Cooperate with the teacher's learning requirements.
In family of origin, due to the large number of children and the lack of material conditions, parents have to make a living all day long, and most of them do not attach importance to family education. Many parents think that children don't need to be taught when they grow up, and they can shirk their responsibility of not teaching their adopted children well. Some parents think that children are "mixed up" when they are young, but they will be fine when they are older, that is, "trees attract the wind." Some parents don't realize the importance of family education, so they push their children's education to schools and teachers, and often don't participate in their children's management and education. If you meet a responsible and experienced teacher, you will take the initiative to communicate with your parents and ask them to cooperate in some aspects. If you meet an irresponsible teacher, even if the child becomes bad, parents may not know. Nowadays, gangsters in society are definitely ignored by their parents in family education. They only pay attention to meeting children's material needs, not to meeting their psychological needs. They only pay attention to their exam results, not their personality cultivation. Only the result, no process. When children are young and their thoughts are still blank, they do not pay attention to instilling correct habits and thoughts. When the child develops out of control, parents lack patience, treat the child as worthless, watch the child all day, and abuse the child, punching and kicking. Doing so hurts the parent-child relationship and intensifies the pace of children's development in a bad direction. If we pay attention to the influence and education of children when they are young, children will not deviate from the track designed by their parents. There are no children who can't manage well, only parents who don't care or don't want to. If the child's development is not satisfactory, parents should find reasons from themselves to see if you are conscientious. If you feel that you have fulfilled your responsibilities as a parent, you should see if you have any shortcomings in practice. If it is not an attitude problem, it is a method problem. We should pick up books, find ways from them, see how others educate children, and consult experts in this field to ask them to give you some advice on educating children. In short, we must be firm in educating children. First, you are a lifelong teacher of children. No matter how far you go, you should give him some advice and suggestions on the journey of life. Secondly, we should know more about family education, study more, and constantly improve the level of communication with children, so that children will always have a soul mate with you, always regard you as a friend who talks about everything, and always regard you as his growth mentor. Comrades and parents, according to what I said, take stock of your current practices and your relationship with children. How are you doing? If you do well, I will congratulate you and ask you to continue your efforts and strive for greater success. If the original work is not done well, your children have a lot of precautions against you and there is a deep generation gap with you. You should take the initiative to learn and learn communication skills, establish a normal parent-child relationship with your child, make him close to you, and be willing to tell you anything. Only in this way can your preaching and thoughts produce practical results and be accepted by him. In a word, from today on, you should put education of children above everything else. Because this cause can't wait, once we miss the favorable opportunity of education, the consequences will be irreparable. And how to find a starting point for educating children? I think we should work hard from the following aspects: First, communicate with teachers frequently. In educating children, we should communicate with teachers, especially the class teacher. Because children live in two spaces: school and family. There are some things between the teacher and you that you don't know about each other. If you want to educate your children well, you must be targeted. If you don't understand the other side of students and their performance at home, teachers can't educate students correctly. If parents don't understand their children's performance in school, they can't educate their children. Therefore, in order to make family and school education effective, we must strengthen mutual understanding. In life, some students are good children at home, but they have many shortcomings at school, and parents don't understand the situation of the school and neglect the education of their children, so that some shortcomings continue to strengthen and grow, and finally they can't be recovered. For example, children like to work rather than study. They like to work at home and are deeply loved by their families and neighbors, but it is a headache in their study. If parents understand this situation, they will actively cooperate with teachers, gradually cultivate students' interest in learning, and make students constantly change their learning attitude. If parents don't know anything, they will delay education and lose the best opportunity for education. Some students do well in school and their academic performance is deeply loved by teachers, but at home they are too lazy to help their parents share housework, look down on their parents, contradict or ignore their words. These should also get in touch with the class teacher in time, help straighten out the parent-child relationship under the teacher's education, and let him realize his proper attitude towards his parents. Therefore, in order to accurately grasp the opportunity of education, parents and schools should maintain smooth and meticulous channels to understand each other's performance at home and at school. As a teacher, we should take the initiative to contact parents, feedback their children's performance in time, let parents know their children's performance at school, and understand their children's performance at home from conversations with parents. If there are many students and busy work, parents should take the initiative to communicate with you. All this is for the future development of children. The teacher's students are endless in his life, but his parents only have one or two children, so there is no delay. Second, we should cooperate with teachers and publicize the requirements and regulations of teachers and class teachers for students. Parents should cooperate seriously. Even if you don't understand some of the teacher's practices, you should not criticize the teacher in front of the children, and you should not be outspoken about your education and management in front of the students and distort the facts. At this time, you should take the initiative to negotiate with the teacher alone, perhaps because the two sides have different positions and different