Savor a famous book carefully, and everyone will have a new understanding and view of life. At this time, how can the most critical feeling of reading fall! But how to write the feeling after reading? The following is my thoughts on breaking up for your reference, hoping to help friends in need.
As office workers, we have a fast working pace and great pressure. We have little chance to visit the vegetable market, and we have lost patience with such trivial things as cleaning up the house. Moreover, we rarely stop to look inside ourselves.
This is also an important reason why we seldom pay attention to the present. We have no clear concept of "now" more and more. Deadline is full of tasks, always looking at the near future.
Usually, the work pressure is too great, and I play wildly on weekends or holidays. However, seemingly relaxed and "hi", it does not solve the inner pressure, but makes you exhausted.
Because of limited energy, I want too much. I also want to have a successful career and a skill; I also want a beautiful face and a perfect figure; I also want to improve myself through study, and I also want to make more friends and expand my circle. ......
However, what do we really need? What can be done? There is a concept in Chinese painting called "blank space". Blank space in landscape painting can express the open water surface and create a far-reaching artistic conception; Blank space in animal paintings not only highlights the subject, but also allows the subject to move freely. Might as well calm down, carefully examine your room, throw away idle garbage, and create your own free space with cleanliness, comfort and beauty as the standard.
At the same time, I also give up my messy thoughts, recognize what I need now, define my life goals, and live every day more intently and firmly.
We might as well try to use parting to clean up the living space and thinking space for us who are tired of heavy work, to "leave blank" for our own life and live a comfortable life.
After reading this book, I visited JD.COM Shopping Mall on Saturday and opened my "My Order" conveniently. When I saw the recent deal, I was surprised that I forgot to buy these things recently. So I read it from the beginning. The first order, the camera, was bought and tried. The card was unstable and was dumped by the computer. I threw it away when I left school. Second-order, Bei Ya Green Mud, tried twice, but it didn't work. I moved the big jar several times and didn't want to throw it away, but it expired two years later, so I threw it away with peace of mind. In short, this is the result of more than 50% repurchase.
Similar plots are staged every day in my life. I heard that porridge can beautify, so I bought black rice, glutinous rice, red beans, mung beans and kidney beans, and put them in bottles. For a week, the cupboard was never opened again, until the time of cleaning, Mi Chong and beans were thrown into the trash can. Shopping for hiking shoes, hiking shoes and running shoes. In the end, you can't climb the mountain once a year.
In today's rich material life, advertisements can be seen everywhere, and the shopping mode of receiving goods with a click of the mouse leads our life to refinement and complexity. The original intention was to provide comfort. In the end, we were kidnapped by materials and had to spend time sorting out and consuming. Material has become our burden and burden.
You should throw it away and send it home after watching the End of Separation.
Starting today, create an environment surrounded by beloved things and live a simple, clean and high-quality life. With a wise brain and all the knowledge and skills, it is enough to walk freely in the world.
After reading the book, I feel that I can't do anything. I should stop. People who have no chance in life should give up and their obsession should leave. I like this sentence in parting, which makes people suddenly realize. Although parting is told through the arrangement of objects, the protagonist of parting is not the object, but the self, and the time axis is always this moment.
For a person, it is a disaster to be too greedy and ask for too much, which makes his desire swell and often eats himself back. Give up greed, you won't be trapped by desire, you can see the brilliance in human nature and live happily, comfortably and comfortably. The inaccessible space is too congested, and we often lose our initial heart and forget why we live, which will make our life stagnate. The purpose of subtraction is to make life better. Just like the blank space in Chinese painting, the blank space is used as the carrier to render the beautiful artistic conception, which makes the composition and picture of the work more harmonious and exquisite. If the whole painting is full of countless strokes, it will lack beauty and interest.
If you give up, you will get it. I always want a lot of things, but I really need very little; Breaking up, from need to no need, to comfort. Whether you are harvesting or letting go, you should be honest with your heart. No matter how expensive and rare things are, talents who can judge according to their own needs are strong enough. There are many things in our work and life that we need to give up. The "sundries" we throw away are actually more like "redundant obsession" in the invisible world. We need to get rid of some of our stubbornness, reduce some unnecessary desires, unload the invisible burdens we give ourselves, and make our hearts simple and pure. ......
My mother recommended me to read a book "Break Free" during my holiday. I have many feelings.
Breaking is giving up what you don't need at home. The shed is an old thing that has been abandoned for many years. "Separation" is to get rid of the obsession of things, and life should be free.
After reading it, I thought I liked reading very much. When I go out with my mother and see my favorite new book, I always want my mother to buy it with joy. Some books bought at home that I don't like are left alone in the corner, and I will tell my mother after reading them. If you want to do things or buy books in the future, you must learn to adapt yourself to buy them. Books that are not suitable or needed should be obtained by other means.
