Describe the living environment. Looking for a map on the internet is such a house. It was demolished in 2006. 1. No toilet. You should empty the toilet, boil water and take a bath. I hate emptying toilets for fear of meeting acquaintances. I always go after dark, but fortunately, my mother seldom asks me to do so. I don't have my own room, so I share a bed with my mother. I slept for many years. There is no separate kitchen, and the first floor is common. Eat to the third floor, the stairs are very narrow. So in order to run fewer stairs, I practiced a lot of stunts. For example, one hand can carry two thermos bottles and four bottles at a time. 4. Without air conditioning, use ice to cool down in the hottest summer, or keep soaking in cold water. 5. On the roadside, a bus passing by the house will vibrate.
Are there any poor people in Shanghai? Many rural people will think that we can't afford to cry, and the poor in Shanghai can suffer more than the rural areas?
I have never been to the countryside, so I can't answer. I find it hard to be at the bottom.
The environment since childhood is crowded and embarrassing. The new house opposite is getting higher and higher, so high that there is no sunshine. Neighborhood relationship is haggling over every ounce, or being unfamiliar with each other and secretly competing. Describe the material conditions of childhood.
1. Not the poorest, my mother can be a teacher, and her ancestral home is Ningbo. She is willing to pay for studying, making up lessons and buying books, and will not treat me badly. 2. The food is OK. My parents are cooks, and there will be a canteen to bring something to eat. The food I cooked is delicious. Mother is very frugal and will buy cheap vegetables and rotten fruits that are not available in the market. I have no money to buy clothes, so I have to change two clothes in middle school. At that time, I envied my classmates for wearing different clothes every day. 4. Street subsidies are difficult, and school uniforms are generally not required. There is a monthly subsidy of one or two hundred yuan, which is too long to remember. However, every time the school broadcast informs us to collect it, it is extremely shameful. I seldom go to amusement parks, so my father will take me there for free. I will walk there and save money to buy popsicles. 6. I feel nothing else. When I was a child, the gap was not big, and there was no internet.
Inferiority is fine. I just don't like being seen where I live, being seen emptying toilets or something. I really feel inferior and it's hard to live.
I cover my face every time I go to the toilet. Every time I open the door, I am most afraid of mice, but mice often come to visit. And cockroaches. My mother used to work in the suburbs to make money. Come back once a week.
I sleep alone. At night, the mice came to visit, and I was really scared to hide in the quilt and cry. Although I was eighteen at that time. It was demolished in senior year. I didn't get rich, but I improved my accommodation. Thank you.
I lived in a building for the first time, with a toilet and my own room. /kloc-I still remember that feeling after 0/0 years. Like a dream. Afraid of waking up and going back. Then work, the income is still very low. Income in 2007 1500, Shanghai.
Moonlight is certain, because I need it badly, so I desperately buy clothes and cosmetics. Can't afford to buy good ones, buy samples, buy second-hand ones and buy cheap ones.
Now it looks like a joke. You get what you pay. Buying it back and not liking it is the biggest waste.
Then when I was most disheartened, I met my husband, who is in the same industry, and listened to his views. Love him at first sight. I chased him voluntarily. Didn't consider matter.
Young, another joke. Ha ha. He is from other places, studying in Shanghai, a new Shanghainese. Families in debt can't afford a house.
After we fell in love, I moved to rent a house with him, well, try to get married, haha, not live together, haha. Two years. Young, have no idea about buying a house. Still my capable mother, in 2009, she will definitely let us buy a house. There are two reasons, one is a premonition that house prices will rise, and the other is that Shanghai girls have never heard of renting a house to get married.
She offered 1.5 million, and her mother-in-law made up 1 10,000. We take out loans and credit cards for the rest. At that time, my mother-in-law thought we should save more money because she didn't know Shanghai. Now the house price is sky-high, and we all praise my mother for her good eye.
The total price is 700 thousand, and I bought the youngest, the 80 s
At that time, I posted in Tianya housing market about the process of viewing houses. A wave of air force said I was stupid, and the house price was going to fall. Such an old house is not worth it. After all these years, what about the Air Force? Then I started the golden five years of the Internet industry, and my income increased many times.
At my insistence, 12 changed my mother's house and gave my son a primary school district. Duplex, that's enough.
16, you must buy another middle school district. It's all done now. The last precious first set has a 30% chance.
Every time, I cry.
