Hello! First, I wish you all the best!
During the Qingming Festival, there are thunder and lightning, and it is stormy. Maybe God knows that we should remember our relatives and friends at this time, so we shed tears of sympathy. The downpour drenched the earth and our missing hearts. You have been to heaven, some for more than a year, some for only a few months. How are you doing in heaven?
I've always wanted to write something to you, but every time I start writing, I feel a heartbreaking pain, just like opening a newly scabbed wound again. It was bloody and painful, and I couldn't write it down after writing it several times. But I am afraid that one day, your image will be blurred or even faded in my memory, and I will feel guilty, because I have sworn that I must write something to commemorate you. Many of you have helped me, and I have nothing to repay, just a piece of paper to express my gratitude and nostalgia.
It's dark outside and it's raining cats and dogs. I choked back my sadness and wrote it down with tears. It is "pen and ink tears Qi Fei, my mood is the same as the sky."
Some people say that there is only one passage between heaven and earth. Maybe you have drifted apart on this road, but now, your voice and smile, the scene of fighting side by side on the road of cancer, are as clear as before.
1, Sunshine, in his thirties, young and beautiful, tall, from Chaoshan, Guangdong, a research technician in a university. You sing very well. There are still some recordings of you in the Q group file today.
You dragged me into the group of cancer patients (family members). You are warm and generous, lively, optimistic and bold. When flower of life was at her most beautiful, she suffered from intestinal cancer, which had spread to many places when she found it. But you never said anything depressing; Although your illness is more serious than many people's, you often encourage patients and their families to face it positively. You also boldly try treatment methods and let the teacher give you intravenous drip of virus NDV to control your illness.
Your optimism and courage inspired me deeply. I feel refreshed every time I chat with you. You filled me with fear of cancer from the beginning, and then I became optimistic. You have a husband who loves you very much. He cares about you and is always with you. You have a clever and lovely son, but it's a pity that they can't keep you alive. It was less than a year from the discovery of your illness to your death. 20 12 April 26th, you are like a bright and dazzling Xia Hong. After burning the flame of youth, you suddenly go with the wind.
2. Lu Lu badminton. You have just reached the age of no doubt. You have a beautiful figure and the exquisiteness of Shanghai women. You used to be a soldier, with the boldness of contemporary soldiers and a clear personality of love and hate.
The first time I met you was at Tianya Hospital Forum. You and Binjiang, the "Three Musketeers" known as Tianya Hospital Forum. Because you have been ill for a long time (the onset age is about 5 years old), you can face the disease calmly and actively explore ways of treatment. The treatment post you posted in Tianya Forum is very detailed, facing the stubborn disease, expressing your feelings frankly, recording the treatment process, summing up the experience and lessons, which has provided great help to the latecomers. The ups and downs in your treatment have touched many people's hearts; Your optimistic and open-minded attitude has encouraged many people; You answered the patient's questions enthusiastically, and your spirit of helping others was touching.
At that time, I copied your treatment patch with gentle breeze and drizzle and printed it out for my husband to see. My husband was very moved after reading it. Later, I followed your footsteps and gentle breeze and drizzle, found a forum to dance with cancer, a QQ group with growing troubles, and then joined your anti-cancer army.
Lu Lu badminton, you are straightforward, honest, and have a clear love-hate relationship. You prefer optimistic friends to negative patients and their families. When someone in the group promotes negative and pessimistic information, she is disgusted. You like chatting with me best, because you and I both advocate active treatment. When you try a new drug and it works, you immediately share the joy with me; When you fail the drug test, you don't regret or complain. You have the boldness and tenacity of a female soldier.
You have a loving husband "ATM" and a clever daughter "Caterpillar". Making a Tom knife costs 200,000 yuan at a time (at his own expense), and your husband paid the money without blinking. You nicknamed him "ATM". "ATM" never leaves you, which is enviable.
Lu Lu badminton, you left on February 12, 2065 (the third day of Chinese New Year's Eve). You are like golden light, dazzling as the sunset melts gold, and you radiate dazzling light in the sky.
3. Feiyun River
In "Three Musketeers", you have the longest persistence. From July, 2008, I was operated on in the Third Hospital of Beijing Medical University (pathology showed that 3b had metastasized to lymph nodes), and died on September 24, 20 13. The cancer cells had metastasized and could persist for five years. You have created a miracle.
When the doctor thinks that you can't have chemotherapy, you convince the doctor and discuss the medication plan with the doctor, and have passed through one difficulty after another; When the hospital refused to accept your chemotherapy, you asked your husband to learn dressing change, injection nursing and infusion at home; Because of intestinal obstruction, when you can't eat, your family cooks soup for you. You drank the liquid for 9 months and fought against the obstruction, and finally defeated it. When you heard that Chinese medicine in Putian, Fujian is very effective in treating cancer, you dragged your weak body to Putian to eat Chinese medicine and spend happy time with patients. When you heard that my family was going to use DCA, you did not hesitate to send it to me; When patients are consulted by their families in the group, you take pains to give answers until the end of your life.