Because I often buy books, and I am a nostalgic child, so as long as my books are kept by my mother from kindergarten to now, now I think that some books that are still intact after reading can be sold in the Bazaar supermarket in school, or they can be changed to books in the hands of other students, which broadens my horizons and reduces the burden on my parents. How nice!
In fact, in my mind, there are always some lingering distractions, such as: my mother asked me to do something I didn't want to do, signed me up for class without my consent, and bought me some clothes without asking if I liked it. Sometimes I have some unrealistic ideas and should clean them up. So that our life can move forward easily.
I recently read the book "Break Free", which shared a "simplified" attitude and lifestyle, and some * * * sounds I saw and thought of every day. Here, I simply recorded my feelings after reading it.
Common phenomenon: people don't know or seriously think about their own needs. They always want to "go in" a lot of things, but they don't want to "come out" and always want to catch a lot of things.
For example: I want to buy a lot of clothes and articles; Will pay attention to many popular bloggers and official WeChat accounts; Will forward and collect a lot of self-media content; Will download many app；; Will add a lot of social groups. Even if a lot of content is not needed at all, or the demand frequency is extremely low, I don't want to miss or give up. Computers and mobile phones have a lot of files to deal with, and there are too many toys and personal belongings for children at home. There are often many thoughts and impulses, such as wanting to buy this, wanting to do that, setting up various flags and so on.
The meaning of parting:
Cut off material desires and don't start with things easily.
Discard waste, discard unnecessary items.
Get rid of the obsession with people, things and things.
Update irregularly: items, redundant ideas, accumulated negative energy, emotional souvenirs.
Just like metabolism: ingesting food, digesting and absorbing nutrients into energy, and discharging waste.
The essence of parting:
Create time and space (physical space and spiritual space)!
What impressed me the most was that I started reading "Separation" today, taking the present as the timeline. Whether something should be left depends on whether it is "needed, suitable and comfortable".
Some things are memories of the past. I have seen some people keep their paychecks from a long time ago; Some people keep tickets for travel and scenic spots; Someone keeps his girlfriend's hand knitting a sweater. Many people think that these things are emotional. Although they will hardly be turned out now, they feel that they can turn over these things in the sun and recall those good times when they are old.
Some things may be used in the future. I have seen some people buy countless pieces of paper, which can't be put into the bathroom and piled up under the bed; Some people put plastic bags to buy food in the cupboard, even if they don't match the trash can, they are reluctant to throw them away; Some people keep clothes that they haven't worn for years, and they always think they can wear them next year. They need their own things to be in an adequate state forever.
In fact, there is absolutely no need to take the past and the future as the timeline.
Really good memories are always in your heart, and you don't need any external reminders at all, because you have never forgotten them. The best time is now.
It is a sign of insecurity to think that something will be useful in the future and refuse to throw it away. Instead of worrying about the future all day, it is better to save energy and hone your skills. We should make ourselves better and better and be a rational optimist.
Don't indulge in the past, don't worry about the future, and always carefully screen consumption. The criterion for judging is whether you are "needed, suitable and comfortable" now.
As mentioned in the seventh book, many people pay attention to non-daily things. For example, some people will prepare tea sets and bedding for relatives who can't come once a year and friends who come to live occasionally. Some people put a lot of tableware in the cupboard specially prepared for guests, but their families use very few tableware.
I always think that parties should go to hotels or other places. Home is a private place, clean and comfortable. It should be a place you like and even long for. As long as you come back here, you can relax both physically and mentally. I am an otaku, I have few friends, and I don't like friends coming to my house. There is no need to spend money on things once a year, or even once every few years, and there is no need to put on a facade for vanity.
But I will keep the children's room and the necessary things.
After reading this passage, I have another experience:
Not only shopping, but also other aspects of life. There are many things we want to do, but human energy is limited. After returning to Apple, Jobs said: It is very important to decide what not to do. We should concentrate our limited energy on people and things that are important to us. If these two aspects are done well, our life will be greatly improved. If these two aspects are not done well, even if we do more trivial things and spend more energy, it is meaningless and just a waste of life.
After reading the book, it feels like a long paper? The book revolves around "breaking up", with the most emphasis on the concept of "going out", which is the core of "breaking up". Although it is said at the beginning of the book that it is wrong for everyone to throw things at the beginning of the concept of "breakup", to put it bluntly, I think the author has always emphasized throwing things in the book ... Of course, he also mentioned some other things, such as breakup emotions and interpersonal relationships, but he kept saying "packing things and throwing things" from beginning to end, and some of the examples cited were idealistic or extreme. I'm tired, I can't accept this routine ... but I still admire the author. First of all, it should be that he first proposed "breaking up", then did a lot of homework, expounded and demonstrated his views from many angles, and even did his work?