Now I am burdened with huge debts, but fortunately, I can always live. Finally, answer everyone and the subject.
What should the poor do? I think we should accept our fate and not be decadent.
Class is becoming more and more hopeless, but it is easier to live better than before. You can send a courier, you can make a new moon. You can study all your life. Code code.
You can apply for low-rent housing, you can buy Kunshan and get up at five o'clock every day. It is a living method after weighing. For better self.
I am not positive energy, not poisonous chicken soup. Just a kind of realism. And a little desperate spirit.
I don't like some people. While they are lazy, they complain that the country is not good for them and the public security is not good. At the same time, they hate that their work is not free and too hard, and at the same time they blame themselves for being reborn.
All I want is what I can decide and win. Work, house, husband.
I know myself best, so choosing the most suitable is much more important than choosing the best at that time.
Marriage is like this, so is the house. Thank you, many blessings, and occasionally criticize or remind of the risks.
I think my experience is a microcosm of the rise in housing prices in the past decade, including luck, my own unyielding, job-hopping for performance research and so on. Reference is of little significance now.
It's just that I think everyone can break through the predicament, as long as they have a clear position and find the right way or the right person. Timing, hard work and decisiveness are all important.
Maybe I grew up in a small environment, so I am more decisive than many people. Whether I am admitted to a foreign university, choosing a job, chasing a man, buying a house and getting a license, I always keep my word.
Girls can't afford to wait, and I don't think the future is better. I have a simple mind. If you like it, take it. If it doesn't fit, I can't afford it, so be it. Never jealous or regretful.
Just a moment's feeling, share my experience. I didn't want to be an online celebrity, and I didn't want to have much powder to realize or sell in the WeChat business. Ha ha.
In fact, in life, my personality is too distinct, so I don't fit in.
Thanks to Zhihu for taking the time to understand other people's stories, and thanks to Zhihu for feeling a few words together.
Thanks to mom and husband's efforts. My mother and I often look at our son and feel that the life he leads is what we yearn for! The struggle of several generations has brought him no lack of childhood and no regrets.
Answering the Lord's character is very direct.
I have no sympathy, because social reality has long taught me a lesson.
If you have experienced your father's terminal cancer and can't go to the hospital, it doesn't matter if the doctor says it can't be cured.
If you have experienced that your father was kicked out of the house by my mother, that is, my grandmother, you are afraid of infection. It was my mother, my ex-wife, who resisted, in order to set an example for me and let me not blame her in the future.
If you die after your father's experience, your uncle and grandfather will rob the property. My mother cried and called me a freshman from other places.
If you have experienced my acting skills bursting, pretend to be close to your grandmother and uncle, then steal the recording, collect evidence of the house and find a lawyer.
If you have experienced the train that my father happily sent me to college, two months later, he died of pancreatic cancer.
If you have ever experienced a doctor asking me if I should use my own medicine to delay the time, I said give up the treatment.
At that time, I was only 19 years old and a freshman. I am the proudest little princess in my father's hand. Although poor.
I hope you don't experience it. I don't want to recall it, and I won't talk about it everywhere. No one in the whole university knows that great changes have taken place in my family. I didn't say anything about roommates, friends or teachers.
But my sympathy is long gone. Poor people will die if they can't cure the disease. Can't accept it? Then you can only work hard to make money.
Although I have no sympathy, I am grateful to my relatives, teachers and friends who have helped my mother. If I have the ability, I will repay my kindness in time. Actually, I didn't expect it to be popular when I wrote it. I just got home and took the subway. How do you feel now?
I also understand that counterattack, inspiration and positive energy in today's society are the favorites of Zhihu and readers. Because life is not easy, everyone needs encouragement, warmth and goals.
But what I really want to express is a character, a realistic idea, especially as a woman's values.
For anyone, the last thing to do is to wait! Waiting for the better half to appear, waiting for house prices to fall, waiting for wages to rise. Answer the Lord has always taken the initiative to attack, falling into the wall countless times, still insisting. Of course, we will also adjust our mentality and methods.
It may be that the level of education is limited, and the views are buried in notes such as showing off wealth and attacking the bottom.
Seriously, I must be ordinary in society, but I'm not an ordinary alien. I am not an example for everyone to learn. I hope everyone can do better than me and be more integrated into society. I'm trying to fit in, too Don't be serious. Don't argue Don't back down.
Suffering has no value, it is just a process. The process is not worth talking about. I wish all ordinary people a better future life.