Coincidence refers to the real good partners that a person can meet in his life journey. They love each other, understand each other, respect each other, face the difficulties and challenges in life together, and finally move towards a happy married life. And destiny takes a hand's love refers to a person's bad partner in his life journey. They may not love each other, do not understand each other, despise each other or even hurt each other. Such a relationship will not only bring happiness, but also bring pain and misfortune to both sides.
Therefore, Buddhists advocate improving their wisdom and ability through practice and enlightenment, so as to better understand themselves, others and deal with interpersonal relationships, and finally achieve the purpose of changing their destiny and fortune.