Although I have finished reading it, I still find some things difficult to throw away. I am really a super nostalgic person. I will keep a lot of things from the past well. I am used to the traces of the past, they are too much integrated into my daily life, and then I ignore the present! Learning to "lay down your life" for me is a very long thing. I hope I can deeply understand that if I stay in the past and don't come in the future, I can only be a servant of the present and be an emperor.
The feeling of getting rid of reading 9 The article is mainly divided into three ideas, getting rid of unnecessary and useless desires; Abandon burdens and sundries; Stay away from negative emotions such as obsession.
The full text is expressed in the form of story cases, which belongs to a brisk rhythm. It is a method of sorting out the mind and life, which can make the messy life and mood return to purity.
The concept of "breaking" expresses the central idea that "too much is not necessarily useful", and it stops adding useless troubles and things to your life and mind.
The concept of "giving up" benefited me a lot. Many clothes that have not been worn for two years but are intact can be solved perfectly, and giving up the word is indispensable. Only by giving up bravely can we have a better present and future.
The concept of "separation" is about how to stay away from and avoid the obsession and distractions in your heart.
If you are afraid that you will lose your so-called wolf nature after reading this book, you can rest assured to study it.
Books don't make you think nothing, they just help you lighten the burden, help you run faster, help you live more freely and pursue further.
Without the promotion of Buddhism, this book will tell you that the so-called karma should be fertilized and watered wholeheartedly like planting trees, and never slack off. As for how much fruit can be harvested in the end, it is the real karma.
This book makes me understand that the best relationship with things is careful possession, cherish use and give up bravely.
If used in the state of mind, "parting" can make me more aware of what I want, not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, and not wanting to catch up with the past.
10 after reading, Zhou, a famous Peking Opera artist, has a rich wife in Shanghai. She warned her children: "People should never be with the poor when they are poorest. Everyone is so poor. Who will help you? " Before the 1960s, she realized the social abnormality and tried her best to send five of her six children abroad.
Many people find her writing unpleasant and uncomfortable, but it is not rough, which proves that Qiu is a visionary. Why are the poor poor? Because their thinking is the thinking of the poor. Want to get rid of the status quo, the first thing to change is the way of thinking of the poor.
Check your home. Are there any good tableware that you have been reluctant to use and haven't even opened it? Look at your connections. Do you prefer to make friends with people who are weaker than you? Once you are with someone taller than you, do you feel stressed or uncomfortable?
I can't bear to use better things, because deep down, you feel that you don't deserve luxury goods and high-quality good things. It's hard to be with successful people because you don't think you deserve to make friends with such people. This is the thinking of the poor.
The world is snobbish. No one will really love you when you look down on yourself. The world is snobbish. When you firmly believe that you deserve something better, you will definitely have something better.
If people want to change, they must change themselves from the inside out. Let's start from breaking up and strive for better ourselves and something worthy of better.
After reading 1 1 1 the feeling of running away from home. Not many people can independently realize the great changes that tidying up their living space can bring to their lives, which is precisely the great significance of such a book that systematically introduces Running away from Home.
2. What is parting? It can be said to be a way of life and attitude, giving up unnecessary things, breaking unnecessary desires, leaving unnecessary people, returning your life to normal metabolism, accumulating positive energy and discharging negative energy.
The arrangement of 3.7.5. 1 is very useful. According to this principle, it is really easier to get a pleasant space.
4. Breaking up is full of philosophical thoughts, such as extremes meet, and water overflows. If we pile things too slowly, it will waste the earth's resources, make our living space narrow and messy, and then affect our mood and life experience. If we pile up our desires too much, we will pursue them by hook or by crook, overdraw the energy of life, and finally get no happiness and happiness.
The first step of parting is to think seriously about things I don't need or like, to be brave enough to give them up and to avoid buying. The second step is to arrange each space according to the principle of 75 1, so that the space is concise and artistic. The third step is to form the way of thinking and behavior of breaking up through daily break-up training, constantly create good and orderly interpersonal relationships, and constantly improve and sublimate their free and easy personality characteristics, thus truly changing the original chaotic and disorderly life state.
6. The most important thing is that when we really leave what we like through screening, we can really focus on the people we love without being disturbed by other things. Such a life is truly full, happy and meaningful.
The feeling of being out of reading 12 recently read the book away from home, and I like a sentence very much: if you can't do anything, stop; People who have no chance in life should give up; I can't forget it in my heart, I have to go; In my opinion, everything is a memory; All I think about is the past; Let go of your obsession and return to peace.
Like to like, but giving up these three words is easier said than done.
What can't be done is broken; No, it's not a decision, but you must accept your powerlessness.
People who have no chance in life should give up; Wrong, not to give up, but to accept the absence of both sides.
Here, you have no choice, not that you have the initial intention of breaking up, but that you are forced to accept the result of breaking up.
