Yesterday was Tanabata, and everyone abused dogs with the power of the wild. My boyfriend and I are indifferent and are still rushing around for house decoration. At seven o'clock in the evening, we set out from different places and met our neighbors who had only met once.
Similar souls will meet, and those who cherish each other will reunite.
It is really bad to buy a house now, and the decoration is more troublesome. Last week, I invited some decorators to see the house. They talk nonsense, but I'm still at a loss about it. My head is completely empty and I am at a loss. My boyfriend called me to the door. It turned out to be our neighbor.
I have been to my home for so many times, and I met our neighbors for the first time: an old couple in their fifties; This gentleman is very elegant, and so is this lady. They are very happy.
My boyfriend and I are a little sorry: "The renovation after this may disturb you."
"It doesn't matter, you just say hello to us in advance. It's rare to be a neighbor after this. I fell in love with you young couple at first sight. Call me Sister Zhuang. " Very kind, deja vu.
Sister Zhuang and her husband Yang Ge have retired, and their son is studying in America. On weekdays, they are the only old couple. We chatted in a hurry that day, and immediately hit it off, leaving each other phone numbers and WeChat.
"When will the construction and decoration start today?" On Monday morning, Sister Zhuang sent me a WeChat.
"Worried, the whole person is embarrassed, and we are not optimistic."
"The price is wrong, or what?"
"There are too many pits and the cost of the decoration company is too high."
"Silly girl, have something to find Zhuang Jie. If you believe Sister Zhuang, I have a couple here that I can introduce to you. "
It was unintentional, but Sister Zhuang was really at ease and made an appointment for us the next day. Last night on Tanabata, she introduced us to each other, and then rushed to meet friends on the island. This couple is really reliable. They went to see the scene and chatted enthusiastically. Brother Yang is here.
"Come on, this is for you. After eating, I have to meet my friends. " Yang Ge came in with a plate of cantaloupe in his left hand and a tissue in his right.
It's hard to be personable, but it's also a bit of Jianghu pride. In my heart, there is a warm current. Keep your head down in the neighborhood. I choose to believe sincerely and treat it honestly. The feeling of having relatives in a foreign land is also the most rare human favor in the world.
Neighbors are very important, and it is even harder to have a good neighbor.
In today's society, it is quite appropriate to describe people in four words, "human feelings are weak."
Tall buildings stand in this city. When this door closes, who knows who it is? What's more, I lived next door for four or five years without saying a word. Between the neighbors, the first meeting was very silent, and every meeting was almost awkward and expressionless.
The feelings between people are getting weaker and weaker, usually "you don't know, I don't ask, you don't say, I don't say, you don't come, I don't go". People on the same floor can't wait for the next one even if they get into an elevator. How embarrassing and indifferent the elevator is.
I went to my sister's house in Hangzhou in June and asked her, "Is it a man or a woman opposite your house?" My sister was shocked. "I really don't know this." They have moved into their new house for more than half a year, and they don't even know whether it's a man or a woman across the hall! "Why are you so clear? They are all irrelevant people. " My sister doesn't understand why I'm so surprised.
Your neighbors, especially those across the hall, are really not irrelevant people. If there is an accident at home, your neighbors will be the first to know; Second, if you don't look up, is it so difficult to say hello? Three neighbors are not as good as facing each other. Whether you live in harmony or not is really not your own.
My friend Juanzi has recently fallen into infinite fear. She complained to me that there was a weirdo across the hall and she was silent every day. When they met, both sides passed by coldly and awkwardly. One day, she came home with a lot of things and saw her big brother across the hall. Big brother greeted her and helped her with her things. "It turns out that he is so good, I thought he was a freak?" When two people meet for the first time, they are all silent. When they met for the second time, it was difficult to talk.
To have a good neighbor, you should greet him with a smile. If you are a lover, you can keep your mouth shut and rush by; If you see each other at first sight, but don't look up, what can you talk about?
A TV series Ode to Joy, which broke out in May, moved me most, which was the five beautiful neighborhood relationships of Ode to Joy.
Many friends say it's fake. How can there be such a good neighborhood relationship and such a good person now? We would rather choose silence than open our mouths to trust a person. I still remember when I was a child, the two children were as close as a bee when they met, but when they grew up, they became more and more distant.
We don't want to know anyone except our friends, including our neighbors. And it's really important to have a good neighbor.
20 13, just arrived in Xiamen and rented a house. Every night when I get home, there will always be all kinds of noisy voices coming. The mother upstairs reprimands her son every night, and the husband and wife downstairs quarrel every day. There is a "Xiamen Port Flower" next door. She wears strange clothes in broad daylight and walks in the downtown street, swearing at night. I often wear headphones, but I can still hear all kinds of noises.
Being alive is not comfortable at all, even if the door is closed, no one knows anyone. But all the sounds around you will affect you and disturb your life. At that time, it was noisy all day, and good neighbors completely became extravagant hopes.
The only thing that moved me was the one opposite us. The room I rented, the toilet was broken for some time. I often go to the public toilet to go to the toilet, but people have three emergencies. One day, in desperation, I knocked on the opposite door. An old aunt opened the door and greeted me with a smile. I was relieved, explained the situation and borrowed the toilet. Great, with the beginning, you basically have something to say. My old aunt left her mobile phone at home, so I lent it to her. Forgot my key and went to their house to chat; My aunt gave me a can for the holidays, and I gave it to the company as a gift.
I have lived in that place for three years, and I haven't moved out for that long, because it's right across the hall. When I first arrived in Xiamen, I was lonely. With the opposite door, it seems that everything is not so difficult. It's been a long time since I left there, and the only thing I miss is my old aunt across the hall.
We live in the world, the most rare thing is human feelings.
You are a social person and you have to deal with all kinds of people almost every day. I still remember when I was a child, my first playmate was a neighbor's child. Occasionally, when I am free, I will stop by the opposite house for dinner. Many years later, the two families never said a word again. There are so many people in the village that most people can only rush by.
"Be sure to remember to say hello to people and call them uncles or aunts." I have been away from home for many years, and my mother always keeps telling me every time I go home.
"Don't take advantage is education, interpersonal relationship is cultivation", don't take advantage of others casually, treat others as they treat you.
My friend Tingzi also happened to buy it in our neighborhood. We were both overjoyed. "If we have children in the future, these two children can belong to family friends." Being in a strange place, I feel at home with her company.
"Little girl, you will be blessed." I still remember seeing Sister Zhuang last night. She patted me on the shoulder and said something. Sister Zhuang believes in Buddhism and opened a vegetarian restaurant near our community. She also invited me and my boyfriend to try it out for free. In fact, it is also my rule to treat others sincerely at any time. This is especially true of having a rare good neighbor.
I wrote to the school district a few days ago, and some readers left me a message, which makes sense. He said that in fact, the most important thing is not the school district, but whether there is a good community. The place to live is very important, and the children's playmates are more important. I think so. Most of the children's first playmates are children from the neighbors. But what is the situation now? Neighborhood relations are weak, and children's playmates have become mobile phones. Most children are withdrawn and taciturn, and parents also have great responsibilities.
Sometimes, the pursuit of an ideal and a realm, especially children, needs an example as a standard. Choosing a good neighbor is a shortcut.
It seems that I have a good neighbor now, and I am really lucky.
A thoughtful housewife. Wechat official account: Liming ID: yibao 8690