When my family was devastated, the female colleague sitting on the left side of my desk was very enthusiastic. After my family's accident, she has been caring for me, taking care of me, tirelessly enlightening me, encouraging me, and immersing me in tears.
From then on, I regarded her as someone I could talk to, and later I became a good friend who talked about everything. So, on that "special" day, she asked me a lot about my family, and I told her everything without reservation.
But since she knew most things about my family, I found that she began to alienate me intentionally or unintentionally, and her attitude towards me was not as good as before, and I also found that she seemed to look down on me and wanted to draw a line with me. At that time, I felt I had done something wrong and offended her. I went to her several times to explain, but she didn't say anything, which puzzled me.
If she didn't get cancer later, two colleagues told me quietly that she had secretly done wicked things to me behind my back. I heard with my own ears that she was hurting me behind my back, and I estimated that I would always treat her as a good person.
It's all because when I first came out to work, I was too simple to know people with my eyes. I didn't know that human nature could be so bad and mean.
However, she is the most hateful, annoying and unforgivable thing. She actually took photos of my family's death and introduced them to new colleagues everywhere, and there was more than one. How forbearing! When I knew what she had done, I hacked her without saying anything.
Afterwards she shamelessly asked me why I was hacked. If I ignore her, I just ignore her! After she got cancer, I comforted and encouraged her on WeChat day and night, and even helped her go to see a doctor everywhere and asked how to treat it. What a heartless thing
It was not until that moment that I realized that her so-called kindness and concern for me at that time was just to get the truth from me and then publish the latest news of my family in front of my colleagues to show off the first-hand information she got. This is undoubtedly adding salt to my wound, adding insult to injury appropriately.
What a pity! After that, I saw her face clearly, a hypocritical gossip!
A female colleague sitting on the right of my desk, a little girl who just graduated from school, but I didn't expect her to be so bad. I didn't know until after her family accident. If the former colleague is a gossip, then she is a scheming little bitch!
For the tragedy of my family, at first, she was hypocritically concerned about me. After collecting information about my family, she turned around and told everyone about my family.
Originally, forget it. The key point is that she is always scheming and vicious, and often sets me up, calculates me and runs on me at work. The most popular thing is that she often reports to the leader behind my back, giving me little shoes to wear and letting me be assigned by the leader to do what no one wants to do, which I also recognize.
But what I hate and can't stand most is that she actually said that someone in my family died in front of me. Why, why, she didn't avoid suspicion at all, and she didn't respect the dead. She even tried to put salt on my wound, which made me angry, but she was helpless and had to put up with it!
Later, I don't know if it was a coincidence or a coincidence. Anyway, not long after, the bad news of her father came, which was worse than my family. Her father's death not only made her lose her reputation and face, but also brought out a mistress and an illegitimate child to fight for her inheritance. Originally, her family was poor, and a family of three lived in a shabby house of 50 to 60 square meters, and now they have to be robbed.
So, she and her mother got into a fight with Xiao San (according to what she later said, her mother got into a fight with Xiao San), and all of a sudden, it made a fuss about it, and everyone was talking about it.
At that time, I didn't know she was so bad. As soon as I knew that something had happened to her family, I called and sent a message to greet her and comfort her. Later, she asked me about my funeral, and I took pains to tell her.
Who knows, when she came to work after work, she spoke ill of me in front of everyone, and I just heard it. A colleague told me about her in private, and I didn't believe her. After all, she is still a little girl. Who knew her character was really that bad, so I hacked her from now on.
Afterwards, she came to ask me why I was hacked. In order to avoid embarrassing everyone, I told her that I uninstalled WeChat, so I deleted everyone and sent her away.
A friend who owed money to our family, when his family lent him money, we all knew how much he had borrowed. Because we were close friends, we didn't make an iou at that time.
As a result, after an accident at home, I went to urge him to pay back the money, but he refused to accept it. Fortunately, he found a third-party witness and had to admit that he just deliberately said that the amount borrowed was thousands less. At that time, I argued with him, but he refused to admit it, insisting that he had already paid part of it back.
However, two days before the accident, the family clearly called him in front of us and urged him to pay back the money. Our whole family knows that we have never paid back a penny at all, but even if he bullied us, there is no evidence to say it now.
