After attending the wake-up class again, I am already an old student. The change in appearance is obviously not as big as the first time, but the change in heart is huge. In just 42 days, my heart has changed qualitatively.
In this wake-up camp, I met coach Yan, a serious and provocative woman, who once again influenced my cognition. Give us comments every day and answer our questions. Time difference 15h. In the interactive link, we are often given a small stove, which can not only improve our logical judgment from the senses, but also theoretically. Let me see how I should treat what I love with enthusiasm and my career with care. I am honored to be elected as an academic Committee member of Class Four in Winter to assist Yan Jiao in her study.
During my time as an academic committee member, I accidentally learned the habit of taking notes while studying, and paid attention to it everywhere. I didn't want to leave a whole time to deal with one thing before, but now I can deal with many things efficiently in a single ten or twenty minutes. Of course, I also understand the importance of the second interview. In this era of rapidly increasing information, there is no way to quickly translate it into my own theory without a second interview, and it is almost impossible to move.
Thanks to the encouragement of elder sisters Yi Dan and Ruoshui, one is a three-turn girl, and the other is a senior of Dr. Gao Yan, who let me see what life should look like.
Let's talk about the changes since I entered the park 1 1 month.
The purpose of my visit to the Aesthetic Garden this time is to improve my aesthetics, which cannot be quantified, but.
The first harvest is not material, but the mind.
At first, as an academic committee, I was worried. After all, I haven't been in contact with aesthetics for a short time, and I'm afraid it will lead you astray, so I will find a lot of materials every day to enrich my visual experience and theoretical input. Of course, I also want to set a good example for everyone.
The first thing is to punch in, which has become a small habit of mine, and it is not difficult.
I jumped over again and improved on the basis of punching in. I did two things: recording while listening to the course: in order to ensure the effectiveness of the review the next day, I will combine my own summary, and the best way to really master the knowledge points is to say it; Two anti-summary card sorting: I didn't know to learn from others when I first went to wake up camp. In order to prevent people who have the same idea as me, I will sort out the knowledge points of the card every day. The advantage of this way is that the aesthetic feeling will be improved quickly. If you don't like it before, you will gradually accept it and try it.
I finally saw many beautiful things in my mind, so I must try them. This time I kept trying, and of course there were many cases of jumping in the street. These are the testimony of my progress. Unfortunately, my current single product has not been optimized to the degree of Yanjiao review. I wanted to buy a single item at once, but Yan Jiao and Ruoshui stopped me. You can't buy clothes because you punch in, or because you don't have enough ideas. I should put on the clothes in the closet first. Now I think it's really right. Before you open your heart, you will be limited to a single collocation. Even if you have seen some pictures, you may give up after scanning, thinking that there is no similar item and you will not think about it again. If the adaptability changes on yourself, it is really a lack of heart, not a lack of things, because today's Taobao price level can really meet all your needs for styles, and there will be no items that your purse can't bear.
So my heart is far less than matter. If everyone is like me, it is better to enrich their hearts first, instead of buying them in buy buy. Everyone's material really won't reach the level of scarcity. Of course, a rich heart means continuous learning! Thanks again to these excellent people.
The second harvest, you are full of yourself.
With the above conclusion, I firmly believe that I am full of myself. For 2 1 day, I have been dressing up and looking at my photos. I found that I was no longer so formal in dressing, and I used a little bit of freewheeling, cute, handsome, elegant, British and so on. Although it has not been put in place, it can obviously feel the progress.
I have no doubt that I am full of myself.
First of all, don't criticize yourself for not being self-disciplined, but find out the underlying reasons. For example, I used to blame myself for occasionally staying up late to watch TV dramas, but now I don't. I will think about the actual thoughts behind my behavior, what my inner desire is, what I want to change, and what I want to fight for, not by immersing myself in games or TV dramas, but what I should do and how to enrich myself more. For example, I have recently fallen in love with Chen Qingling and like the pure feelings between men and women, so I also want this sincere feeling. I just need to be sincere to my husband, my best friend, my daughter and my parents. The world is absolutely beautiful, and trivial things are not a stumbling block to our beautiful life.
Secondly, you should love everything you do. As an airplane designer, you work very hard. You are tied by a thread every day. You can't be tired or upset. If you adjust your life and keep an open and inclusive heart, you will find that life and work can be separated and inseparable. If you love life very much, then the hobby you love in life will inevitably have new knowledge and insights in the process of repeated experience. The two are definitely inseparable, and the insights in life will be applied to work, and vice versa. So everything you are doing now is the best arrangement, whether it is beneficial or not, why not accept it and enjoy it with gratitude; It is also excellent to use your clever brain to turn unprofitable things into local flips.
Therefore, to enrich yourself, you don't need to be omnipotent or afraid! Enjoy everything in the moment, enjoy the current state of life, and good luck is not far away!
The third harvest is not like this, only what I want.
This is really a very important point that broke my cognition. I have always thought that the overall beauty, on the basis that my facial features, height and figure are not outstanding, can only be considered ordinary at most. Recently, however, I have frequently received different words such as "You are getting more and more beautiful", "You are different from before, but it seems that you have not changed" and "You are still childlike after being flogged in society for so many years", but there are no derogatory comments.
It is false to say that you are unhappy, but how did these come from?
Of course, the aesthetic garden contributes a lot, but it is also an important reason to take at least ten or twenty minutes to study every day. On the bus, waiting for dinner, getting up early, and so on, I spent all the time I could think of to read and absorb energy, because I tasted the benefits of reading.
I used to brush the little red book, but now I can't bear to spend it on reading, because Mr. Dean said that "knowledge is not valuable, but systematic knowledge is valuable." These excellent books are systematic knowledge, which can definitely help more than a little in work and life. From the beginning, I forced myself to study in order to set a good example for my daughter. Now I can't stop, and the change has quietly begun.
If you ask me if you are like this, obviously not.
It's just that I set a goal first, the goal I want to achieve, and then try my best to achieve it. For example, I just want to improve my cognition. Watching the official WeChat account, watching videos and listening to other people's lectures are all methods, but these are all summarized. I want to read more comprehensive and original knowledge, and these books are the best tools. Then I began to buy books and read books, starting with the video books I was interested in at that time. After reading dozens of books, I found that I can basically understand what Mr. Dean said. With this sweet fruit, I am no longer so obscure. I was out of control, one by one, as if I chose books according to my mood at that time and read books to enhance my cognition. You can watch it if you want. If you haven't done it yet, it means that you haven't found a book that suits you. There is always a book written for you!
Finally, in the study of 2 1 day, I am glad that I have established a semi-personal life system. Now I can accept the things and things around me with peace of mind, which will not affect my enjoyment of the beautiful state of work and life. I have also developed the habit of taking notes while watching, reading and summarizing answers carelessly, and my thirst for knowledge continues to remain empty, expecting a new breakthrough in the thinking of advanced classes. Love you, girls in the Aesthetic Garden, let's be beautiful together!