In fact, friends borrowing cars has always been a focus of attention. Not borrowing may hurt feelings, but borrowing is afraid of something like Xiao Wang. So when you encounter such a situation, the best way is to politely refuse. Try not to lend it casually about property problems, otherwise there will be many bad worries waiting for you to solve.
2. Poverty alleviation cannot help Gangzi's father to be honest. At that time, everyone in the village was short of necessities, so he did some work for the village and then went back to work in the tax office until he retired. Gangzi said: At that time, our own relatives and friends were too poor. When others are building houses or breeding, the first thing that comes to mind is dad, who is kind-hearted and always avoids such things. When we were in the most difficult time, such relatives and friends were very embarrassed to see my father. They clung to the money verbally and paid it back immediately, which made my father feel very chilling. He always taught me that it is natural for relatives and friends to lend a helping hand when they are in trouble. Not everyone can only save the world, but can't change the fate of others. ...
In fact, what just son's father said is quite reasonable. As the saying goes, urgency cannot save the poor. For those who are unwilling to make progress, endless help can only make them push their luck. But those ungrateful people can only take others' help for granted. We have a responsibility not to help such people with personality problems.