When is confession easy to succeed?

1. Select a festival or anniversary. Lee Hye-ri, an expert on marriage and love and a national second-level psychological counselor, pointed out that these special days were endowed with many meanings. Both men and women hope that this day will not be dull, so it is easier for them to express their feelings. Jeffrey Chang, an emotional expert in jiayuan, believes that Valentine's Day is the most suitable holiday to express feelings. This is a festival for single men and women who are eager to end their singles and celebrate their love with their lovers. In addition, birthdays, acquaintance anniversaries, etc. It's also a good confession day. 2. Choose in the evening and avoid Wednesday. British biologists have found that the success rate of courtship after dark is much higher than that of confession during the day. This is because the activity of the limbic system of the brain is strengthened after dark, and people will become emotional and easily moved. The study also found that in a week, Wednesday is the time when people are in the worst mood, and couples are most likely to break up, so it is best to avoid Wednesday. 3. Sit on the other side and confess. Researchers at Gabriele Dannunzio University found that people are more willing to listen to others with their right ear, because the right ear is more capable of transmitting information, so it can respond more effectively. Therefore, in order to get a better confession effect, it is best to sit on the right side of your partner. 4. Express your love loudly. Australian psychologists have found through research that lowering the tone can attract the attention of the opposite sex and win the heart when flirting; When expressing courtship, the louder the voice, the more it can shock each other, convey desire and confidence, and the success rate will be greatly improved. When confession is easy to succeed, 2 1. The golden period of confession within one month of knowing each other is within one month after two people know each other. According to statistics, 70% couples decide their relationship during this period, which is also the theoretical basis why the current "blind date activity" can have continuous vitality. Because in this month, the other party hasn't had time to find out that you have a bad temper, you don't know that you are procrastinating, and you don't want to know your various backgrounds and usual interpersonal relationships. I have been watching people's hearts for a long time, so this month should be the perfect time for you to make a good first impression in front of her. What do we do? Two words: action! Just show yourself, shameless! Send a message every day, chat on WeChat, ask her out to dinner, relax, and then create a perfect confession, active, direct and naked, so that the other party has no time to react. When the other party thinks about it, only your good impression is left, then everything will be logical. 2. Know each other for one to three months. During this period, the other party may already know something about you, know part of your situation, and even hear some shameful or obscene words, so is the first impression law not available? This is debatable. If we really want to know the essence of a person, one to three months is not enough. Even if we do, it is just a scratch. You are new to her, which gives us room to pack. What should we do at this time? Eight words: wait for the opportunity and win in one fell swoop. Find the right opportunity to do something together, let the other party see what you want to show, such as eating and watching movies, and let the other party see the deep level of your packaging. The motivation should be reasonable and the process should be profound. Make sure the other side has a good impression before attacking. I have known each other for more than three months. If you want to confess, you should discuss the situation: first, you have a good impression on each other, but you have been afraid to confess. What is there to hesitate about? If you don't confess, maybe she will run away with someone else. Refer to 1 and choose a good time to confess. Second, she doesn't like you. Let's focus on the second situation. At this time, the two sides can say that they know the root of the matter, but the first impression seems to have been unable to be realized on the other side. What shall we do? Although it is troublesome, there are still some ways. We need to change our thinking and start from around us. The same is eight words: siege tactics, gradual breakthrough. Start with those good friends around her, patiently correct your image in front of them, let these people become your "reinforcements" and help you change your impression in her heart. Then find the right opportunity to express your mind implicitly. Because you have missed the best period, you must be patient again.