each other since we were in college. Xiao Wang is our junior, one year younger than us. At that time, we were sophomores, junior Wang Dayi. He signed up for the school reading club and was assigned to Xiao Li's department. At that time, Xiao Li was a minister, and then he often took her to do activities. Xiao Wang is also very active every time. As long as there is something, he must be there. At the end of the term, he often reviews books in the library. In this way, in the second half of sophomore year, suddenly one day, Xiao Li said that they were together, so we celebrated noisily. In the afternoon, we go to eat together, and then we go to sing together. In KTV, they basically sing together, and we are only responsible for lighting. After that, we basically go to the library together, play games together, eat together, go out to play together on weekends, especially before going to bed every night, we have to say a lot of nicknames. In this way, until our senior year, Xiao Li decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and Xiao Wang also supported it. They almost soaked in the library. When we graduated from our senior year, we took part in the work. Xiao Li was admitted to Ann's graduate school, and Xiao Wang went to his senior year to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. Because of the epidemic, they didn't meet often, but they contacted each other every day to encourage Xiao Wang to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but it was not satisfactory. Xiao Wang didn't pass the exam. After that, she returned to her home in the south and found a job as a bank clerk. She usually goes to work at leisure and chats with Xiao Li on the phone when she is free. However, as time goes by, the topics between the two are less and less. Because the epidemic situation is rare, Xiao Wang's family has been urging Xiao Wang to find a reliable boyfriend to get married. Xiao Wang wanted Xiao Li to go home and meet his parents, but Xiao Li kept putting it off, and then the two sides quarreled about it. There was less contact slowly until Xiao Wang broke up a few days ago, saying that talking about a boyfriend was like talking about a netizen. I can't see or touch every day, and my family has been urging me. She refused, and Xiao Li agreed.
Later, Xiao Li told me that there was no way, there was no hope, he was still at school and had no financial ability. The money that the ordinary farmer can get at home is for his school, and he really can't do anything else. He usually buys gifts and cosmetics for Xiao Wang himself. He can earn money by working and summer vacation, but he has to visit his parents. What did Xiao Wang take home? She is the only daughter in the family. Her parents want her to stay with them and buy a house and get married locally, but how can he buy a house? Moreover, his graduate students have just started to learn, and it will take several years. In recent years, he has not explained anything. Besides, his family is in the north, and his parents are old and have to take care of themselves. He can't settle down in the south, he can only end this relationship. There is no way.
After listening to this, I felt sorry for them. After being together for so long, I failed to make a positive result, but there is really no way in reality. Maybe separation is a better choice, which is good for him and her. After all, reality is reality.