His mother is a hardworking wife and a good mother, but his father is strict and stubborn. He often talks about "the man is in charge of the house and the woman is in charge of the house", never doing housework and enjoying the service of his wife and daughter with peace of mind.
Xiao Chen's mother gets up early every morning to cook, feed pigs, cows, chickens and ducks. After dinner, she and Mr. Chen went to work in the fields together.
When he comes back from work, he cooks, feeds pigs and cows and cleans up the housework, but the old man sits down to enjoy his old pipe or walks around with his hands behind his back. Women are too busy for him to turn a blind eye, let alone help.
When he is old, Mr Chen Can can't even cook noodles, and cold rice and cold dishes won't be hot. If a woman goes out occasionally and doesn't arrange delicious food in advance, Mr. Chen will lose his temper
After graduation, Xiao Chen worked in a real estate company in the county. A few years later, he was promoted to business director. His wife, Xiao Ye, is a financial officer in this unit. They were in love for several years before they got married.
After the marriage, Xiao Chen said that "the man is in charge of the house, and the woman is in charge of the house", hoping that Xiao Ye would take care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation as his mother took care of his father.
Xiao Ye is an excellent employee. He is conscientious and doesn't want to give up his job because of his marriage.
Besides, there are four or five thousand dollars in Dignā ga, excluding mortgage, car loan, old-age insurance and so on. Now the cost of living in the county is so high, what if you don't go to work?
Xiao Ye took care of this small family carefully, and tried his best to make her husband eat well and wear warm clothes, without worries.
But then the unit transferred a small accountant, and Xiao Ye had to work overtime frequently. After work, I have to hurry to buy food, go home, cook and clean up.
At first, Xiao Ye thought it was right to pay for his lover, but after a long time, he was inevitably exhausted and complained repeatedly.
It's easier to fall in love than to get along.
Xiao Ye was too busy to touch the ground. She was annoyed to see her strong husband sitting on the sofa drinking tea, smoking, turning on TV and playing with his mobile phone.
Ask him to help with the dishes and chopsticks. Xiao Chen plays by himself, but he doesn't move. Xiao Ye was so angry that he shouted at him: Either buy food and cook or wash the floor!
Xiao Chen was dumbfounded: Do you really want to do housework? I am a man, and men also have to do housework. Buy food and cook? Funny! Wash clothes and mop the floor? Don't!
Xiao Chen refused to be justified, and Xiao Ye was full of resentment: I am so lucky? I found a wonderful job without doing housework! What age, it is said that men and women are equal, why do I have to do housework alone?
Later, their lovely son was born. Xiao Chen refused to do anything except occasionally hug and Doby, a chubby little guy. He didn't want to lose his masculinity. His hands are more delicate than those of women.
Xiao Ye retracted his words for the sake of his son. I invited my mother-in-law in the country to look after the children. But in the end, her mother-in-law was too old and Xiao Ye was still busy at home.
Xiao is getting more and more tired, and sometimes he even has no strength to speak. Of course she won't give her husband a good look.
My son has grown up. Xiao Chen still sticks to his opinion. He didn't share the housework, tired of his wife's face and nagging, and gradually fell in love with several glasses of wine. Later, I got drunk, and when I got drunk, I hit people.
One night, Xiao Chen was so drunk that his left side was not his nose and his right side was not his eyes. It was a great blow to catch his son. My son hid from left to right and was swept several times. He couldn't help crying.
Hearing the banging, neighbors rushed to accuse Chen Xiao of three crimes: alcoholism and domestic violence, child abuse, and disturbing neighbors for no reason!
Xiao Chen lisped: "Mind your own business! I fought and fought for his own good! When I was young, my dad used to take care of me like this! "
The neighbor was furious: "Does your father care about you like this? You should drink and hit people. What a good man! What a good man! Shame! "
"Next time, I will never be soft!"
"Don't think that a distant relative is better than a close neighbor, we dare not call the police! See if we dare to tidy up you! "
Washed white by his neighbors, Xiao Chen was awake most of the time and couldn't say a word. Sitting alone in the morning with a stuffy head.
Later, Xiao Chen never got drunk again. I also began to learn to wash clothes and mop the floor. I also patiently taught my son to write and draw.
Gradually, a smile appeared on the family's face.
Xiao Chen finally realized that not doing housework and being rejected by his wife and son was not like a man at all.
Sharing some, making your wife and son happy and your family harmonious is the most important thing.