Then, I'm happy to be here, and I'm obsessed with it.
But even if the result is already in front of you, even if you just need to accept the result, you still can't do it. Under any circumstances, you can't go in if you want, and go out if you want. You don't have the ability to do it with ease.
At this time, the writer Feng Tang will tell you: When you really can't put it down, go to the intensive care unit or the cemetery, and you can easily understand that you have got too much, and then there are greed, too little time and too many interesting things. From the perspective of respecting life, there is no need to entangle.
But this world has never been empathetic, only self-knowledge. You have never experienced the edge of life and death, you will feel that living is a big deal, but those you can't let go are not small things.
There is no need to give up on yourself, because everything you can't let go has your expectation and dedication. People who can't do anything, people who don't have a chance, and people who are obsessed with it, give it to time.
Perhaps, on a sunny morning, you suddenly let go. You can't do anything, you still work hard; You still appreciate those who have no chance to share. It's just that the heart is a little more hell and the heart is a little less heaven.
After reading 13, many years ago, I liked to organize things, especially drawers, so as to get inner peace. Cleanliness has become a symbol of new soul. When I am in a bad mood, I will calm my mood by sorting out my house and drawers.
In recent years, people have paid attention to a new concept of life-"breaking up", and it is the spread of this concept that has quietly changed the lives of modern people. Not to mention the political topics that are contrary to the current China, this simple and concise belief in life can make life more refreshing and free through the purification of the soul, which is a return to the information society in the process of industrialization and a return to the essence of life by modern people.
When reading this book, I didn't realize that there was a kind of "Zen" in my simple behavior for many years. "Tidying up the room is to tidy up yourself. It is not thought that changes action, but action that changes thought. Only with action can the mind keep up with the pace, and breaking up is a kind of Zen. "
Goethe, a German poet, once said, "The greatest sin of mankind is unhappiness". The maintenance of happiness also needs the infiltration of the environment. We should manage our living space with care, keep necessary items through screening, and maintain a comfortable and simple small space with individuals as the main body. From then on, I began to purify and sort out the whole from the material to the spiritual level, and keep a sense of parting, which will become the master of my life.
I read the book Separation by Eiko Yamashita of Japan, 14. You can make a comeback in less than two hours, but it's enough to change your life. When you are confused about whether an item needs to be thrown away, it's time for an internal self-analysis. "Disengagement" is the process of meeting a new self.
I think most people will vomit in their hearts when sorting out housework: there are too many things! Cleaning up is too tiring! But aren't these many things accumulated bit by bit? I don't want to throw it away, but I'm too lazy to tidy it up. Sometimes I grit my teeth and put them in order. The next time I tidy up, I find a bunch of inexplicable things. The original things have been dusty and moldy somewhere. In the long run, I feel that the space is getting smaller and smaller until you are overwhelmed.
Things are like this, and so are people's hearts. They often fall into depressed experiences, feelings of failure and lost time. On the one hand, they make themselves miserable, which may not only ignore the scenery in our present life, but also lose more important things. On the other hand, they make people around them suffer, and their negative emotions slowly push people who love us away from us.
Breaking up is a life arrangement concept put forward by Japanese chores management consultant Eiko Yamashita. The so-called breakup is a kind of action technology to get to know yourself by sorting things out, sort out your inner chaos and make your life comfortable. In other words, it is to clean up the inner garbage by cleaning up the clutter at home and make life happy. Among them, breaking = cutting unnecessary things, giving up = abandoning redundant waste, leaving = leaving attachment to things.
Cut off "off" material desires, "give up" waste, get rid of "separation" obsession, and be a strong spiritual person!
I've heard about this book for a long time, and finally got a chance to read it. It's really helpful to me. In this age of material expansion,
The ideas in the book are like a breeze, which helps me to put down a lot of persistence.
I always feel that I can make the best use of everything, but I can see everything as soon as I enter the mall, especially when my friends are shopping.
I feel sorry for not buying anything. When I went to Guam during the Spring Festival, my colleagues were buying bags, shoes and skin care products. Originally, I thought I didn't need to buy anything, but I bought a lot of unnecessary things. Now you have to bother me about who to give it to. A word that women often say is: Be kind to yourself. So I often listen and believe,
Then I bought a lot of useless things and put them in the cupboard. It's really harmful to be reluctant to throw it.
The book "Separation" not only talks about how to deal with the practical problems of life, but also raises it to a spiritual level. Tell readers how to apply this concept to deal with inner troubles.
How to find and clean up some rubbish in your heart and let positive energy enter? And we can see people's character and state from handling things.
Therefore, I am also trying to clean up unnecessary things at home. Free yourself from the control of material desires. Live a simple and comfortable life. The book also advocates accepting yourself and making a little progress every day, which is really a comfort to me, an impatient person. What's the harm of not doing it well? This is what I need.