My niece said solemnly, "You still preach classics. Educate the children first. Our children have so many problems that we have to help others educate them. Who believes you? " ? "
I believe that many family members have heard of this kind of white robbery, or they will have such an idea in their hearts. Because of some small problems of children, I am not confident in carrying forward the classics. They clearly know the benefits of learning classics, but they dare not introduce them to others.
How to solve such a problem?
First of all, we should be very clear in our hearts about what it means to educate our children well. Don't you think our children are poorly educated?
Someone must have said, why is education so good that it is still awkward with you? Look who, whose children are so excellent and how harmonious the family is!
In fact, when you are thinking about how excellent some children are, have you ever considered a question: Are there any other excellent children who are also perfect?
Is there anything perfect in the world? Obviously. No matter how good a child is, there will always be some problems, depending on what you think and how to guide you when you encounter problems! Instead of never having any problems.
Teacher Zhang Han once said in encouraging students: Look ahead to everything and try to do well in the present. If we look back, everyone has shortcomings in the way of education. If we go back in time, we may not be perfect. Life is not perfect. It's a pity to miss it, but you must learn to let it go. Reorganize and start over. Do not worry about the past, but pave the way for tomorrow.
Because there are imperfections, we know beauty. Because there are 80 points, we know that 100 is good. Everyone is 100, so there is no good or bad. Because we are aware of the shortcomings, we know how to improve, better than yesterday. This is also the case.
For the use of mobile phones, children want to have a mobile phone on the grounds of listening to music, sending notices from the school and facilitating contact. Before deciding to buy a mobile phone, they agreed with their children on the rules of using the mobile phone and wrote it down in the form of a contract. The two sides signed an agreement and are willing to abide by it.
This was agreed in advance. First, let children understand how to use mobile phones reasonably, what can and can't be done. In addition, the network world is rich and colorful, and many adults are addicted to mobile phones, not to mention children with strong curiosity and thirst for knowledge. One day they can't control the time of using their mobile phones, which is normal. When it cannot be used reasonably, compulsory confiscation shall be taken. When it is executed, because it is agreed in advance, even if the child is extremely reluctant, there is no way but to hand it in.
Ji Ji Gua in the Book of Changes: A gentleman takes precautions by thinking. Tell us to nip in the bud, don't dig a well and throw a cone when you are thirsty.
Infiltrate life with classics, guide life with wisdom, study classics, Ming Jing and menstruation with a group of like-minded people, and have a collision of thoughts. What a blessing in life!
Excerpt from group chat: (the benefits of reading classics for the elderly)
Easy family culture-the whole group (the classic of nourishing the heart);
Last time my mother let an illiterate grandmother watch a classic video, which inspired us. Children who can't read can read classics, even if they can't read.
Easy family culture-the whole group (the classic of nourishing the heart);
So old people who can't read can read along with the audio.
Elder sister:
I think my mother is better at reading classics than playing mahjong. Rich and healthy!
Easy family culture-the whole group (the classic of nourishing the heart);
I feel warm after reading the Book of Changes 100 every morning, so reading the Book of Changes is also an exercise for my mother.
Jiang Chunfang @ fasttool:
@ Wuhu Tianyi Grandma M0.4? Mm-hmm (to express an exclamation after eating delicious food)
Elder sister:
@ Hefei Han Yima M7? I read classics in the park every day and many old people ask me for advice.
Easy family culture-the whole group (the classic of nourishing the heart);
Reading classics can increase vital capacity and self-confidence. My mother looks very happy after watching it today. She must be thinking: I can read even if it is so difficult.
Easy family culture-the whole group (the classic of nourishing the heart);
From now on, I will take my mother to read Zhu Xi's family motto @ Wuhu Tianyi Grandma M0.4
Elder sister:
@ One Culture Wuhu Machuan M 13 Yuan Qun? line
Easy family culture-the whole group (the classic of nourishing the heart);
In the past, the understanding of caring for the elderly was aimed at the educated elderly, but I don't remember being able to read even if I can't read.