Liao Yimei once said: It is not uncommon to meet love and sex in life. Rarely, I met with understanding.
Isn't the shrimp in the movie like professors, grandfathers and grandmothers?
During the year-long correspondence, when they were in endless waiting, they couldn't sleep after tossing and turning, so they could only find some comfort by reading old letters. At that moment, I seemed to see myself.
Yes, I have been waiting for such a letter. Those letters came to me across mountains and seas and time zones, and some letters were forgotten in some unknown corner of the world.
This is life, not a movie.
We haven't met at 84 Charing Street.
On the contrary, at the end of the story, we really hate each other.
I have never seen it in my life, and I should never see it again.
(2)
The process of correspondence between movie protagonists also reminds me of another story about letters.
Playing PC (postcard) crazily during that time. So I collected about two boxes of postcards and airmail stamps during that time, in order to send postcards to strangers all over the world better. At the same time, I will receive postcards from strangers all over the world from time to time. Just because you don't know who will receive your postcard or who will receive it, waiting becomes an interesting thing.
I have received many postcards, and postcards flying from all over the world can be pasted all over the wall.
But there is a postcard from England that has impressed me so far.
The message I received was that the other person was an old woman with cancer. In order to encourage her to overcome her illness, her daughter hopes to make the life of the elderly more interesting and get some encouragement and comfort in this way.
Unfortunately, I didn't get much information from the system, except that grandma likes giraffes and cupcakes very much.
So I found a lovely postcard of cupcakes from the treasure chest, and drew a lovely giraffe on the right side of the postcard for grandma. On the left side of the postcard, I drew some green ivy and suggested that her daughter read the story of O'Henry's novel The Last Ivy to her grandmother. "At the end of the story, the ivy painted by the painter for his friend gave him hope to live. Today, I also hope that the ivy I painted for you can bring you some comfort and strength. "
The story should have ended here.
But two weeks later, I received an email. My grandmother entrusted her daughter to send it to me.
Grandma said, little girl, thank you for the cupcakes and the lovely giraffe you drew for me. Most importantly, thank you and everyone for drawing ivy for me. Love gives me the strength to face the disease. I will definitely stick to the end.
At that moment, I finally understood that a real letter, even if it is over mountains and mountains, still carries strength and temperature.
(3)
In this film, I especially like the scene between Tang Wei and Lao Deng.
This is a very bad cliche plot. A young girl who lacked love and money met a rich old man.
So, you naively think that you have met understanding and love.
You think you will be an accident in this story, and you will be the most special love in his life.
But in the end, you suddenly find that all you encounter is a naked exchange.
When Tang Wei finally returned HK$ 200,000 to Mr. Deng and apologized for his greed.
I really like this girl.
Life is fair to everyone.
The difficulty is not not not to make mistakes, but to be lost after making mistakes, to take responsibility, to be honest and open wholeheartedly.
(4)
The scene between grandparents should make many people cry!
Any emotion, once multiplied by time, will be unbearable.
It is really difficult to tolerate a person's naivety (bad temper), stubbornness and pride all his life.
I miss the place where you were born all my life, and I am always ready to go home, but because my children can't travel far. When you become your hometown, you will know that you really can't go back.
(5)
Twenty years ago, that little boy was covered with thorns. Today, it has grown into a cactus that is used to wrapping itself with thorns.
Eager to be seen, but afraid of being seen.
Longing to be close, but refusing to be close.
His experience never taught him how to trust and love. Love has become a dangerous and extravagant thing.
In fact, it's hard for me to imagine that such a person, if it weren't for an accidental opportunity, would really be difficult to really open the knot and enter a relationship.