thinking, and mutual understanding can be reached through communication. If you don't communicate actively, you will make irresponsible comments and complaints at random, resulting in children's incorrect views on teachers and affecting their trust in teachers. If students don't trust the teacher, the teacher's education will not enter the students' hearts, which will make students have rebellious psychology and affect the normal education. No matter how parents don't understand schools and teachers, in order to educate children, you should publicize teachers with a positive attitude and establish a good image of teachers in the hearts of students. Even if students have problems with teachers, parents should actively guide them in the middle. Remember not to talk nonsense about the teacher's practices in front of the children. Once teachers lose their position in students' minds, teachers' education will fail in children. The direct victims are students and families. It is very important for children's education to form the wind of respecting teachers and attaching importance to teaching at home. Third, be sure to ask your child about his study. We should take the initiative to understand their performance in school and their gains in class, and ask them what gains and losses they have in their studies and what difficulties they have in their studies. When you find a problem, you should actively communicate with the teacher and ask for his help. If the child is unwilling to communicate with parents, parents should take the initiative to get in touch with the teacher and don't ignore it for a long time. Parents should know what their children say and do in school, how they behave in class and who they often associate with, so that their children will always be in your sight. After school, students should be urged to finish their homework before doing other activities. If you don't finish your homework, you can't engage in other recreational activities. Some students always tell their parents that their homework has been finished at school, or the teacher has not left any homework. For this statement, parents should not blindly believe it, but should get in touch with teachers in time to grasp the real situation and avoid students being deceived by both parents and teachers for fun. In doing so, it is not that we don't trust the children, but that we should always grasp the real situation in case the children have become unable to lift, while the parents are in the dark. After finishing homework every day, children should form the habit of previewing and reviewing. If students have homework books, teachers and parents can communicate information through this book, evaluate students' performance at home and school, and let teachers and parents keep abreast of students' performance. Fourth, to create a learning atmosphere, we must create a quiet learning environment at home. If parents are irresponsible, they will yell at the wine shop at home, play cards at home, smoke fills the air, and laughter spreads to every corner of the room from time to time; Or children are studying in the study, and the TV is too loud outside, so it is difficult for students to study quietly in such an environment. If you are really responsible for your children and really care about their learning, you should control your desires and keep a peaceful mind. If you can't see loneliness and loneliness, how can children overcome their desires and study hard? The best way is for parents to turn off the TV after watching TV news and pick up books to read, so that the family can form a scholarly family and all family members can form the habit of reading. Cultural atmosphere and learning atmosphere will create a quiet learning atmosphere for children, and students can concentrate on their studies and improve their learning efficiency. If you are interested, you can also look at the students' textbooks, because the textbooks after the new curriculum standard are very suitable for self-study, and most parents have graduated from different courses and have certain learning ability. As long as you have the determination, you can learn difficult skills, let alone learn junior high school textbooks. When students ask you for advice, you won't prevaricate, you will teach them a thing or two, and the children will look at you with new eyes, which will help you establish a higher image in their hearts and improve your grades. 5. Let children's grades rise steadily, just like long-distance running. As long as you are not pulled away by others, you have the ability to surpass others in the final sprint. If you have been left far behind by others and you have no ability to surpass others, it is impossible for you to get a good ranking by sprinting. The same is true of learning. Although you are not in the top few in your studies, don't let your grades fall far behind. If your homework has many shortcomings, it is impossible to catch up with others in the entrance exam. There are also such students in the school. Every exam is not obvious in Grade One and Grade Two, but in Grade One, they passed the exam and finally took the lead. In others' eyes, the child seems to have accumulated a lot of money. In fact, children have certain take-off qualities. The condition for taking off is that the child's homework is not delayed. If he can't lift a subject, he can't take off. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's ordinary grades. If they find that their children's grades are far behind, they should immediately find ways to let him catch up. Otherwise, it will dampen children's interest in learning, and children who often fail will give up easily. So remember, if children want to accumulate wealth, they should always pay attention to their own achievements, not seeking the first, but pursuing the first. 6. Extra-curricular tutoring parents should be cautious about their children attending remedial classes. If children have the spare capacity to study and offer to take part in some extra-curricular counseling, parents should respect their wishes, and it is very beneficial to give counseling. Students disagree, and parents are wishful thinking, which often discourages children's enthusiasm. In the end, if you don't talk about spending money, you won't get positive results, and you may even backfire because you are reluctant. If parents see that a subject is too poor and it is necessary to make up lessons, parents should also do their children's work well and try to make them feel comfortable to accept and participate. Otherwise, the goal will not be achieved. Family education is a comprehensive knowledge, which cannot be completed in a short time due to limited space. If you want to get the golden key to success, you must keep learning, exploring and summarizing. Limited by time, let's exchange here today, and I can only play an enlightening role here. The future work depends on parents' own efforts to explore. As long as you work hard, you will get something. I wish parents success in tutoring.
