What about the man who married a strong woman?
Love is coming. Xiao Lin and Xiao Yue are college classmates. They are in different classes in the same school. At that time, Kobayashi was the president of the Student Union and Xiaoyue was the Minister of Literature and Art of the Student Union. Two equally outstanding people sparked a spark at the school's cultural performance.
At that time, Kobayashi especially appreciated Abortion's personality. Xiaoyue is smart, independent and strong. Her motto is "If you do nothing, you must do your best". Xiao Lin is proud that she can meet such a tough girl.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu once wrote in Fortress Besieged: "To tell the truth, no matter who you marry, after you get married, you will always find that you are not married to the original person, but to another person." Many years later, Kobayashi had a different view of abortion's character.
Desperate after graduation, the two returned to the small town to settle down according to their parents' wishes. Xiao Lin became a civil servant, step by step every day, from nine to five. Xiaoyue became a teacher, teaching in class, and often went out early and came back late.
When I first got married, watching my wife so tired, Kobayashi was deeply distressed by Abortion, and often rushed to cook the meal and wait for Abortion to go home.
But day after day, a big man has to deal with daily necessities. After a long time, he will inevitably complain: "Honey, when can I eat your cooking?"
However, these complaints were ignored by Xiaoyue, because she devoted herself to learning and teaching. Even though she was pregnant for 8 months, she didn't relax at all. It is common to burn the midnight oil. Many things happen, and the "bilingual teaching" she founded has achieved good results. The day after she gave birth to her daughter, she was rated as an excellent teacher at the municipal level. What a double happiness!
I thought that my daughter's birth could hold back my wife's busy pace, but I didn't expect Kobayashi to last alone. As the leader of "bilingual teaching", Xiaoyue was promoted to the director of scientific research and teaching, and often taught experience all over the country for several days.
Xiao Lin is both a father and a mother. While other men are having a leisurely tea chat, he has to catch up on the way to pick up the children. When the other three are happy, he wants to buy food and cook alone.
Just when his wife was on a business trip again, Kobayashi's grievances finally broke out. At that time, my four-year-old daughter caught a cold and her temperature was 39 degrees. "Mom, don't go, mom, don't go ..." The daughter cried in a hoarse and immature voice.
The wife comforted her daughter for a while. Seeing that it was time to start, she had to go out of the house.
At this time, Kobayashi could no longer hold back his anger, and years of bitterness broke out at this moment: "Do you still have this home in your heart?" Don't you feel distressed that the child is so ill? Is work more important or children more important? Let's leave now. Don't come back if you leave! "
The husband's anger shocked abortion. I didn't expect my husband, who has been working hard, to have such a temper, but seeing that the train was going to be late, Abortion still set off.
A profound lesson is that once anger is ignited, it is difficult to put it out.
Kobayashi recalled after the abortion that after marriage, he was a big man who was both a father and a mother. He walked around the kitchen table all day and became the housewife he despised most. The more he thinks about it, the more he feels timid. Finally, he filed for divorce in a fit of pique.
There is no windtight wall. Xiaolin's divorce was known to her friends. After everyone persuaded Xiaolin and Xiaoyue, they were beaten 50 times each, and the divorce storm was calmed down.
Fortunately, both of them have changed since then. Abortion is still very busy at ordinary times, but during the holidays, she dutifully plays the role of a good wife and mother to make up for her debt to Kobayashi.
Xiao Lin also wants to let go. Because abortion is a competition, he has to cooperate with her. It is said that there is a man behind every successful woman, so let him be that man!
Unconsciously, they crossed the seven-year itch and went through ten years of marriage. Today, they are happy.
Life reveals that Xiaoyue is a typical strong woman who is competitive in her career, but as a wife, she failed and even angered her husband's divorce. Fortunately, after the divorce storm, she learned a profound lesson and changed herself in time.
Although two people who love each other don't care who pays more and who pays less, human nature is contradictory and complicated. If you just pay unilaterally forever and don't get the same response from your lover, the consequences are really unimaginable.
In fact, both men and women should bear in mind that career is important, but family is more important. When we are old, it is not fame and fortune that accompanies us, but family.
From now on, let's all take time out and spend more time with our families!