Green cow and white horse (there is an old saying in the countryside that white horses are afraid of green cows)

Here in Jinzhou, Shijiazhuang, Hebei, where Rong Jie is located, there are many proverbs about rural marriage, such as "A white horse is afraid of a green cow before a chicken or a dog arrives". The volume is 70. Before Sister Rong got married, there were many such sayings. At that time, my mother was still more concerned about these marriage statements, so when my brother and sister were looking for a partner, my mother would be more concerned. However, in today's developed society, people don't care much about these marriage customs. What does this old saying mean? Aren't you happy to marry an ox or a horse?

What does the old rural saying "white horses are afraid of green cows" mean? White horses are afraid of green cows, which means that horses and cows are not suitable for marriage, because although horses run fast, they are still afraid compared with giants like cows, because cows have horns, are fierce and are fatter, so horses are no match for cows.

But there should be another explanation in the argument of marriage, which should mean living together and resisting each other. In the Book of Changes, there is a saying, "White horses have always been afraid of green cows, and ten people accompany nine people."

Are cattle and horses unhappy in marriage? Sister Rong was introduced when she got married, but at that time, the matchmaker didn't accept money. It was introduced by relatives and friends on a blind date. But now, it costs a lot of money to introduce a matchmaker here.

When the general matchmaker introduces them, they are all introduced according to age, family and the conditions of boys and girls. Few people introduce people who are several years apart, just like this horse cow, but this situation still exists.

Sister Rong is her sister's brother-in-law, a cow and a horse. I remember my mother said my sister was a cow. When I introduced her to others, many people were dissatisfied with her. When I met my brother-in-law, my sister was very satisfied. Because the brother-in-law is handsome in spirit and has good family conditions. However, my brother-in-law is a horse. At that time, my sister knew this marriage proverb, but she didn't care. She hid her age and married her brother-in-law.

After my sister and my brother-in-law got married, at first they lived happily and gave birth to two sons. Later, I don't know why. My brother-in-law knew that my sister was a scalper and hid her age. Since then, I haven't been so kind to her. At that time, many of us said that "white horses are afraid of green cows" is still very reasonable! In fact, in Rong Jie's view, it should be because of deception that the marriage between sister and brother-in-law is no longer so happy, because there is an old saying that "love should be sincere." Husband and wife will be happier only if they treat each other sincerely.

Conclusion There is an old saying in rural areas that "white horses are afraid of green cows", which says that one horse and one cow are not suitable for marriage, but as long as two people love each other, one horse and one cow will be very happy in marriage. As long as two people have feelings, cattle and horses have little to do with each other, don't you think?