She devoted herself wholeheartedly to her beloved mother, friends and lover.
For people she hates, it is cold-blooded and heartless.
With the development of the plot, Lu's love and hate for him gradually became less clear.
Her love for He Shuhuan stems from her revenge on Wang Xueqin and others, and her hatred for her father stems from her desire for his love. Love and hate, like two ropes, are not only wrapped around Lu, but also around everyone related to her.
1, two stubborn people, love hard.
Taipei 65438-0962, 20-year-old Lu met He Shuhuan for the first time after being whipped by his father at the entrance of Lu Yu.
In order to make her mother live better and raise medical expenses for Li, Lu and He Shuhuan met for the second time as dancers in the Blue Sky Ballroom.
He Shuhuan became interested in Lu and asked her to have an outing and have a good time.
At his birthday party, He Shuhuan resolutely decided to have a relationship with the fourth time he met him.
Just because she touched him, she was so stubborn, competitive, fragile and helpless, which formed such a huge contrast. It is particularly attractive to concentrate on her, so he can't help falling in love with her, and she also wants to make Lu Ruping, who loves him, sad and hurt Wang Xueqin.
The love between He Shuhuan and Lu is divided into beauty and pain. They sometimes walk and run on the mountain road and the seaside, sometimes snuggle and kiss under the tree in front of the flowers, and sometimes quarrel in the hot sun and thunderstorm. When they get better, they will never be separated again, and they will fight to the death.
Clearly in love, but repeated misunderstandings, repeated conflicts, both sides feel uncomfortable, and people around them are also affected by it and worried about it, which is also considered sadistic.
Fu Wenpei's words point out the key points: their personalities are too similar, they are all enthusiastic and persistent.
Similar personalities tend to attract each other and hurt each other.
Lu loves He Shuhuan's thoughtfulness, but he doesn't love his surliness and irrationality. He Shuhuan loves Lu's enthusiasm and kindness, but he doesn't love her stubbornness and willfulness. But they can't get rid of their own shortcomings, leaving only advantages.
Their shortcomings make them very tired, and their advantages keep them in love.
Lu vowed again and again why Uncle Huan should smooth the edges and corners, while He Shuhuan vowed again and again to tolerate the edges and corners. They all know the weaknesses of both sides and are trying to learn tolerance.
However, a leopard cannot change his spots. Lu can't change his stubbornness and He Shuhuan can't change his perfectionism, so there are contradictions.
2. If you cling to hatred, you will lose happiness.
The neglect and neglect of Fu Wenpei and the right whipping have ignited the flame of hatred in my heart.
She thought she hated Lu Zhenhua, Wang Xueqin and several children in Lu Zhenhua and Wang Xueqin, and vowed to get back at each of them.
So, she investigated her whereabouts and found out her extramarital affair with Wei and the true life experience of Second Sister Liu.
She was cruel to Liu Erhao and opposed his love with Yu Fang.
She resented Lu Mengping for targeting her. She saw Lu Mengping being taken away by hooligans in the ballroom and deliberately refused to lend a helping hand.
Hatred will rebound, and Lu is targeting Liu Erhao and Lv Mengping, and they are also targeting them.
Lu, who grew up in the war, stayed at home and devoted herself to protecting her mother. She always has to be careful of Wang Xueqin's injury, and she is extremely vigilant, and has developed a particularly stubborn and competitive character.
This kind of personality, not only He Shuhuan can't understand, but even his father, brother and sister are complaining, which is sad and helpless.
It is even more painful to suffer from being born in a family but not being able to escape from it.
3, self-assertion, delay the happiness of others.
Lu Jia only has his mother Fu Wenpei and his sister Lu Xinping, and Lu Xinping is the most cherished person. Lu Xinping died young at the age of sixteen. Fu Wenpei and Lu's mother and daughter have lived together for many years.
Lu has always defended Fu Wenpei and decided that he was sorry for Fu Wenpei.
What did Lu Zhenhua and Fu Wenpei do? Earlier, he asked Wang Xueqin to frame Fu Wenpei and watched them be driven away. It was only in the middle and late period that I began to pay attention to the feelings of father and daughter for concubines. This is also because he is disappointed in Wang Xueqin, and there is no one around him to trust.
Lu was moved by her father and accepted his gift, but his attitude improved too slowly. She still can't ignore her father's temper and promiscuity and contradict him repeatedly.
My father's attitude towards my mother is the deepest knot in my heart in 20 years. She can't forget her father's unkind feelings towards her mother.
When her father told her to go home with her mother, Lu broke out again and accused her father of ruthlessly separating her mother from her fiance. She said that people are connected and the reason is the same. She and her mother are both women, and naturally they have the same idea.
The consequence of Lu's accusation is disappointment, and Fu Wenpei is also disappointed.
Before her father died, Lu learned from her mother that the person she really loved was her father. She woke up and told her dying father to leave without regret.
Subjectively, it is easy to make mistakes by trying to figure out other people's psychology and making arrangements for others.
People sometimes don't even know their own psychology, how can they study others' psychology clearly?
Lu's character is really difficult to get along with. Strong love and hate, like a flame, make her restless day and night, unable to struggle and escape.
Fortunately, she also has a He Shuhuan, who gave up her plan to go abroad and came back to treat her heart disease before boarding the plane for the United States.
Love is really a good medicine for healing.