Hello, children need to be educated from an early age. Childhood education will affect a child's life.
First of all, we must cultivate children's ability to stand on their own feet. The ability to face and solve problems independently is the survival ability that everyone in modern society must have, and it is also the basic ability that individuals must have to face life and career, which needs to be cultivated from an early age.
Secondly, children should be trained to read very diligently. Children who don't study hard will definitely not have lasting development in the future! Diligence means having the habit of reading, learning to read sporadically, and persisting in reading when encountering various difficulties. Fast, is to have a faster reading speed, to get new reading information, and to exchange reading experience with peers in time.
In order to cultivate reading ability, it is suggested to practice "fast reading" for children. At present, it is better to do: the speed reading and memory training of Jingying, which combines speed reading and memory, can improve children's reading ability better and faster.
Reading, first of all, is the reading of difficult words, including the reading of network information, including the attention to all kinds of real information around you. )
Third, we should train children to listen patiently. Listening is really important! Nowadays, many people are impatient and can't tolerate other people's explanations. They always hope that what they say is the most accurate and reasonable. In fact, many times, there will be many one-sided considerations.
Fourth, you can communicate with anyone. Without good communication skills, you can't go deep into the real society, and you will lose many opportunities for personal development. Even in the implementation of family education, communication between children and parents is particularly important.
Fifth, know how to respect each other and criticize yourself. When I was very young, my grandmother told me, "People who respect others are respected." . The meaning is clear. Only by respecting others will you be respected by others.
How should parents cooperate with teachers to educate their children? First of all, parents should have more contact with teachers.
You can use your mobile phone.
You can also meet the teacher directly.
Guide and educate children according to the requirements put forward by teachers.
How do parents cooperate with teachers to educate their children? 1, ask to visit the teacher in time.
Children go to school, and they have to take time to visit their teachers at the beginning of the semester. It's best to take some time to observe the class where the children are. We must be "clear" about the courses offered in a semester, what teachers require, what books to read and so on. Make sure that your child is not absent from class, and don't arrange your child's schedule privately.
2, tacit cooperation with teachers.
Don't judge teachers indiscriminately, and don't judge a teacher "too strict" or "not up to standard" in front of students. Don't attach too much importance to grades, which is only one aspect of measuring students' learning situation. As a parent, what you need to know from the teacher is not only the results-such as children's learning initiative, learning attitude, homework, outstanding advantages, moral performance and so on.
3. Always "exchange information" with teachers.
This can help teachers to know and understand students more comprehensively and deeply. For example, parents can "provide" teachers with information about whether their children study alone or in groups, what courses they like, whether anyone at home has been ill recently or whether there have been various "changes" that may affect students' study and life at school, such as parents' divorce, parents' unemployment and relocation. Reflect in time, don't wait. If you find a problem with your child's study, don't wait until the next parent-teacher meeting to report it to the teacher. No matter what problems arise, teachers should be informed of all kinds of "information" as soon as possible so that teachers can take corresponding measures. Only when parents are fully and objectively familiar with their children's advantages and disadvantages can parents work together with teachers to help their children make continuous progress in their studies.
4. Encourage and support children correctly.
There is a good saying: God forgives children when they make mistakes. Because children are still young, there will inevitably be some unsatisfactory places in life and study. Therefore, parents and teachers should accept everything of children objectively, fairly and inclusively, and work together with children to find ways to solve problems.
5. Correct and targeted counseling.
Extra-curricular tutoring parents should be cautious about their children attending remedial classes. If their children have the spare capacity to study and offer to take part in some extra-curricular counseling, parents should respect their children's wishes, which is very beneficial. Students disagree, and parents are wishful thinking, which often discourages children's enthusiasm. In the end, if you don't talk about spending money, you won't get positive results, and you may even backfire because you are reluctant. If parents see that a subject is too poor and it is necessary to make up lessons, parents should also do their children's work well and try to make them feel comfortable to accept and participate. Otherwise, the goal will not be achieved.
6. Let children's grades rise steadily.
Just like long-distance running, as long as you are not pulled away by others, you have the ability to surpass others in the final sprint. If you have been left far behind by others and you have no ability to surpass others, it is impossible for you to get a good ranking by sprinting. The same is true of learning. Although you are not in the top few in your studies, don't let your grades fall far behind. If your homework has many shortcomings, it is impossible to catch up with others in the entrance exam. There are also such students in the school. Every exam is not obvious in Grade One and Grade Two, but in Grade One, they passed the exam and finally took the lead. In others' eyes, the child seems to have accumulated a lot of money. In fact, children have certain take-off qualities. The condition for taking off is that the child's homework is not delayed. If he can't lift a subject, he can't take off. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's ordinary grades. If they find that their children's grades are far behind, they should immediately find ways to let him catch up. Otherwise, it will dampen children's interest in learning, and children who often fail will give up easily. So remember, if children want to accumulate wealth, they should always pay attention to their own achievements, not seeking the first, but pursuing the first.
