How many parents are going to prepare a house for their daughter? I'm afraid it's pathetic
This is a survey on rural land certificate:
80.2% of women have no registered name on the certificate of homestead use right, and 44.2% of women have never owned land.
In other words, for most rural areas in China, wealth is still passed down from generation to generation. As a daughter, the possibility of inheriting her parents' inheritance is less than 20%.
What about girls with urban hukou? Only child, the situation will be more special. Generally, those who have the ability at home may prepare an extra house for their daughter before marriage.
My best friend is very clever. Before getting married, her mother prepared a house for her. Although after marriage, Cancan still lives with her husband in the wedding room bought by her mother-in-law, but she has a room in her hand and doesn't panic. Kangkang has a lot of say at home.
And my other best friend Tingting has a younger brother on it, so her parents are unable to prepare a house for their daughter. After marrying her husband, Tingting had to be a full-time mother because there was no old man to take care of her children.
Five years have passed, and Tingting's road to finding a job again is very bumpy. She decided to study preschool education because kindergarten teachers can take care of children.
Once when eating, Tingting inadvertently said: I don't know why women want to get married? Getting married is really tiring, so tired. I looked into her tired eyes and couldn't speak.
20 18 The introduction of the new marriage law also poured cold water on stay-at-home mothers.
The marriage law stipulates that there are three things that my mother can't take away after divorce.
One of the most important items is real estate. Many treasure mothers, when they get married, their husbands make a down payment, and then both husband and wife repay the loan. Because we have to repay the loan together after marriage, there are the names of the couple on the real estate license.
The real estate license has its own name, which is not only the embodiment of husband's love, but also the guarantee for the future. After all, mothers have to have children and raise children, and those without the help of the elderly need to be full-time mothers. There is no name in the room. Why is my mother at home?
But the provisions of the new marriage law: there is a name on the real estate license, which doesn't count! As long as the husband pays the down payment on the house, the house has nothing to do with you. Even if you participate in mortgage repayment after marriage, you will only compensate for the amount of mortgage at the time of divorce. What about the house? Still none of your business!
As soon as the marriage law was announced, all the mothers in the comment area blew up?
Some people say that in this way, women will never dare to be full-time mothers again; Others said, why do you want to get married under such circumstances? Some women also said that the bride price must be collected, and the bride price should be used to pay the down payment of a house, so that the wife and husband can also have their own houses.
As a mother, I feel cold when I see such laws and regulations.
In the past, the traditional thought was that parents mainly prepared for their sons, and if their daughter got married, her husband and mother-in-law would take care of her, but now the marriage law has broken this tradition.
Marriage can't give her enough protection. I'm afraid only parents can be her backing.
It is conceivable that if the daughter has no pre-marital property, once divorced, the daughter may have nothing. If she is still dragging the child at this time, the only thing she can rely on is her parents. Son's choice is much larger. As soon as the marriage law is changed, it doesn't matter whether there is a house before marriage. As long as the son is excellent, there is no room.
Therefore, as a precious mother with children, I decided to buy a house for my daughter and let my son struggle on his own.