Theoretically, we are all equal, but in reality, this is not the case.
As long as people meet others at the beginning, they will set priorities. This priority is generally contained and determined by the first impression.
Such as money, status, temperament and so on.
There is only one reason why you don't like him: the first time you meet him, your brain will immediately compare this person through past experience and hearsay, so as to decide how to replace someone in this position. If this person's attitude towards you in turn coincides with your impression of his position, you like it. On the other hand, you think he should be an s*b, but he is smart, which you will resent. Subconsciously, you will think that this is an insult to your IQ. Is to challenge your personality.
If you are alive, you must set a good position for yourself. If you have a good position, you won't be rejected.
A person's best position is that he seems to have no fixed position. In the eyes of others, what position to install, the world is at peace.
Never have the idea of "this is me" or "this is me", because this is just telling others that you are not.