No way, let's admit it again, just say as much as he says! As long as you are willing to pay it back now, because we are waiting for the money. Who knows that we urged him again and again, but he just refused to return it. He even shouted at me impatiently on the phone: "Isn't it just that little money I owe you?" Still afraid I'll miss yours? Really, push every day ... "
Listen, he owes money like grandpa, and we are called grandchildren. Although he had a bad attitude, we were not in the mood to argue with him. I thought, for the sake of money, I'll put up with you!
Later, he paid a little every month, and it took nearly a year to pay us back.
Not long after this happened, he was eating in a restaurant and fell to the ground inexplicably. When he was sent to the hospital, he was gone.
Through the above three things, we find that people really can't do bad things, let alone harm others, otherwise there will be no good things.
My ex-girlfriend is a typical case! She ate me, drank me and lived with me, but she fell in love with another man without telling me. As a result, it was far beyond her expectation.
My ex-girlfriend is my colleague. She is very beautiful, especially her hazy eyes, which give people a sober feeling and leave a deep impression on me.
When she first came to our unit, she was criticized by the leader many times because she didn't know anything. As an old comrade, I am not stingy with my own experience and take the initiative to coach her.
With my help, she made rapid progress. And with further getting along, my relationship with her is getting better and better. Until one day, she confessed to me.
I was single dog at that time, not because nobody liked me, but because I was more demanding. However, it may be a long-term love, and I agreed to her confession without much consideration.
Although she changed jobs later, with the deepening of feelings, I still let her move to my place. I told her that I was responsible for making money to support my family and she was responsible for being beautiful. So during the more than one year with her, I was responsible for all the expenses at home.
Until one day, she left her mobile phone at home. I read her chat records and found that she had been in love with another man since six months ago.
At this time, I suddenly realized. No wonder some time ago, she often said that she would go to her best friend's house and not go home at night.
Think about it carefully and feel really stupid. I have no doubt that she often doesn't go home.
That night, under my questioning, she admitted it. At that time, I was calm and didn't scold her, let alone hit her. I said, let's get together and leave, and let her move out the next day.
I thought my relationship with her was over after she moved away. But to my surprise, about three months later, she called me and said that she needed someone to take care of her in the hospital. After all, once, I promised to take care of her for a few days.
It turned out that after leaving me, she was with that man. Later, when she was pregnant and was about to tell the man, she accidentally found that the man was married.
She miscarried because of too much mood swings, but the man turned a blind eye to her. She had to turn to me for help.
She also said that she knew she was wrong and wanted me to give her one last chance.
I turned down her request. I took care of her until she left the hospital, and then I hacked her.
However, I don't feel cruel at all. Because, I have tried my best.
On the contrary, I think the reason why she is so miserable is totally self-inflicted and retribution.
I once heard a case told by a teacher. At that time, I felt that there was nothing more meaningful.
My teacher is also a psychological counselor, and a female helper found her. This helper, we will call her Zhong Qing.
Zhong Qing, 46, has a son who is still in high school.
Her husband died suddenly in a car accident, which was a blow to Zhong Qing. Because the job income of Zhongqing is meager, the husband at home is the pillar.
The sudden death of her husband was like a bolt from the blue for Zhong Qing, and she lost her heart.
The husband's family, who should have helped Zhongqing, unexpectedly became the biggest victim of Zhongqing.
How are these injuries caused?
Zhong Qing and his son can only rent in the cheapest small hotel now. Zhong Qing has looked for her in-laws, but it's meaningless. Now that my husband is gone, I haven't got a penny of my pension, and even my only residence has been taken away by my father-in-law. I was isolated, I couldn't find anyone to help me, and finally I suffered from severe depression.
After psychological counseling, Zhong Qing's depression was relieved. But in this process, "contemporary newspapers" appeared:
This case shocked all of us who have heard of it.
This is a coincidence. This is a coincidence.
Originally, in addition to grief and indignation, in order to defend the rights and interests of myself and my son, I was desperate to find a unit and find a street, but in the end it did not decline. In the case that he had given up, these successive secular newspapers gave Zhongqing a fair treatment.
It can be seen that there are always things that cannot be explained clearly in this world. In short, be kind to others and be kind to yourself; Have a way with others and a retreat with yourself.