Why is there a lot of growth trauma in my heart, but I can't show painful emotions in the process of psychological counseling?
Reason is useful, and its greatest function is to protect us from exposing our emotions, especially those that seem fragile. Because not everyone you meet will see and respect their vulnerable parts.
It's just like some children learn to act as if nothing has happened when they are bullied when they are very young. You can't cry until someone you trust is in your arms, such as your mother. And some unfortunate children, who lacked a trusted object since childhood, never had a chance to cry. After a long time, I may even forget how to cry.
I think that for the subjects, three psychological consultations may not be enough to make the tortured children feel that this is a safe environment, so that they can cry.
If you like, you can try to slow down the rational part of your mind in consultation, and don't talk too much all the time. Give your body some time to feel the painful part and stick to it. Maybe some emotions and feelings will gradually emerge.
Give yourself some time, don't worry, take your time.
How can psychological counseling visitors eliminate the insecurity caused by not knowing psychological counselors?
From the above description, I feel a little contradictory:
On the one hand, visitors seem uneasy about "speaking simple words" and dissatisfied with the consultant's "watertight";
On the other hand, visitors said that "they get along well with psychological counselors without contradiction".
Irresponsible guessing: It may be difficult for the subjects to express their dissatisfaction to the counselor in an unpleasant way (such as asking questions).
Sometimes, the consulting relationship that has been "getting along well" is a problem in itself. Because whether it is reality or negotiation, there will always be good and bad, love and hate in the real relationship.
The above is the related content of "Case Analysis of Psychological Counselors' Visitors" compiled by Bian Xiao today. I hope it will help everyone. Generally speaking, the psychological counselor's certificate has great advantages, which can be said to benefit from the early exam.