Miss Yuan is 33 years old this year. She married her husband on 20 13 and has a 5-year-old son. Miss Yuan's husband is the general manager of an enamel factory and inherited the family business. Miss Yuan got pregnant in the fourth month after she got married. I was particularly afraid of happiness at that time. For several months, I just wanted to vomit and didn't want to eat, but even so, Teacher Yuan didn't forget to do housework in order. It has been recognized and praised by her parents-in-law.
When the baby just turned one year old, Miss Yuan discovered her husband's infidelity. Miss Yuan and her husband had a big fight and filed for divorce. When the parents-in-law heard the news, they tried their best to comfort and scolded their son. My husband knows that he is indefensible, and he doesn't explain much. He can only nod his head and admit his mistake. Teacher Yuan forgave the baby and her parents-in-law.
Husband returned to the family, honest for a period of time, caring and considerate for Miss Yuan and her son. At home, he volunteered to do housework for the first time. Miss Yuan was somewhat relieved to think that her husband had turned over a new leaf. To Miss Yuan's surprise, this Anshun was honest for less than a year, and her husband relapsed with an old illness and fell in love with the assistant general manager of a cooperative enterprise. Every day, WeChat chatted hotly, and she took her out to travel every once in a while, sharing a room and sleeping in a bed.
When Miss Yuan discovered the secret of her husband's cheating, she collapsed. Miss Yuan said: "In the face of my husband's many infidelities, I have to let go ... Although it hurts, it is heartbreaking ..."
In marriage, feelings are selfish, and you can't share the same husband with other women. This is teacher Yuan's bottom line and principle. Miss Yuan filed for divorce again, but her husband refused to live or die, arguing that she was only doing business with the other party, and even if she had a relationship, she was just taking part in accidental amusement. She also complained that Miss Yuan made a mountain out of a molehill and made trouble without reason.
Miss Yuan can't accept her husband's excuse, not to mention his bad behavior of cheating again and again. No matter how her parents-in-law advised her, Miss Yuan wanted to get a divorce, but considering that the baby is still young, whether she can get custody after divorce and how to give her a healthy growth environment, Miss Yuan is still very entangled in her heart.
The problem is so rigid, it is difficult to live without it, and it is difficult to leave without it, which makes Miss Yuan very painful.
Cheating has always been a very serious social phenomenon in today's society, especially for men, which has almost become the most important factor to destroy marriage. There are many reasons for men to cheat, physical, psychological, spiritual and physiological. Even if a man has a good relationship with his partner, such an anecdote will come out from time to time. For some cheating men, an affair is just a time for them to relax and take risks. They tried to prove their masculinity by cheating, but in fact, it was this unfaithful idea that not only harmed a marriage, but also ruined a family.
In the face of men's infidelity, women should not just divorce angrily, or silently endure such rashness. Go or not? Study the wisdom of women in managing marriage and life.
Divorce, a gorgeous turn, will only make room for mistress, but lose her marriage and family that she has worked hard for many years? Doing so is not worth the loss, and it will bring indelible regret to your future marriage life.
Everyone has his own factors to consider when making a decision, and this factor must be in line with his own vital interests. Whether to go or stay, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, or the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, we must consider clearly. Sometimes the intervention of a third party is just the red light of marriage crisis, which helps you find the loopholes in marriage and repair them in time, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be more harmonious.