7. Family harmony.
Parents must be in a harmonious state at home more often. Don't quarrel every day because of trivial matters, which is a kind of torture to the child's heart, and the child's body and mind will be affected in this environment.
How do parents cooperate with teachers to educate their children? They always ask teachers about their children's school situation. It is convenient to know the children's learning situation at school and communicate with them psychologically in time.
Cooperate with the teacher. Don't speak ill of the teacher, encourage children to communicate with the teacher actively.
How should parents cooperate with teachers to educate their children?
Good habits play a great role in children's success. The fact that many Chinese and foreign scientists grow up shows that developing good behavior habits from an early age will benefit children for life; And forming bad habits is harmful. As the British philosopher Bacon said, "Habit is a tenacious force, which can dominate life." To cultivate students' good behavior habits, we should not only stay in school education activities, but also need parents' active cooperation, study students' personality characteristics together with teachers, find out the reasons, reach an understanding with teachers on children's education issues, achieve coordinated education of children, and cooperate with schools to carry out targeted education for children.
So, how should parents cooperate with kindergartens to educate their children simultaneously?
First of all, we should get out of the misunderstanding of family education.
First of all, parents should be clear about the responsibility of educating their children. Family education is lifelong, school education is temporary, and primary education has the greatest influence on children. Some parents always think that the school should be responsible for sending their children to school, regardless of their physical and mental development or the cultivation of behavior habits, and rarely or never ask their children about their behavior at school. What's more, the responsibility for children's education is pushed to the school. We should know that parents are the implementers of family education, the first teacher of children and the cradle of children's growth; Parents' words, deeds and attitudes are affecting the development of children's behavior habits.
Secondly, parents should make it clear that in the education of their children, they must be strict with love and strike hard, and love their children scientifically.
In the attitude towards children's education, some parents are too strict with their children and reprimand them for their mistakes; Some parents are obedient to their children's bad behaviors and unreasonable demands, unprincipled accommodation and excessive indulgence will make their children form bad behaviors and habits. You know, love can't replace education, and strict requirements are the embodiment of love. As Rousseau, a French educator, said, "Some people are too strict, while others are too accommodating. Both situations should be avoided. "
Thirdly, parents should establish a correct view of education, not only focusing on knowledge, but also ignoring the development of individual behavior.
Some parents send their children to school, only caring about how much knowledge they have learned, but never asking about their behavior, even reflecting their shortcomings to teachers, and never delving into the reasons. They only like teachers to report "happiness" instead of "worry". Over time, children form bad behavior habits.
2. Actively cooperate and keep pace with school education.
First of all, parents should closely and actively cooperate with the class teacher to implement the education plan, correctly request and teach their children, create conditions to promote family education and school education, and consolidate educational achievements. For example, parents should have the same requirements for children's life and study, give them clear living standards and cultivate their good habits.
Secondly, parents should go to school to contact the teachers in the class and actively communicate, so that they can not only understand the situation of their children at school, but also truthfully reflect the performance of students at home to the teachers, coordinate with each other, and give timely praise or correction according to their advantages and disadvantages.
3. Actively participate in the parents' activities of the school and attach importance to the contact between home and school.
Parents actively participate in all kinds of parents' open days held by the school and pay attention to contact the class teacher in time, which can not only understand the children's behavior and development in all aspects, but also meet their psychological needs.
In addition, parents must arm themselves with theoretical knowledge of education, improve their education level and give full play to the effectiveness of family education.
In short, as long as parents adhere to the principle of paying equal attention to family education and school education and form a joint educational effort in the same direction, they can get twice the result with half the effort in cultivating students' good behavior habits.
How can parents cooperate with teachers to educate their children emotionally? They are silent, but it is enough to make people move. There is a kind of love, no regrets, even if you sacrifice everything, you don't ask for anything in return. When the footsteps in the wind and rain are tired, when life outside is difficult, when your heart needs to talk, there is always a door open for you. Although this house is not gorgeous, it is enough to block the wind and rain outside the window and rekindle your enthusiasm for life. This is home, a harbor full of love. I remember it was a rainy day. After school. Students poured out like a flood. I also ran to pick up grandpa with excited steps. Suddenly, I felt someone give me a sudden push and I fell into a puddle. Suddenly, there was mud on my hands, clothes, shoes and socks. I'm wet and cold! I saw the man who pushed me and turned and ran into the crowd. I shouted "wow", but no one got on the bus.