I don't understand where this mother-in-law got the money to let her daughter-in-law pay the mortgage. Is it because her daughter-in-law is so easy to bully In my opinion, the most irritating thing is to let my daughter-in-law pay off the mortgage, and the house doesn't even have a name. This is typical to let the horse run and let the horse not eat grass. Therefore, when such a mother-in-law is a daughter-in-law, there is no need to talk about tolerance and generosity, and there is no need to directly tell her mother-in-law that the mortgage is not up.
There's nothing wrong with taking a step back! The so-called step back and broaden the horizon, but with the help of a generous person's hypocritical shell, to achieve their own small abacus. If you agree to your mother-in-law's unreasonable request, her mother-in-law won't think you are a generous person, but maybe she will think you are easy to bully and talk to. You think if you give in like this, your mother-in-law will look at you differently. I'm telling you it doesn't exist. Next time there is a problem, she will make you a generous person. This is the case between people, and mother-in-law is no exception.
As the old saying goes, it is difficult for an honest official to break housework. Everyone says that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, which is a problem left over from history. But I want to say why some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along like mother and daughter, not because they don't care about being humble, but on the contrary, because they haggle over every ounce, discuss with each other, discuss with each other and communicate with each other. Only in this way can their contradictions be resolved in time, and they look like mother and daughter to outsiders.
Having said that, just like this time, the mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law to repay the mortgage without writing her name. Daughter-in-law should take the initiative to show her position to her mother-in-law, even if she is arrogant and unreasonable. If you don't say it at first, wait until afterwards, then your mother-in-law will definitely hold the handle. In the end, quarreling may make you unreasonable.
As a daughter-in-law, when you take a stand, you must give a clear answer, and don't give ambiguous answers. But I think as a daughter-in-law, if my mother-in-law really says that her name is not added to the real estate license, I think she should give some appropriate help as a sign of concern to the younger generation, and she will have to let outsiders laugh at her without spending a penny.
But if you are a daughter-in-law who has no opinion and personality, I think you should discuss it with your lover. After all, 800,000 loans are not a small amount. What is your lover's attitude? Does your lover know that his mother asked him to repay the 800 thousand loan? Don't neglect your life in order to take care of your face. Face is for others, but life is for yourself.