Eat witnessed the friendship between He Jiong and Huang Lei for 20 years.
Tips: The article is a bit long and full of friendship from old friends. It will take about ten minutes to finish reading.
The ancients used "Bo Ya period" as a metaphor for intimate friends or confidants.
If music has fulfilled Yu Boya's and Zhong Ziqi's idea that "there is no bosom friend anywhere in the world", then for Huang Lei and He Jiong, it is entirely because of eating.
After all, for foodies, there is no problem that a meal can't solve. If there is, then two meals.
1997, He Jiong was 23 years old and Huang Lei was 26 years old.
He Jiong hosted the music program "Very Red", and his solo album "Walking and Singing" was a guest of Huang Lei. The producer introduced them to each other, and the boat of friendship set sail at once.
Huang Lei and He Jiong have a lot in common.
Everyone became famous very early, and they all chose to stay in school to teach after graduating from college.
For so many years, everyone used to affectionately call him He Laoshi, Miss Huang.
Both of them are famous "three good men": high IQ, high EQ and good reputation;
How difficult is it to have zero bad reviews in the entertainment circle? But they are one of the few survivors, smart, beautiful and intelligent, and can take care of everyone's feelings at any time.
But in the past 20 years, He Jiong and Huang Lei have taken two completely different life paths.
He Laoshi's impression hasn't changed much. Whether acting, singing, making movies or participating in various variety shows, the host of Happy Camp will always be his biggest label.
Because Kuaiben met after 80, because Kuaiben met after 00.
He will always be the versatile and comprehensive He Jiong, no matter how busy he is, he will never make mistakes. Up to now, it still keeps flying to several cities a week, taking into account the high-intensity workload of n programs;
Teacher Huang is different,
After 70, I met him because I walked and sang. I think I am the sea.
I like him after 80, because in April, orange is red.
After 90, I may think that I am just an actress in family ethics dramas such as "I love my boyfriend" and "Defence of Marriage".
After 00 years, I probably just want to appreciate his high IQ in Extreme Challenge.
After reaching the peak of his life, Huang Lei was keen to turn away to pursue a leisurely life choice.
He has experienced passionate youth, and he has also tasted the passing of the Sri Lankan people, from a handsome guy who doesn't eat human fireworks to a fat uncle who has a wife and daughter at home and a kitchen under the hall. As an actor, he has enjoyed the scenery at every stage of his life.
He is the counterexample of He Laoshi,
He Laoshi people are precocious and naive in middle age.
It stands to reason that it is difficult to maintain a pure friendship with completely different life choices and rapidly changing entertainment circles.
But it's a coincidence,
Huang Lei is a good cook who can act naturally, and He Jiong is a gourmet who knows how to host naturally!
From the day they met, He Jiong got a meal ticket from Huang Lei.
Huang Lei and He Jiong starred in the Lai Shengchuan drama "Peach Blossom Garden", with 500 performances from 2006 to 20 16.
Huang Lei said that after every game, we would go for a snack. Who can have 500 snacks with whom? It's wonderful to think about it.
He Jiong often goes to Huang Lei's house to "eat rice", which is bigger than Huang Lei's daughter.
Over time, He Jiong became the "family" of Huang Lei's family.
Sun Li also said, "When I first met him, I called him' Little He Jiong'. It's strange that no one taught her. "
In The Life I yearn for, Huang Lei spoke out. Once, his foot was injured and put in a plaster, and he sat on the bar stool to cook. As a result, after He Jiong entered the room and saw Huang Lei, he only said, "It's not good yet, I'm hungry ..."
The trust and tacit understanding between the two were also formed in this meal.
Whether inside or outside the circle, He Jiong seldom shows weakness, and generally takes care of others. Only in front of Huang Lei can he become the object of "being taken care of".
20 15, He Jiong took the movie "Gardenia Blossoms" because of saving face. When looking for a film producer, Huang Lei was his first thought.
Huang Lei asked him, "What do you want me to do?"
He Jiong said, "You don't have to do it either. As long as you agree, my heart will be much more practical. "
He Jiong said in an interview afterwards:
"When looking for producers, I originally considered many big-name producers and directors. But I am selfish and insecure. So I want to find a professional, experienced person who understands that I love me and will accommodate me. "
When He Jiong was filming, he was often absent from work because of the recording of Kuaiben, and whenever something happened, Huang Lei would help him shoot.
Huang Lei described the relationship between them as good as falling in love, sending WeChat every day and saying everything.
After the film was released, he was asked to score.
Huang Lei said, "In my opinion, it's good that he passed the exam. As one of the best hosts and the owner and pillar of Happy Camp, he made a memorial for his youth and made a movie. "
By "eating", you can become bosom friends. Not only should we have time to sit and eat together, but we should also eat speculatively and in tune.
