Lin An broke a little doll, and Eva Huang was very angry. He said to Lin An seriously, "Don't move. Didn't I tell you not to move? " ? You can't even destroy your own things like this. Although anlin knew he was wrong, it was estimated that because children were proud, he must have felt humiliated at that time, so he fled to one side and continued to play with another doll. Grandma saw this situation, hugged anlin and said, "We should take good care of public property and pay for it if it is damaged." Seeing this, some netizens complained that grandma loves children too much, but when grandma saw it, she whispered sternly to Lin An: It is wrong to damage other people's things. If you don't listen, apologize to your mother and tell her: listen to your mother, don't make her angry, and don't destroy other people's things again. Lin An, who found the steps, also obediently admitted his mistake to his mother.
I have to admire my grandmother's way of education, giving children enough face so that their self-esteem will not be hurt, but at the same time, they will also realize their mistakes and prevent them from having resistance. This kind of education is suitable for most families.
This reminds me that when I was a child, when I took my parents' money, my parents told me gently but sternly that when I needed money in the future, I must tell adults that I could not touch their money without permission. It is precisely because of my parents' education methods that my self-esteem has not been hurt, and this mistake has not become inertia.
Yang Zi's mother can always express her views correctly when she sees Yang Zi and Eva Huang educating their children. For example, she said: children should try any kind of growth environment. If they contact more children, they will learn a lot and grow up. If you don't go out to touch children, you will be born when you see people.
I quite agree with this concept of parenting. Nowadays, children are overwhelmed by a lot of cram schools and interest classes all day, and they have no time to get in touch with nature and play with other children. If you let him play with other children, he may not know how to get along with them at first, but after really participating, you will feel that he is happy, which parents and cram schools can't give him, and he can also learn a lot.