On the weekend night, Xiaoya, Wen Ling and Yan Yan meet in the Moon Teahouse.
All three are middle-aged women, working and living in the same city. When they are free, they get together to talk about their families and jobs.
After dinner, Wen Ling and Su Fang suddenly had a fierce quarrel. Xiaoya is bowing her head to send WeChat to her son who is far away from home, unaware of it.
Wen Ling poked Xiaoya's arm to make her stand.
Xiaoya looked up and stared blankly for a moment before he woke up.
Wen Ling and Su Fang recognized the advantages and disadvantages of investing in facade houses at present, and held their own opinions to outdo each other.
Xiaoya said euphemistically: The income of facade houses should be based on lots, products and building types, so it is not good to generalize.
We are all friends, we should take care of our feelings, but we should also express our true thoughts, so that we can offend both sides.
Xiaoya when' tis once spoken, Wen Ling immediately raised his voice. Xiaoya, you are both right and wrong. You dare not stick to your true ideas and cater to Su Fang unilaterally.
Xiaoya smiled. Indeed, my statement is close to Su Fang's, but this is my own real idea, and I didn't please or cater to anyone.
Seeing that Xiaoya was disobedient, Wen Ling struck the table hard: My statement is well-founded, and Su Fang's statement is full of loopholes. Obviously, the lice on the bald man's head are obvious. You, Xiaoya, actually helped her. Isn't this a lie?
Xiaoya's inner thought is that what you think is right doesn't mean that others think it is right, so others can't have their own ideas?
Xiaoya didn't want to make each other nervous. What she said is that I personally feel that investment and financial management are affected by many factors and there is no standard answer.
Before Xiaoya finished, Wen Ling stood up: This is my standard answer. Is it necessary to be ambiguous? The clearest thing is that you deliberately disagree, but you refuse to admit defeat.
Su Fang still sticks to his opinion. Why do people have to think what you think is right? Is your opinion a scientific law? So, the two held their own words, put numbers, and tell the truth ... completely ignored the eyebrows of other guests.
Many times before, when two people had differences, Wen Ling would take Xiaoya to the side, but in fact, she had to be right and Su Fang had to be wrong. In most cases, Xiaoya will make peace and obey Wen Ling, while Su Fang does not blindly take it seriously.
This time, Su Fang's stubbornness came up. Why is she always right? Xiaoya didn't want to go against his will.
Finally, the debate turned into a quarrel, and Wen Ling left in anger. That night, she knocked Xiaoya and Sufang out.
Xiaoya began to feel surprised, sad and a little sorry, and decades of friendship was deleted with one click.
Think about it carefully and feel lucky. For decades, such people have always been opinionated, self-centered, and have the upper hand in everything, regardless of other people's feelings.
Don't be friends
There are such people in life who are always self-righteous. Their views and opinions are always correct and always the standard answer. Not only that, but also impose ideas on others. Others have to disagree, but they must agree and accept.
My daughter wants to learn to dance, and my mother thinks painting is good, so she signs up for painting in the summer vacation, and the child doesn't know what to do;
The liberal arts and science class in the second year of high school. My son likes Chinese. My father thinks that the employment prospects of liberal arts are not as broad as those of science. That son must study science. Lao Tzu is no more farsighted than his son? ;
My daughter wants to marry a poor boy who is willing to work hard and make progress. My mother strongly disagreed. The rich second generation with a car and a house is the best candidate. What is within reach is no more reliable than an uncertain future? It's right to listen to your mother. She has crossed more bridges than you.
When the subordinates submitted the research report, the director just glanced at the catalogue and closed it, completely denying it. You are too junior and narrow-minded, so you'd better listen to my arrangement. If you don't go to the front line for a year, the information you get from running the market every day is more informative.
I am smart, and you are ordinary and honest, so my thoughts and practices are more correct than yours. You have to listen to me.
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Such scenes can be seen everywhere.
In the final analysis, those who are self-righteous and want to impose on others are not only willful, but also feel too good about themselves, always thinking that they are smarter and more capable than others.
This kind of person, and obsessive-compulsive disorder. Once others don't agree with or accept the so-called "right thing", they will convince you, refute you and belittle you until you admit him or accept him.
In this world, a hundred flowers blossom with different postures. People have the same idea. Seen from one side of the mountain, the height is different.
Impose what you think is right on others. In the final analysis, you are either too narcissistic or too ignorant!