Hui Ding's performance in the program is obvious to all, because he has a year's working experience, so that his performance has been praised by the teachers, but behind all this praise, it comes from Hui Ding's repeated choice not to go back.
Naked resignation was admitted to East China University of Political Science and Law, and naked resignation came for an interview with Hejun's intern. In the eyes of the interviewer, your life is the last fight again and again, and the interviewer even described it as "the last fight hello"
As a 29-year-old Ding Hui, in fact, not many people have the courage to abandon the past and start all over again at the age of 29, but for Hui Ding, there is no choice to retreat again and again, but it is most or even all of his life.
I remember a conversation that impressed me deeply. It was He Junren's evaluation of Hui Ding:
"You are the last stop every time. Actually, it's stressful. You can take it step by step, so your life will be much easier. "
Maybe they don't know life in Hui Ding, or maybe even if their life path is unimpeded, they will think that this choice is not the best way, but if Ding Hui has a choice, who wants to go to the last stop?
As Hui Ding, a person from two ordinary schools, it is difficult to compete with a group of students who have graduated from top universities at home and abroad for internship qualifications in top domestic law firms. Without the determination to take a final stand, Hui Ding would have been eliminated long before the academic threshold.
We all hope that our life and our career can develop according to our own expectations, but whenever we feel that our ideals can shine into reality, life will always give us a blow, wake ourselves up with a stick, and let us recognize the truth of the workplace and reality.
We can all see Hui Ding's unremitting efforts to change his destiny in order to jump on the social ladder. Almost every choice he made left him no way out.
Some people say that Hui Ding is pushing too hard, but the fact is that most of us make choices at the last minute. We don't have such a high academic starting point and so many resources, so we can only rely on ourselves.
Super speaker champion Liu Yuanyuan, just a poor student at the bottom of high school, was admitted to Peking University Law School. For her at that time, her parents didn't even finish primary school, and her two brothers were still in college, and her family was not as good as others. For her, being admitted to Peking University is also a choice without retreat.
Wang Jianlin, who started as a real estate developer, goes to the door of the staff of the People's Bank of China every day to borrow money from the company bank. In ancient times, Wang Jianlin had to go to someone's door at least 30 times to get a loan.
In the first year and the second year, seeing that Wanda suffered losses year after year, several shareholders and partners of the company suggested not to do it, but Wang Jianlin insisted on doing it for another year and said, "We are insisting on it for another year. If we still lose money this year, we will quit. "
It is precisely because of this year's persistence that Wanda Kingdom is today.
Ma Yun, who founded Alibaba's e-commerce empire, didn't even want him to be a waiter in his early experience. Only eight people went to the interview and he was eliminated. Is there a way out? I don't even have a chance to work.
I have no choice. I don't need him to find a job. Ma Yun can only choose to start his own business. When he first founded China Yellow Pages, he took his own projects and looked for investors everywhere. Not only was he rejected, but people thought he was a liar, and no one wanted to believe him.
But he said, "If I don't succeed, someone will succeed. I just hope that we can succeed early. "
Nobody wants to find a job, the investor is considered a liar, and nobody wants to believe him. At that time, Ma Yun thought that compared with Hui Ding and you and me now, there were very few options for retreat.
Choosing to be an Internet is a success-or-failure game, because there are too many questions along the way, and the losses in the first few years are not profitable every year. Ma Yun can't even pay his employees' salaries. Several employees and computers are crowded in a room, tapping on the keyboard, eating instant noodles and weaving Ma Yun's internet dream.
Fortunately, Ma Yun won this turnaround battle, and the last stop won everyone's applause.
When you are forced to move forward for various practical reasons, you will find that all you can do is trudge forward and have no choice.
The same is true of people who achieve great things. For ordinary people who come from ordinary backgrounds and rely on themselves, the last fight is the normal state of our lives.
A Hao, a college classmate, chose to go to Beijing after graduation. Because his education is average, he just graduated from college and has no ability and experience. For him, everything is so fresh, and he started his job search with good expectations for the city and himself.
I like this job, others dislike my lack of experience and ability, and the salary of the job I don't like is too low. After looking for a job for nearly two months, he slowly wore away his novelty and expectation of new things and new life when he first came, leaving only the anxiety that the money in his pocket could not get in.
At first, I found a job with a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan, lived in a rented house, commuted for nearly 2 hours, and worked in 500 yuan every month for half a year. Because I can't stand it, I want to change my job. When you change jobs, it's another two months' gap. At the beginning, I spent almost all my money in Beijing.
A Hao's second job is an editor of a magazine, because she worked as a school radio station in college, which has something to do with this job. His monthly salary is 5000 yuan, excluding room and board.
In the second year of work, my parents in my hometown called Hao:
"Can't stand it, just come back early. You can't stay in a big city all your life. "
"I told you not to go, but you just wouldn't listen. Come back when the money is spent. "
In fact, he also had a sense of powerlessness at that time. He also knows that if this continues, it will make no difference to go home and stay in Beijing. "Give me two years, or I will come back." He said to his parents on the other end of the phone.
The next year, since the media outlet came, Ahao seemed to see the opportunity and pooled their money to start a company. Because it happened to catch up with the subsidy era, Ahao also earned the first bucket of gold in his life at that time. In half a year, he earned the first bucket of gold in his life: 200 thousand.
By the end of the year, the second branch opened. "Although it is still in its infancy, I have no regrets about my original choice."
When we have dinner together, we will ask A Hao how he made this decision.
The answer he gave us was:
"At that time, I thought it was nothing anyway. Better take a chance. If you fail, you will go home with your tail between your legs. If you succeed, you will stay. In life, you always need to stick to the choice you think is right, even if it is the last fight, even if there is no retreat, even if you will have nothing, because life leaves us ordinary people with few retreats. "
Most of us have average academic qualifications, and the starting point is very low, a large part of which is the so-called social standard deviation, but we also hope to change the views of others and society on ourselves through our efforts the day after tomorrow.
We also hope that through hard work, we can develop everything according to what we want.
As He Jun's interviewer said:
"Every time is the last life, it may be very stressful. Every step you take will be extremely difficult, and there is a great chance of coming back if you fail."
But another cruel aspect of the workplace is that academic qualifications gradually become admission tickets, and people with high academic qualifications can have the opportunity to go up. The level of education not only eliminated some people, but also ignored the efforts of some people.
Down-to-earth may be a good choice, but it is also necessary to play games regardless of your own health, especially for ordinary people in low positions.
Hard or smooth life path, is their own choice, as Hui Ding said:
"Even if I am eliminated, I will stick to this cause to the end." Come on, stranger.