People who sleep late like me have to find something to do at night, which infinitely magnifies people's loneliness and various emotions. Sleeping late these years has taught me a truth, never make any decisions at night. In retrospect during the day, you will regret this decision.
During the day, people's spirit is in a state of tension and enrichment, and some things will be seen more thoroughly, but at night, the atrium is always broken by a sentence or two.
People who like it in the middle of the night don't really like it.
Conversely, people who flirt with you late at night won't really like you.
For a while, I was going to have a party and I was worried every day. As the head of the drama troupe, I made a tour of three schools from the planning book of the party to the application for venue approval from the school, and negotiated with two other drama troupes.
For three months, I took the members of the troupe to solicit sponsorship. Every night, I feel anxious. You can make posters more than ten times during the day until you are satisfied. I will think about some details at night, and I can't sleep at night during that time.
02
It was at this time that Mr. Bai and Mr. Ye appeared.
I met Mr. Bai at the sponsorship club. The owner of a music book bar is a 27-year-old liberal arts student. His mind is full of poems and books. I want to talk to him about sponsorship. We added WeChat to each other and chatted with him about sponsorship. Later, the theatrical troupe went to the party, and I invited him to see it.
Teacher Bai and I talked clearly about the sponsorship on WeChat. There was nothing to talk about at first, but then Mr. Bai always talked to me about other topics, and I could always smell a little different feeling from his words.
Later, he asked me out to play. At that time, it always rained in winter in the south. I was really tired at that time, so I never promised him. I always make excuses for the bad weather. Every time I say next time, he will wait for me in a good temper. It's silly to think of your own excuses now.
Mr. Bai always chats with me during the day and asks if I have time. If you have time, we'll talk about it later. If I didn't, he was a cautious boy. Every night 10, he would say good night to me and let me go to bed early.
During that time, Mr. Ye also appeared. Every night after 10, he will come to talk to me on time. He comes from the Music and Dance Academy, and he is very humorous. When chatting with him, he can always find different topics.
During that time, when I couldn't sleep, I chatted with him every night. It was so exciting that I wanted to continue chatting with him every night. Now I'm a little ambiguous about Mr. Night. I really think he is as moved as I am.
03
As we all know, love words are poison, and sweet words are not true.
If you want to ask me who I liked better at that time, it was of course Mr. Night who was liked by girls.
They all know that during that time, I was busy with the drama party.
During the day, Mr. Bai will tell me the details of the party activities held in his own university. He said, "I understand how you feel. Don't worry, take your time. I will tell you all the activities I have done. I will go to your school to find friends and bring you a small cake by the way. "
Teacher Ye will ask me during the day: "Come out to play and let others do it. Look at you after a tiring day, come out and sing to relax. "
Teacher Bai's attitude: since you have done it, do it well.
Teacher Ye's attitude: Why are you so serious? Come out to play.
I'm a little stupid, too. I made a mistake when I was busy, and the party was at a critical moment. Because the costumes of the actors in the drama troupe are carefully selected and rented online, there is a problem.
I couldn't get to the party at all, but all the actors' costumes. I can't describe the mood that day. I walked around the city several times, but I couldn't find the clothes I needed for the performance.
I sent a circle of friends and scolded myself.
04
In the evening, Mr. Bai and Mr. Ye came to me at the same time: "What's the matter? What's the problem? "
Me: "it's over, there is something wrong with the clothes!" " "
Mr. Ye voiced and said, "How's it going? What's going on here? Don't worry, hurry the seller and tell him to hurry up. He will definitely arrive. "
That meeting was already 1 p.m. I made an overview of the matter.
After he listened, the voice came: "I yawned and told me to go to bed early." Things are sure to go well. I have a class tomorrow morning. I'm going to bed first. Good night. "
After talking with him, I went to see Mr. Bai's WeChat, and he sent me more than a dozen messages.
"Don't worry, I have friends who know the city drama art center. I'll ask for you! "
"This can definitely be solved, don't worry."
"I just asked. My friend said there were some clothes there. I'll drive you to see them tomorrow. See if you can use them. "
"I'll pick you up tomorrow morning"
I almost cried.
I said, "OK, thanks."
He said: "nothing, it's all small things." Please rest quickly and don't think about it. "
Later, this matter was solved smoothly. Taobao shop owner used his quick wits to solve the clothing problem. Two days before the drama party, the clothes arrived.
Before the drama party, I personally went to Mr. Bai's book bar and gave him tickets, while Mr. Ye, I didn't give him tickets.
Ironically, a few days after the drama party, he even asked me on WeChat if I had left him a ticket, and he wanted to take his friends to see it.
05
The difference between Mr. Ye and Mr. Bai is really great.
Later I realized that people who really like you can talk to you in the middle of the night. People who can't sleep in the middle of the night are mostly empty, lonely and cold, except for physical illness.
Therefore, I may just be a playmate of Teacher Ye who suffers from insomnia at night, and a WeChat friend who kills time when I am lonely. Sometimes Teacher Ye will ask me out to play and have a barbecue at night. I refused, and over time. Teacher Ye always says good night in advance when chatting happily with me in the middle of the night.
The above facts prove that people who talk to you in the middle of the night either want to sleep with you or are lonely and coquettish.
I have a friend who is super sweet with his girlfriend. Once everyone was playing outside, and it was too late, so they said they would go to the Internet cafe for one night. The boy said he couldn't go. The dormitory is closing. He has to go back.
We joked, "Are you Cinderella? I am in such a hurry to go back. "
He smiled: "I have a girlfriend and can't spend the night outside!" " "
Everyone booed again: "Look, I'm not single, are you still afraid of my wife? Ha ha ha, you and your girlfriend don't live together, what are you afraid of? "
The boy scratched his head: "No, did you forget it last time?" I drank too much and slept outside all night. She stayed up all night in the dormitory. She bought it for me early in the morning and delivered it early. I promised her I wouldn't spend the night outside next time. Otherwise, she will worry that she can't sleep again. It's okay for me to stay up late, but I hope she doesn't. Please understand! "
I don't feel melodramatic when a boy who is 1.8 meters tall says these things. On the contrary, I envy a girl who has such a boyfriend, and the real care and affection are there.
We pray to meet a boy like Xiao Ge, but we always meet someone like Teacher Ye. You are waiting hard and infatuated, but you still can't wait for his sincere feelings.
06
I always understand something.
People who really like you will let you go to bed early even if they wait for your news with their mobile phones. He will think of you everywhere. He will sympathize with you. Staying up late is harmful to your health.
People who really like you will come to talk to you day and night. He can't help looking for you, he can't bear to look for you, but he will consider your mood and your time.
People who really like you won't talk to you in the middle of the night, let alone ask you out in the middle of the night. He knows what to do for your own good.
Therefore, people who come to talk to you for a long time can't be sincere.
People who like you will want you to get better, will urge you to go to bed early, eat on time, put on more clothes in cold weather, and will help you find a way when you are in trouble.
And the person who doesn't like you, he cares that he is bored, and he will come to chat with you when he is bored, whether you have time or not.
When he needs company, he will call you immediately. When you need company, he disappears. He won't ask if you are cold, just because you are beautifully dressed.
Those who appear late at night, even if you are soft-hearted, will keep you awake all night because of them, disappear during the day and flash at night. You know, these people will not be your other half.
The person who really loves you is the one who sleeps with your head resting when you open your eyes and smile at the first ray of sunshine in the morning.