2. Children who are emotionally dull and weak will not easily feel guilty for other people's negative comments or malicious attacks, nor will they doubt or deny themselves because of a failure. Avoid melodramatic, children are more likely to develop physically and mentally happily.
3. Children who remain insensitive to negative comments and are more confident and insensitive are "careless" in their daily lives, but they will not forget the overall goal in their hearts. Children who have lost their memory of blame since childhood and take their time in an emergency will be more confident when they grow up. This is why children who are "poor students" in childhood usually have a stronger development trend after entering social development.
4. Keep a dull feeling, and the interpersonal relationship is more harmonious. Children with sensitive hearts have always been particularly concerned about other people's every move, so it is difficult to open their hearts and obtain harmonious social relations when getting along with others. People with weak sensitivity will have higher emotional intelligence and be better at social media.
How do parents cultivate their children's dullness? Many mothers like Leah often dislike that their husbands are not qualified fathers. I don't know that dad's callousness and ability to bring up children are shocking, but it will be better! In addition to asking fathers to participate in parenting education, parents can also do the same-
1. If you don't pamper yourself in food, clothing, housing and transportation, you need to pay attention to a balanced diet and let your children eat more miscellaneous grains. I usually take my children out to play, so I don't have to worry that my children are too tired, so I want my baby to exercise more. In life, there is no need to pamper children everywhere. As long as it is not easy to hurt children's health, children should be allowed to exercise more.
2. Calmly handle minor conflicts between children. Occasionally, children will find fault with some eggs while playing. In view of this contradiction, parents need to have certain judgment ability. As long as it is not too serious personal behavior, parents should not rush to help their children get justice, but should be rational bystanders and let their children solve their own difficulties.
3. Carry out "unsuccessful cultural education" for children. Many parents have been eager to succeed in education and hope that their children will always be the first. In real life, no one is the real "first place". Everyone has experienced repeated failures before gradually becoming a leader in a small industry. Therefore, it is very important to teach children to face failure bravely and face reality frankly.
4. Don't regard children as the center of the family. Many children with excellent childhood achievements are unremarkable after entering social development. The main reason is that parents attach too much importance to their children, and the whole daily life of a family is child-centered. The old man dotes on his children like a "little prince" and does not allow them to suffer a little injustice. When they arrived at the university, they found that it was not the case at all, so they were very unbearable.