All the reasons for breaking up are probably because you don't love me enough.
I accidentally drew a bottle of Assam milk tea at a club activity, and I was immediately shocked. For three years, I have been bypassing milk tea drinks and only drinking some high-calorie drinks, but I just don't want to see Assam milk tea again. Now I still haven't escaped, and my thoughts suddenly drifted back to the bet in my second year of high school.
"If you get into the top 20 of the class this time, please treat me to milk tea. If not, I'll treat you to dinner. "
"Well, it's a deal. You will lose, knowing that I don't study hard. I play games every day. "
The results came out and I won. My name is Xiaoxi, and he is Yu Fan.
Yes, Xiao Xi won and Yu Fan lost. No matter how serious they are, some people are lucky to be in the top 20 of the whole grade, while others are not smart. They have to fly first and work hard step by step in order to achieve excellent results. I didn't do well in that exam, and I'm trying to reflect on what I didn't do well, so I forgot my gambling appointment long ago, and I'm not excited to cash it with him.
But he didn't forget that he brought Assam milk tea to my deskmate and asked her to bring it to me. Maybe all love has symbolic connection with some things, otherwise why do you suddenly recall those dribs and drabs when you see something when you break up?
After that, we added each other's QQ and began to stir up the southeast and northwest.
When it comes to learning, Yu Fan is the best in his class, while I am the scum of the physics world. What circuit diagram looked stupid, and then I asked him for advice.
"I can teach you, three meals this week, no discussion."
"As for you, I wish you were so stingy."
I learned later that he just wanted to have dinner with me. At that time, couples in school were very strict about parting teams, and eating was risky. Then he sat opposite me, so as not to be misunderstood.
Under his careful instruction, I made rapid progress. After all, I wrote down every problem I didn't understand, asked him to write down every step of solving the problem, and then told me.
These meals are all worthwhile, such as stock trading, high risk and high income.
Later, we talked about everything on QQ. At that time, we secretly brought our mobile phones and chatted under the covers. We know that Yu Fan likes to watch European and American movies, and he must go to a European and American movie every week to tell the beauty of the heroine of Titanic and the feelings and regrets of this love. It's really shocking to talk about the man in The Shawshank Redemption who has been planning for freedom for more than 20 years. Talking about "The Legend of 1900", the man has been on the boat and is unwilling to disembark. He can touch the edge when playing the piano at sea, but he can't predict the world after disembarking. ......
From his viewing vision, I saw other worlds and a wider world, and I fell in love with watching European and American movies from then on, and sometimes I would go with him.
Let nature take its course, and we will be together. On the day of confession, he gave me Assam milk tea as our pledge.
"Oh, I think we can sell Assam milk tea together in the future and pass it on from generation to generation."
"Bah, who wants to sell this with you? It is handed down from generation to generation. That's tacky. You think you are a family of milk tea. "
We have classes together, do homework together, do papers together, eat together, run together, watch movies together, talk about movies together, go to the library together, talk about the university we are going to, and drink Assam milk tea together. Of course, our mobile phones were confiscated together, and we were almost caught by the couple's breakup team. It is not good to be recorded in a big mistake.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, the phoenix bloom has arrived, and the college entrance examination is just around the corner.
He walked with me in the big playground the night before the college entrance examination. At this time, he was not afraid of being caught. After all, he is about to graduate, and everyone is free.
"Xiaoxi, let's cheer together tomorrow and we will be admitted to the same university."
"Well, come on, let's go to the same university to sell Assam milk tea. Haha. "
Then we hugged each other tightly.
After the college entrance examination, I waited. When I can get the result, I ask him my result. I also asked him. He did well in the exam, with 60 points more than me. I didn't do well in the exam, much worse than usual. His grades are enough for him to go to Beijing or Shanghai, and I can only stay here.
I thought he would stay with me, but he went to Shanghai anyway, saying it was to give me a good future and go there to work hard.
I know this is an unfortunate beginning. Long-distance relationships never end well, and neither do we.
No one is sorry for anyone. Our courses are different in different places, the time is different, and the clubs are different. He is getting busier and busier, so am I. Although I miss him very much, I still hold back. I was fine and relaxed when I was a freshman, but I have little time to communicate with him since my sophomore year.
And when I need him, he is not with me, and I am more and more lost.
We are becoming more and more strangers, the differences are getting bigger and bigger, the similarities are getting less and less, and the passage of time is slowly grinding away our love.
He broke up with me. He said he was busy and didn't want to delay my youth. He doesn't want me to waste time waiting for him. He didn't want to hurt me.
What kind of reason is this? You don't want to hurt me, but breaking up with me is the biggest harm.
All the reasons for breaking up are probably because they are not in love enough.
Miner, my roommate, received a lot of fruit a few days before Valentine's Day. Because she loves fruit very much, I thought it was a handsome boy chasing her. I didn't expect that she was already dating, which surprised me. She has been dating secretly for a year. It's terrible to keep a low profile.
But what is even more frightening is that she broke up on Valentine's Day as soon as I learned that she was dating.
I cried my eyes out in the dormitory, didn't eat for a few days, and cried every day when I got up. This made me feel bad, and I persuaded him several times before agreeing to have a good meal.
Mins began to tell us her story.
Miner is a human resources major. Her boyfriend Lin Jie is an employee of an IT company. They met online. Later, when I learned that he was working in Guangzhou, they met privately, and they chatted more happily, so they started dating.
Miner's sister works in Guangzhou. She often goes to Guangzhou to play, but Miner's purpose is to date Lin Jie. They go shopping in Shangxiajiu, walk in Sun Yat-sen University, feel the beauty of college lovers, climb mountains in Baiyun Mountain and go to Chimelong together.
She said: "Once my period suddenly came, and I was still sitting in Lin Jie's car, which was particularly embarrassing. I blushed at that time and asked him if he could buy me a menstrual towel ... He took me back to his house without saying anything, and then went to the supermarket to buy me a menstrual towel. I can imagine how much ridicule his embarrassing behavior in the supermarket will cause, but he went anyway. Since then, he has always put a menstrual towel in his bag.
Another time, Min went back to her hometown Qingyuan. It was summer vacation and it was very hot. She accidentally missed the time. She waited for the bus in the street alone, with a suitcase beside her, watching the crowds and vehicles coming and going. She was at a loss until Lin Jie called to ask if she got on the bus. She cried that she had missed the time and didn't know what to do.
"Ok, I see, just stand there, don't move, I'll pick you up."
Probably all girls in love like or want to hear such words. When I am at a loss and lose my way, there is always someone who tells me to stand where I am and come to me.
What moved Min particularly was that she not only came to pick her up, but also asked for leave to send her home.
What girl doesn't want someone to protect her?
Then why did they break up? It turned out that Lin Jie's mother wanted him to get married after the New Year, and he had to go home for a blind date during the New Year. The object can only be the kind of girl who has a work unit, and Lin Jie is just a mother-in-law who didn't dare to resist her mother. Love can't make him bravely resist his mother, so he chose to break up with Min, saying that he didn't want to delay Min. They are predestined friends. He can't resist his mother. He can only be sorry for Min.
Love rat.
Ma Baonan
"bitch"
All three of our old friends help Min scold him. Such a boy doesn't even have the courage to be with you Even if he tried to explain to his mother your existence and your Excellence, maybe his mother wouldn't force him to get married, but he didn't, or even explained, silently accepted his mother's arrangement.
He said he didn't want to hurt you, but his choice to give up you was the biggest harm to you. You are still explaining that he is actually very good. If he is excellent, why not choose to face it with you?
All the reasons for breaking up are probably because he doesn't love you enough.