After eating the rice cooked by Miss Huang for so many years, He Laoshi seems to be more and more fascinated, and he can never get enough.
In "Life I yearn for", He Laoshi is always the first one to move chopsticks, and always the most famous one. It looks so delicious that the whole person will jump.
He Jiong should also lend a helping hand to Huang Lei's advanced "yellow kitchen".
Two partners opened the studio HSTUDIO on 20 15.
In two years, I invested in Huang Xiaochu's spring, summer, autumn and winter, midnight food store and my yearning life, and cooked with Huang Xiaochu for a whole year.
Huang Lei said, "A bosom friend is when two people with the same smell meet unexpectedly. I want to sit next to you, have a lot of meals with you and talk to you for a few hours. "
You see, the friendship between the two old people is not obvious, but it is obvious in a porridge and a meal.
I heard a passage:
Two foodies falling in love must be a permanent stumbling block on each other's way to lose weight.
And after every feast, it will be very consistent: no country, no city, only liquidation.
In He Laoshi and Mr. Huang, I see that this basic feeling is not limited to men and women, and it seems that it is also applicable to men and women.
No matter how many pages have passed, He Jiong is still the little He Jiong who can eat four bowls of rice at a time in Huang Lei's home. This kind of "eaten" friendship is enviable.
▼ "Xiao Hezhen"&"Yellow Kitchen" tells you.
What is the friendship between men?
I remember that "Life I yearn for" was broadcast for two or three episodes, and some netizens asked why I also went to the countryside to cook and invite friends to dinner, so "12 Wei" was not so good …
Because ... because there is no friendship between Huang Lei and He Jiong.
Friendship between people is like old wine. The more you brew, the more fragrant and delicious it is.
In this program, He Jiong is no longer a versatile He Laoshi, and Huang Lei is no longer a sophisticated teacher Huang.
Both of them showed the warmest side of life and taught ordinary people the truth of being a man and making friends.
A true friend is that I don't have to hide or pretend in front of you;
Feel free to show my shortcomings and say what I can't tell others.
For a long time, He Laoshi was added with the footnote of "What's the best" because he was too perfect in treating people, and questioned that he was too smart and sophisticated.
However, in my yearning life, you can see an imperfect He Jiong, who always turns to Huang Lei for help whenever there is trouble. But this He Jiong is incredibly real.
He Laoshi said frankly: "The reason why I can't show anything in front of Mr. Huang is because I don't have to pretend to be great in front of my real friends."
Teacher Huang added: "In front of the person you love the most, the easiest thing for everyone to do is to show their weakness, gaps and shortcomings, so when a person shows shortcomings in front of you, it is precisely because he loves you and trusts you ..."
In the penultimate issue, He Jiong rarely showed its weakness.
In front of Huang Lei, he told the truth and felt that his life had not improved. "My age of 2 1 is naive, and I have never changed. I am not particularly young and frivolous, so I am particularly boring. "
Huang Lei went on to say, "Our life, from childhood to college graduation, has basically taken shape. As long as we don't regress, it will be perfect."
This passage was criticized as poisoned chicken soup on the Internet, but don't forget, it was told to He Jiong by Huang Lei at that time. He knows that He Jiong is very hard on himself, which has always been a pain in He Jiong's neck.
He is telling He Jiong that in his eyes, it is perfect to be the truest you.
He Jiong played a song "Time flies like water", and Huang Lei shared a deep secret after listening to it.
He stopped singing these years because:
The man who wrote this song is dead. He is my best friend, and his name is Chen Zhiyuan. He made all my records. Because mountains and rivers are looking for bosom friends, I won't sing when he dies …
A true friend is someone who doesn't need much communication.
But one look and one action is enough to show the tacit understanding between us.
If you watch Life of Desire carefully, you will be warmed by many details between two old friends.
Over the years, Huang Lei knew He Jiong's taste very well, and would silently help He Laoshi to pick up food while eating.
A true friend is the kind of person who only argues without quarreling.
Any disagreement and unhappiness can be solved with a cup of tea and a piece of toast.
As the saying goes, "those who dare to quarrel are good friends, and those who quarrel are true friends."
Huang Lei said: "People are little princes and foxes, and we are little He Jiong yellow chefs."
20 years is a long time, long enough to achieve a career, harvest a family, long enough to help you screen the sincerity of your friends, and the last old friend who can withstand the erosion of time must be a hard-to-find confidant in your life;
20 years is also very short, so short that it seems that you are still ignorant and young today, and you have reached the age of no doubt in a blink of an eye, and I am glad that I have been in your story for these 20 years, and I took you with me.
Life is frustrated, you accompany me to relieve boredom;
I am proud of my life, having you to share with me;
In the corner of the years, you can see each other whenever you turn around.
Then I said to myself, it's good to have you …
This is the best friendship.
May we all reap such pure and affectionate friendship.