Family system arrangement, founded by German psychotherapist bert hellinger, is a new family therapy concept in the field of psychological counseling and psychotherapy. The biggest feature of "family school" is that it can get quick results.
With the help of the realistic presentation of role-playing, participants can experience and manipulate the motivation of family system relations at the emotional level, so as to find out the reasons for their troubles, and then the tutor gives a solution, which quickly shows the solution effect.
The most easily spread forms usually have the characteristics of * * *, that is, low threshold and quick effect. Not only the threshold for participants to accept is low, but even the threshold for so-called "family planners" to enter the industry is very low. Because the participants in the scene interact through role-playing, their subconscious is quickly visualized. This kind of performance effect is indeed far more direct and shocking than the routine analysis of psychological counselors.
What is the expression of "family faction"? Why does it have a strong effect?
Magic is its greatest feeling. Usually, the "clan school" will design an attractive theme, such as the method of ancestor worship in Qingming, the maintenance of parent-child relationship, the combing of money relationship and so on. In the process of implementation, there are usually more than 10 participants sitting in a circle under the guidance of the tutor, one of whom is the case owner, that is, the participants who have problems to solve or are willing to try to analyze themselves.
The case owner chooses one of the other participants to voluntarily play his main family members, such as parents and children. Even the deceased family members and others watched. When these actors stand or sit in the corresponding position under the guidance of the host, they will naturally show some actions or feelings through "field effect" without any communication skills.
According to the description of the parties, these contents are very consistent with the ties of the case owner in the family and become the basis for solving their troubles. Finally, the "mentor" will give corresponding guidance, let the participants comfort each other, awaken their sense of responsibility in the family system, and realize the orderly flow of the power of love in the family system.
During this period, emotional actors will suddenly fall to the ground and cry, and introverted actors will show depression and pain.
It seems that "family arrangement" is to let the case owner put himself in the real situation and know where he should be at home in order to make reasonable or correct behavior feedback. In the whole process, the so-called "deformed singing field" formed between participants can be simply understood as the emotional power released by * * * singing.
However, the guidance of the tutor is usually ambiguous. Participants often only choose and accept elements that are in line with their own reality, even elements that have nothing to do with themselves, so they feel that these instructions are very accurate and effective. This form may be misleading, controversial and worrying.