I was deeply moved by the picture in less than a minute.
Once upon a time, we also made a wish on the moon, the meteor and the sun, hoping that he could realize our little dream. At that time, you may be accompanied by a pure lover or an innocent brother. If there is only one lonely you, it is also an invincible young man full of ambition.
I remember there was a Mid-Autumn Festival in my freshman year. As a left-behind child, because my parents are not at home, I habitually don't go home on holidays. I was outside the middle school with two good friends, and they didn't go home either. By the Fuyi River, three people are talking about their studies, love and dreams.
At that time, there was a stall every summer, a refrigerator with wheels, a fixed wooden pole next to it, a small electric light on the wooden pole, several folding tables and some plastic stools, selling some bean paste, bean jelly, popsicles, ice cream and beer. Every night, residents near the school and students who come out to play will come to take care of the business here.
The three of us each bought a bottle of beer. At that time, we couldn't drink. First, three people were sitting on the flood dike, six legs hanging from it, chatting while swinging. When we were tired of talking, we began to sing. At that time, we sang the sad love songs of Shui Mu Nianhua, Jeff Chang Shin-Che Xinche, Emil Wakin Chau, You Hongming and You Hongming, which accompanied our whole high school. When we were tired of singing, we found a group of strangers singing together behind us. The singing was so terrible that we had to join them to save us.
The moon in Mid-Autumn Festival is the most beautiful and emotional. The breeze by the river made me feel a little dizzy after drinking. Anyway, the more you talk about youth, the more confused you are. Finally, I suggest that three people drink the last sip of wine, break the bottle together, make a wish on the moon together, and then go back to school to sleep.
These years have passed. Anyway, my wish did not come true. I wonder if their wishes have come true. Do they still remember this little picture in their youth? At that time, we were like a xing. We had a dream, it had nothing to do with money, and there were many tears. In the end, sooner or later, we were all persuaded by reality and bid farewell to our original intention. Now that we are no longer young, our original intention has been forgotten. If you ask why, I just want to say.
The disillusionment of Xing's dream is painful, as we have experienced, because we have shed tears and fallen asleep.
As the second generation of officials, Xing is happy, because at least he knew from an early age that he could be an official when he grew up, because his faculties could be bought. Later, he bought the alternate county magistrate of Jiupin Sesame Officer (there is a hint at the back of the film that Bao Longxing regretted after struggling to find a silver or two, and it was not enough for him to buy official flowers).
As a rural born person, a rural child who has been educated and studied since childhood is the only way out. Indeed, reading is the only way out for us mountain people. So, I grew up with only one idea. I want to study hard, get into a good university, and then I can find a relaxed and rich job, dress neatly and decently, and don't have to follow the cow's ass and pig's ass in the mud like my grandparents. At that time, the domestic explosion households were not there. The house price is not expensive either. It was still very young at that time. I don't pay much attention to cars and houses, because without this concept, the richest people in town haven't started buying cars yet.
Whether we go to a liberal arts high school or choose a city school as our major, there are not many people to give us guidance. At that time, our network was not developed enough, and there were no smart phones. Although we occasionally go to internet cafes all night, we don't know how to check the information. We just talked about QQ, watched movies and played games. We don't have a life and career plan.
The so-called ignorant people are fearless. At that time, I was young and energetic, and I thought I was smart. The world is fair. I believe that if I become rich through hard work, I will become a master. It was not until I went to college that I began to envy those so-called official second generation and rich second generation. I got a job and started my career. When I got married, I still looked at the housing prices in Hangzhou and sighed. I think it's far away. To be honest, I was envious of my side. People study abroad without graduating from high school, have a car without graduating from college, have a house as soon as they find a job, and have just got married and started a family. Venture funds have been deposited in the bank for a long time, and they are casually dismantled. There are many suites at home, and each suite is enough for the so-called white-collar workers who have worked hard for decades. I just want to say, OMG, A Xing, don't cry, you are happy, your dream is gone, you can get it back, and your money is gone.
Although I don't hate the second generation of rich second generation officials, I occasionally complain about whether the resources of this society can be distributed fairly, such as whether high-quality resources can also be enjoyed by many middle-class children who are building big cities. Their parents have paid too much for the city and enjoyed too little. Can their children be treated gently and fairly?
Parents are always the best teachers and nice people for their children, but the cultivation of the day after tomorrow is more important, especially the family has a great influence, which can be seen from Bao Longxing.
At first, A Xing wanted to be the embodiment of justice, to be an honest official and to catch corrupt officials. As a result, after being beaten by his mother, he could only give up his original intention of being a corrupt official. As a result, he turned out to be a corrupt official when he grew up, so he took the word "cheap" given by his father as "poor" and dismissed it.
Many parents often find out that their education is wrong after their children go astray, but it is useless to regret at this time, and the consequences they have planted can only be eaten by themselves. Bao Longxing finally succeeded in becoming a corrupt official after his dream of being an honest official was shattered. He can sentence a confused case for a silver or two. As a result, this man's greed went deep into the bone marrow and was hopeless. Even his father's earnest persuasion could do nothing.
How did his father teach him? That is to use his own living example. He used to be unable to raise 12 children because he was corrupt. In the end, he squandered all his wealth, and Ji De left an only son-Bao XIII (Bao Longxing). Even if it is so tragic and true, Bao Longxing can't turn back. He continued to be greedy, and after accepting Fang's golden house, he allowed Chang Wei to go home and repent. When his father died seriously ill, he became a wanted criminal and prostitute in the imperial court, which just verified the old saying that good and evil will be rewarded if flies don't bite seamless eggs.
When I was at school, I heard a story about a thief who committed too many crimes, was arrested and imprisoned, and was finally sentenced to death. Before he died, his greatest wish was to see his mother. When he saw her, he suddenly bit off her ear because he hated her. When he steals, he is not stopped, but encouraged, making him feel that stealing is also a very capable thing. Finally, he couldn't turn back and died.
The story is very old, and there may be many versions, but in reality, such cases abound.
I have a good friend in high school, a girl, who is kind and capable, but she didn't go to a good university and her work was not very good. I once chatted with her and asked her what she wanted to do after graduating from college. She said she just wanted to get married early and have a baby to train him well. I can't help laughing. I advised her at that time that you might as well work hard and be the best you first, and the children will naturally not be bad. Because I think it is unfair and unreasonable for a person to give up his career and pin all his hopes on the next generation.
Like most of our rural children, their parents have suffered a lot because they can't read. Therefore, their parents wholeheartedly hope that their children can get into good universities and get ahead, while their parents give up many development opportunities for their children's study. The best result is that parents have sacrificed their careers, and their family situation has not been improved very well, so they can't provide more help to their children in the future. The child failed to get into the ideal school as he wished, feeling guilty and under great pressure.
I have always believed that the best parents are the best themselves, so that your children can follow your example and be the best themselves. This is a win-win road and a way of education.