What do you mean, you're not sleepy, you're comfortable, and you're rice now?

Is this sentence expressing a feeling of not distinguishing between children and parents, or emphasizing that children should be independent and not dependent on their parents?

Among them, "ignoring children's feelings" can be understood as ignoring the feelings between children and parents, or not clearly dividing the relationship between children and parents. But "settling children now" may emphasize that children should have their own lives and independence, rather than relying on parents or social arrangements and guarantees.