"If you don't help my sister, I won't marry you." Phoenix man threatens his lover. Can I still marry such a person?

About marriage, we should pay attention to the right match, especially the Phoenix man. He may be a good son and brother, but it's hard to be a good husband. Li Ling's story is like this, I hope you can take it as a warning.

Li Ling has a good family background. Her father runs a big company. She has been a little princess at home since she was a child, and her parents love her very much. Unexpectedly, her boyfriend Wei Liu is a typical Phoenix man. Li Ling's boyfriend is her college classmate. At that time, Wei Liu was really good to her, and Wei Liu's own conditions were quite good. He graduated from a key university, one meter seven, is a gentle Confucian scholar, and wears a pair of glasses.

Li Ling's parents had a good impression of Liu Wei, but they only heard that his hometown was rural and his family conditions were not very good, so they began to oppose Li Ling and Liu Wei being together. The reason is that Liu Wei's family conditions are not worthy of their family, and Li Ling will suffer if she marries in the past. However, everyone knows that women in love are the most unreasonable. Li Ling insisted on staying with Liu Wei even though his parents objected. For this reason, she also quarreled with her mother several times, but her mother firmly disagreed, saying it was for her own good.

As they spend more and more time together, the affection between Li Ling and Liu Wei is getting deeper and deeper. Later, Li Ling lived with Liu Wei without telling his parents. And because of a better understanding, Li Ling found that Liu Wei earned more than 10,000 yuan a month, but his life was simple. It turned out that she thought Liu Wei would live and know how to be frugal. Later, she found that most of Liu's salary was given to his family, his brother was at school, and Liu Wei's father was in poor health, so the expenses were relatively large.

However, Li Ling, who has been carried away by love, doesn't care at all. He also thinks that Liu Wei is a good man who dares to do things. They usually spend time together, and Li Ling takes a lot of initiative. When Wei Liu said she was embarrassed to spend money, she said it was okay, as long as you were nice to me.

Soon after, Li Ling found herself pregnant. Their marriage has been put on the table again. Although Li Ling's parents still don't agree, it is now cooked with raw rice. It's just that Li Ling's father asked Liu to take a hundred thousand pieces of bride price. Li Ling's mother told Li Ling privately, "It's not about money, and our family is not short of this hundred thousand dollars. The money will still be yours sooner or later. We just want to see if Liu Wei is sincere to you. "

However,100000 yuan is a big burden for Liu Wei. Although his salary is not low, he is responsible for the expenses at home, so the result can be imagined. This matter was settled by Li Ling. She told her parents, "You know the situation now. I am pregnant. If I drag on, you will only lose face. As you know, Liu Wei's family simply can't afford so much money. " In desperation, Li Ling's parents had to agree to Li Ling's request.

Seeing that a lover is getting married. A new situation has emerged. It turns out that Liu Wei's sister's children are going to junior high school, and her sister is going to let them go to the county to attend junior high school, so Li Ling and Liu Wei got married.

Li Ling, Liu Wei's sister, knows that a poor woman divorced her husband after he cheated on her and raised her children alone. But it is not easy to return. Unexpectedly, they played Li Ling's idea.

They want to borrow Li Ling's wedding room so that Liu Wei's sister's children can go to school. Moreover, Li Ling's prospective mother-in-law also said: "This house will be lent to your sister first, and then your father will buy you another one." Li Ling disagreed on the spot, but Liu Wei's mother said, "If you don't agree, I won't agree with you to get married." Hearing this, Li Ling cried with anger. She called Liu Wei, hoping that Liu Wei could make a decision for him. Unexpectedly, Liu Wei said, "Why don't you lend it to your elder sister first? Her family is really difficult now. "

Hearing Liu Wei say such a thing, Li Ling roared angrily: "If you don't get married, you can do whatever you want!" Although Li Ling loves Wei Liu very much, Liu Wei really broke her heart this time. He only cares about his family, but never thinks about himself, let alone their unborn children. It's all like this now What should I do if I don't get married?

Li Ling said, "I know Phoenix Man can't marry, especially Wei Liu, but I still love him very much. What should I do? "

The time traveler said, "Love is mutual. Although loving someone doesn't need to be reciprocated, love must be based on two people's sincere willingness to pay for each other, especially between husband and wife. Do you think what your boyfriend did is worth your life? Although I say advise or not, I suggest you let go as soon as possible so as not to regret it later. "