However, the representation of each soul fragment contributor is of course unequal. Those who love us and those who love us are those who get the strongest representation in our hearts. And our "I" is formed by the complex collision of all their influences over the years.
The people who have influenced me the most in recent years are Mr. Li Xiaolai and Mr. Zhang Huihui. I am very happy and grateful to meet these two interesting souls in my life.
Recently, Brother Hui wrote an article entitled "Men must have money". I studied it carefully and wanted to digest it myself.
Brother Hui said at the beginning of the article that the best choice for a man in this life is to be a talented, rich, affectionate, righteous and well-off young man. Among these four kinds of possession, money is neither the starting point nor the end point, but money is the starting point of everything.
Whether you want to be good to yourself, your loved ones, your parents or your children, you need a certain amount of money as the foundation. So why do men need money? The teacher said that happiness is a strong connection between you and the world you live in. What are the main components of the world we live in? Our lovers, our parents, our children and our friends. So if we want them to live a better life, we must have money, and money is the starting point of everything.
Regarding what money is, I think what the punchline teacher said is very reasonable. Teacher Xiao said that money has three realms: one is to test the progress of our growth, the other is the hard power to get rid of difficulties, and the third is a good tool to change the world.
Money is a progress bar to test our growth. As long as we are willing, we can always find ways to make money, and the market is the biggest battlefield to test our ability. Han Han once said something similar. He said you had a lot of fans who said you were useless. Only those who support you with real money are true love. In other words, the money we earn is the best evaluation of our ability and the most important affirmation of our growth, and the rest is empty.
It is a glorious thing to make money by your own ability. Don't be shy about talking about money. The more money you earn, the faster you grow and the better your ability. This feeling is even better than the pleasure brought by money, so we must find ways to make money work for us.
Money is the hard power to get out of trouble. In life, whether it's sweet talk or filial piety, you need money to support you. Love needs strength, not just lip service. We should be kind to the people we care about, and we need money to meet her needs. When our relatives are sick and need our filial piety, we must pay for them to live well.
Happiness comes from our sense of contribution to the same body. Our most important body is our relatives and friends, so it is more meaningful to eliminate the fear of lack of money from relatives and friends than the so-called freedom of wealth. Let them no longer be unhappy because of lack of money.
Money is a good tool to change the world. If we have the ability to make money and the wisdom to support capital, then we can use money to make the world a better place. Teacher Li Xiaolai is a person who can change the world with money.
So what is money? Money is the progress of our growth, the hard power to get rid of difficulties and a good tool to change the world.
It is a fact that people have no ambition. Men must solve the problem of money if they want to be affectionate and righteous. So how does a person with ordinary birth and ordinary luck become rich? Perhaps many people's answer is: hard work. On this question, Huige's answer is to be talented, talented first, and then rich. Teacher Li Xiaolai said to make himself more valuable. In fact, there is no essential difference between what they say and what they say is to make themselves more valuable. So how to make yourself talented, more valuable, or more valuable?
Regarding how men become rich, I think Huige's answer can give full marks. Brother Hui said that a person can only become rich if he has talent, and the essence of talent is rational and continuous self-education.
How do we make good use of existing resources, invest in our own education, make ourselves smarter, more discerning, more popular, more respected, and make our interpersonal network more valuable? All these come from rational continuous self-education.
This rational continuous self-education is mainly divided into three aspects:
First of all, we need to understand the essence of money-the most important thing of money is not consumption but investment, that is, continuous investment and reproduction as capital, so as to appreciate and prolong life. The so-called sleepless money means sleepless capital, so we have only one thing to do, that is, to understand the essence of money and constantly turn our cash into capital. This process is slow and tortuous, but it is pleasant. We need to devote a lot of time and attention to fighting against our greed and laziness. This is a long gentle slope. All we have to do is patiently snowball and watch ourselves get rich.
Secondly, we need to understand the essence of work-the essence of work is the process of value creation and exchange. The best way for men to get higher income at work is to find a platform that can develop rapidly and give full play to their advantages and potentials, and contribute their own value on this platform to gain the freedom they want. So don't simply understand work as getting paid. If so, we are wasting our most precious resources, time and attention. There must be an idea from the beginning that I work for myself. I work hard not for the boss, but for myself, for my growth and for my contribution to society. Only in this way can we cherish every day at work and not be driven by money.
Third, we need to understand the nature of the relationship-the nature of the relationship is a contractual relationship based on * * * knowledge. The fundamental reason why we choose a relationship is that two people can be better together. So this relationship is not to make each other poorer and narrower. But because two people together can make each other richer and more free, maintain and develop our nature and make us comfortable in this relationship. So a good relationship is to be partners and lovers, appreciate each other and grow together.
All three aspects of education need patient self-education to complete. Parents will not teach us the meaning of money, schools will not teach us the meaning of relationships, and ordinary business owners will not teach us the meaning of work. These things need to be done by ourselves. Only in this way can we get out of the ordinary life of hard work and self-pity and become friends of money.
Having said that, let's sum up that the root of happiness is that we are closely connected with the world we live in. The world we live in is made up of our lovers, relatives, friends and children. If we want them to live a better life, we must have money. What is money? Money is a progress bar to test our growth, a hard power to get us out of trouble and a good tool to change the world.
Money is the starting point of everything. If we want to be rich, we must make ourselves valuable. Only in this way can we be valuable.
We must understand that the essence of money is to continue to invest in reproduction as capital, thus appreciating and prolonging life. We need patience to get rich slowly.
We should understand that the essence of work lies in the process of value creation and exchange. We need to know that we work for ourselves. What we have to do is to find a platform that can develop rapidly, give play to our advantages and contribute our own value.
We must understand that the essence of relationship is a contractual relationship based on * * * knowledge. The fundamental reason why we choose a relationship is that two people can be better together. We need to find a partner, appreciate each other and grow together.