Now society has changed.
In the past, two people wanted to get married, not to mention buying a house, a car and a dowry. Generally, they can afford it, but it doesn't matter if they can't afford to get married naked. The two worked together in Qixin, and the days were still prosperous.
However, the current blind date is to put the conditions on the table first, and then proceed to the next step. Even many couples who are free to fall in love, when talking about marriage, will also have a lot of trouble because of the dowry of the house, car and dowry.
I can't help but sigh: people are too realistic now!
Fang Fang, a colleague, went on a blind date some time ago. When he came back, he was so angry that he threatened never to date again. It turned out that her blind date was a 40-year-old leftover man. Before the meeting, the introducer told her that the other party had no room, but a car. The conditions are average, but marriage is the most important thing.
Fang Fang didn't mind the external conditions of the house and car. After all, she thinks that if two people are really suitable, some things can be obtained together. Besides, because she doesn't lack a house or a car, it doesn't matter if the other party has it.
However, she was wrong about one thing. When talking about a person, the general introducer will naturally cover up some of his shortcomings, so if you are a person with blind date experience, you should understand that if the other person says that he is excellent, in most cases, this Excellence will be reduced by half; If he says that boys are generally qualified but good, they are really not that good in general.
Therefore, it is no exception. The appointment with Fangfang is at 5 o'clock. However, the other party was half an hour late. He just said he was sorry without any explanation. He is also very masculine when ordering food, completely ignoring Fangfang's opinion. These details add up to Fang Fang's dissatisfaction.
Unexpectedly, after dinner, we made an appointment to go to the movies together. The boy suddenly changed his mind and said that he would sit and chat for a while, and then go to the movies.
He said, "Since it's a blind date, let's cut to the chase. You know my terms. I don't ask too much of girls, as long as they have a room. In addition, I hope that my name can be added to the house after marriage. "
After listening to each other's words, Fang Fang didn't answer him immediately, but asked him what he thought of himself first. Then the other party made some comments on him. To sum up, you are short, a little fat, average-looking, and everything else is not bad. The important thing is that you have a house that meets my requirements.
Fang Fang continued his words and went back to his own thinking: you are tall, in good shape, and your appearance is generally passable. But I think these things are too superficial for a man, especially since you are 40 years old and lack material conditions, although I don't think your skin can give you extra points.
On the contrary, I disagree with you. I don't ask men to have a house and a car, but they must have good character and not be too greedy. At the very least, he should have a hard-working heart, not expect to get what he wants from women. Of course, there is nothing wrong with what you said about wanting women to have a house. After all, marriage itself is about getting what you want.
Besides, thank you for inviting me to dinner today. Since two people are not suitable, I think AA is better. Say that finish, she took out half of the money from her bag and put it on the table, got up and left.
In the eyes of many people, 32-year-old Fangfang is a serious older woman. Although she is good-looking, she also has a stable job. More importantly, through her own efforts, she bought herself a house at the age of 30, which is the dowry of her future marriage.
For a woman, owning a house is like owning a home. Before the age of 30, she actually hated getting married, especially watching her friends get married and have children. She is also looking forward to having a small family of her own, but after 30 years old, especially after buying her first house, she is not in a hurry.
It is said that money is a woman's greatest confidence. In the past, she dared not talk to others like this because she felt guilty. But now she is confident. Although the conditions are average, everything she wants is achieved through her own efforts, not by so-called marriage and men.
If a person can understand that everything in this world will not get something for nothing, you will want to fight for yourself. In fact, I also admit that many young women can't afford to buy a house by themselves, but they want the other half to have a house and a car, just to get what they want through this shortcut.
The same is true for men. Since I can't afford what I like at my age, I might as well lower my requirements and get it from others. There is no right or wrong in itself, but there is a very important premise, that is, if you are worthless, why do you ask others to look up to you?
Just like the man mentioned in the article, he is 40 years old, but his ability and ambition don't match. What is the basis for trying to improve yourself by belittling others? Due to the public's misunderstanding of women, many people think that when a woman reaches a certain age, if she is not married, she will commit herself to marry, which gives a man a chance: I can have no money myself, and I can get money, a house and everything I want from such a woman.
I have to advise you, sometimes don't play abacus too well, be careful to draw water with a sieve, be a good person, find out what kind of person you are, and don't sell yourself short.
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