My friend Jony J's child is the latter, because at the age of three, he is slower than his peers and does everything slowly, so he is often laughed at; Many people privately nicknamed Jony J's children "silly children".
Xiao Jia certainly knows what others call her children, but although she is very angry, she can't say anything because her mouth grows on others' faces. However, it also inspired Jony J's "stubborn temper". She said that she would prove to others that her children were not stupid at all.
As a result, Xiao Jia began to embark on the road of "chicken baby".
Other children just play around every day, while Jony J's children have to accept their mother's "special training"; For example, I have been doing all kinds of intellectual development games, logical thinking training, concentration training, reasoning ability training and so on. And I haven't been idle for a moment.
In addition, Xiao Jia also assigned a lot of physical exercise tasks to his children, which really reached the point where he would not give up until he exercised his children well. Everyone is also quite critical of Xiao Jia's educational behavior.
Some people think Xiao Jia is irresponsible. It's really hard for children to experiment with their own children all day in order to win breath. Such a young child should have fun instead of being used as a training machine.
Someone raised a bigger question. They think that children's cleverness depends on heredity. No matter how much Jony J does, children can't be "geniuses".
Obviously, most people are waiting to see Xiao Jia's jokes. However, the development of things has greatly exceeded everyone's expectations. When children in Jony J reach the age of primary school, their performance in class can be described as "amazing".
In terms of grades, Xiao Jia's children are among the best in all subjects, especially mathematics, which is worthy of the name "mathematics knows everything." However, the child can answer all the questions in his study, and his classmates often ask him for advice, and the teacher also praises him.
In life, Xiao Jia is also an athlete, not only playing basketball well, but also sprinting very well.
Seeing that Jony J's children are so excellent, those who are waiting for jokes are embarrassed; Unexpectedly, this child who was once called "silly baby" has changed so much, which is really unexpected.
Of course, the child has become so excellent, and it is inseparable from his mother's efforts. When Xiao Jia was accused of being irresponsible and using her child as a training machine, was she really distressed? She also cried behind her back several times because of some gossip.
However, Michelle knew in her heart that everything she did was for the good of her children. Facts have proved that Jony J's approach is correct.
As the saying goes, "nobody asks you if you are poor in downtown, but you have money and distant relatives in the mountains." Many people see that children in Jony J have changed so much that they all come to Jony J for advice on how to educate their children.
Jony J is not an unreasonable person. Although many people have made fun of her before, she generously shared her experiences and methods. In fact, children have changed a lot because Jony J has always insisted on taking children to do these three things.
1. Exercise children's thinking ability and improve their attention.
Xiao Jia said that those so-called claims to improve children's intelligence are nonsense! If children can be made smart only through some training, are they still human?
Xiao Jia knows that children have poor reaction ability and are slow to do things. This is a congenital condition, and it is too difficult to change it. But it is often not IQ that determines the gap between children. What is this?
It is a habit, and the habit of focusing on things ranks first. Most of the children with poor grades have the problems of inattention, procrastination in homework and distraction in class. People are in the classroom, but thoughts are running outside.
Therefore, Xiao Jia usually attaches great importance to cultivating children's concentration. Xiao Jia's method of cultivating children's concentration is also unique. If you go to Xiao Jia's house, you will find a pile of sticker books beside the bookshelf, which children usually play with. I estimate that there are not less than 100 books.
Xiao Jia said that it is really effective for children to play more sticker books to improve their concentration. Parents are advised to try if they think their children have poor concentration.
For example, Xiao Jia's children like to play this set of Sticker Books for Concentrated Thinking Training. Every time the children can play for a long time, Xiao Jia sometimes calls the children next to him, but the children don't hear him. This is the performance of strong concentration.
As the saying goes, "people who don't listen to things outside the window and read only sage books" are often more likely to succeed.
2. Take children to exercise together, adjust their state and exercise their reaction ability.
Is it true that we often hear that "exercise makes people happy"? Of course it's true. When people exercise, dopamine will be produced in the brain. The function of dopamine is to regulate mood and make people have a happy mood.
Xiao Jia takes his children to exercise every day, one is to keep them in a positive state, and the other is to exercise their reaction ability.
3. Reject all comparisons, let children dare to accept themselves and always give them confidence and courage.
There are comparisons everywhere in life, and many excellent children tend to be mediocre in comparison.
After having children, many parents are more competitive; Xiao Jia, on the other hand, never compares his children with others. It's that she makes children dare to accept their own defects, and it doesn't matter if they are slow to respond or do things slowly.
As long as you focus on what you are doing and do it bit by bit, you can be the one who laughs last.
The above is the secret for Little Canon to educate a "clumsy" child into an excellent child. These three points are indispensable, especially the first point mentioned. It is important to cultivate children's habit of concentration from an early age.
It can be seen that concentration is very important to anyone. For children, no matter how clever they are, it is difficult for them to make progress in their studies if their concentration is poor. On the contrary, even children with poor talents can make continuous progress if they can persevere and concentrate.
Having said that, Xiao Jia was most impressed, because in cultivating children's concentration, she stepped on many pits at first and used many methods, but the effect was not obvious; It was not until the children came into contact with the stickers that they made significant progress.
Why can playing with stickers improve children's concentration?
First of all, the purpose is very strong.
Sticker books are for training children's concentration. Children can exercise hand-eye coordination by tearing and pasting two simple and repetitive actions. Then in the process of finding the target position, the child's attention will be unconsciously concentrated, and the moment he finds the target, the child will have a great sense of accomplishment.
In this way, children are used to enjoying this sense of accomplishment, and if they want to get a sense of accomplishment, they need to concentrate. Slowly, the child's concentration will be exercised.
Secondly, the design theme of the sticker is very rich, which can not only improve the concentration, but also improve the children's cognitive ability; For example, this set of "Sticker Book for Concentrated Thinking Training" often played by children in Jony J, with the theme of 12, can cultivate children's 12 ability.
Distinguishing and comparing ability, observing thinking ability, calculating ability, logical reasoning ability, etc. Jony J's children's math ability is better, that is, they have been fully exercised before school and their logical thinking ability has been continuously improved, so they can show a good level after primary school.
Under the recommendation of Xiao Jia, I also started to make this set of stickers for my daughter's thinking training. I was worried that my daughter would throw it away after playing for a while, but I didn't expect her to play for a long time, which really surprised me.
The key is to play for a while and find that my daughter has made great progress, her thinking is clearer and clearer, and her expression ability has improved a lot. After personal experience, I feel that this set of "Sticker Book for Thinking Strength Training" is really good. Children can play there for a long time by themselves, and they don't always call their parents. It is also much easier for me to take care of my baby.
This set of stickers for thinking strength training is suitable for children aged 2-6, with a total of 12 books and about 3,600 stickers, so that children can have fun, and rich themes can improve their ability.
If there are 2-6-year-old children at home, it is really good to suggest that parents can also start a set. It is easy to take care of your baby by yourself, and it can also improve your child's concentration. Once the concentration is cultivated, parents will be much more relaxed when their children go to primary school. Otherwise, your temper will be tested when your children do homework, exams and other things.