On the bank of Feiyun River, like your name, you are like a pure and transparent white cloud, indifferent and quiet, light and elegant, lingering in the vast and boundless sky forever.
4. Growing pains (real name Cha Wei). I met you in the "Dancing with Cancer" forum, which was March 20 12. As a patient's family, I accidentally found this forum, read your post, and knew that you were a knowledgeable patient, so I joined your Q group. In forums and Q groups, I learned a lot from you, including drugs for treating intestinal cancer, precautions for chemotherapy and so on. With this forum and your Q group, I seem to have found the "organization", and my confused heart finally calmed down; With the help of your, I changed from a novice who knew nothing about the treatment of intestinal cancer to a family member who gradually understood the treatment of intestinal cancer; With you and friends in the forum (group), my husband and I have more confidence in overcoming cancer.
You are smart, knowledgeable, modest, introverted and helpful. In the company, you are the boss's right-hand man and the most trusted person. At home, you are the son of filial parents; You are always considerate of others. When you know your illness and don't want to drag others down, take the initiative to divorce your wife. You are an indomitable person.
You actively explore ways to cure diseases, including looking up information on the internet and posting it on forums; Boldly try new drugs; Not far from Zhejiang, I came to Guangzhou for treatment, and then went to Guilin, Guangxi to learn Qigong. After that, I organized my friends to practice in Shaoguan, and then I went to Fujian to find Chinese medicine treatment. You tried all kinds of treatments, but you refused to bow to the disease.
When the patient has a problem, you answer patiently; When patients need a certain medicine, you take the trouble to buy it and send it to them; When patients have financial difficulties, you mobilize other patients and their families to donate money for them; When a patient was mercilessly refused medical treatment by the hospital because of his serious illness, you mobilized all your strength to run around and finally forced the hospital to accept the patient under pressure. You forgot that you are also a cancer patient.
I know your last days were painful, but you never said anything frustrating or called "pain". You don't want to have a negative impact on your patients. You should use your optimism and tenacity to influence and encourage your patients. Illness can erode people's body, but it can't kill your tenacious will. You have practiced the purpose of "being an influential person" with practical actions, and you deserve to be proud and proud.
You left us on 20 131October 9, 165438, only 38 years old. Your parents scattered your ashes in the Pearl River. Netizens are very grateful for your help, and they have built a "public welfare pavilion" for you online (only those who have made outstanding contributions or have certain influence can apply for a "public welfare pavilion", while others can only apply for a "memorial hall"). After several months, the click rate has exceeded 7,000. This shows how popular you are.
There is also a tall and handsome manager Chen from Jiangxi. Every time he goes to the hospital for chemotherapy, he will always hear your hearty laughter and high-pitched singing. The doctor said that you are the only patient in the whole ward who sings loudly. In the rest area near the hospital corridor, you often "talk with us for treatment". Your strong and optimistic personality has infected many patients and their families. I still clearly remember that in the summer of 20 12, my husband and I chatted with you in the park near the hospital.
There is also director Chen from Lipu, Guangxi, who is tall, handsome and personable. You are generous. I remember you and your wife invited me to the hotel for breakfast when they were undergoing chemotherapy in the cancer hospital. You had such a good appetite at that time. I tell your beautiful wife that you don't look like a patient at all. You are always optimistic. When your wife is sad, you in turn persuade her to relax. Later, you gave up chemotherapy and returned to Guangxi to practice Chinese medicine. You also invited us to visit Guilin, but it was a great pity that I didn't see you in Guilin during the Ninth Five-Year Plan. Three months before you left, I spoke to your husband and wife on the phone, and your hearty laughter seemed to linger in my ears;
Also, Mr. Yang from a bank in Guangzhou, you arranged the funeral properly. When you write a will to your lover, you say, "I finally have nothing now." You treat death as a meal, go on the road easily, and die peacefully;
There are also indomitable and sweet winds, as well as humorous and easy-going Dr. Liu from Shaoguan, Guangdong, and smart and capable Mr. Hu who loves his wife. There are raindrops in Hunan, abandoned by relatives after illness, and Ceng Laoshi in Shenzhen, who meet us to make Tom knives. ...
Although you are not celebrities and your life is short, your love for life and tenacious spirit of fighting diseases will inspire us to cherish life and cherish our future relatives. Your accumulated experience in anti-cancer will provide a good reference for future generations. Therefore, we should thank you and remember you.
Everyone comes into the world by accident, and it is inevitable to go. As Lin Qingxuan said: For a flower, life and death are inevitable, but in the process of its life and death, it can also be entangled with many beautiful things.
Dear comrades-in-arms, you are fighting the disease and fighting hard. Although your flower of life is short, she once bloomed beautifully and breathed fragrance, so she has a clear conscience all her life.
It rains in succession during the Qingming Festival. Will it rain in heaven? If it rains, remember to take an umbrella and don't get wet.
I wish you a happy life in heaven again!
Comrades: From Liu Yang.
April 2, 20 1x