But he is the unyielding General Yuan in Marrying the Wrong Sedan, Zhao Dalong in Sad Mother and Child, and Xue in《
Although the name is feminine, Xiaohong looks resolute and tall.
In the play, he is a tough guy on the screen, but at home, he becomes a little man who cooks for his wife.
Shi Xiaohong has too many contrasts, but what will never change is his love for his wife Xie Lan.
What kind of love can make Shi Xiaohong give up everything and go home to take care of her deaf parents-in-law?
What kind of love can make you willing to accompany your wife Dink to 50 years old?
Shi Xiaohong, from Shaanxi, 1962. Since I was a child, I was laughed at by Xiong Haizi in my class because of the name "Little Red".
Shi Xiaohong is not a soft persimmon. He fought with the children who laughed at him, which gave his parents a headache.
Although Shi Xiaohong was always scolded for being naughty, his childhood was happy.
1 1 years old, he is much taller than other children of the same age, and no one dares to laugh at him.
On the other hand, Xie Lan, who is far away in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, has just been born. As the first child in the family, his parents are very excited.
But because they are deaf and dumb, they can only show their happiness by dancing.
Comparatively speaking, Xie Lan's childhood was unfortunate, because her parents were disabled and she was always bullied at school. In order not to cause trouble to his parents, Xie Lan had to put up with it silently.
Later, when my brother was born, Xie Lan, as my sister, had a heavier burden.
Premature maturity made Xie Lan once have no idea of getting married and having children: "Having children can't give him a good life, it's better not to have them".
At that time, Xie Lan never thought that she would meet a man who loved her deeply.
1983, Shi Xiaohong, an army soldier, was assigned to work in Xi 'an Theater because of his excellent performance.
At that time, Shi Xiaohong was 1.85cm tall and had abdominal muscles. Coupled with the righteousness experienced by the army, he is simply a walking hormone.
Although there are many little girls who like him in college, it's a pity that Shi Xiaohong has never met a girl who can move him.
199 1 year, Shi Xiaohong starred in Love in the Rainy Season, 1992, Shi Xiaohong played the Eighth Route Army's "Liu Jian" in the film "A Narrow Death". Since then, directors, soldiers, generals ...
Shi Xiaohong has shot many works one after another and gained a certain fame.
In the same year, Xie Lan had just been admitted by Nortel to study acting. She worked hard and got the chance to cooperate with Leslie Cheung in her sophomore year, and played the heroine "Juliet" in the movie "Midnight Singing".
Xie Lan, who is only 20 years old, rises in Ran Ran like Ran Ran, a rising star, and has a good acting career.
1999, a film "Yellow Land and Blue Land" let them meet.
Before that, the two had only heard each other's names, so when they met on the set, Xie Lan politely shouted "Senior".
Shi Xiaohong didn't feel much about the little girl in front of him. Later, when filming, the two talents gradually became familiar with each other.
In the play, they are brother and sister. In reality, Shi Xiaohong is older than Xie Lan 1 1 years old, so Xie Lan always called him "brother" outside the play.
And Shi Xiaohong also takes special care of this sister, and she is often mentioned as a joke.
Whenever the filming draws to a close, the actors and crew will get together and chat.
Shi Xiaohong will sit by and chat with everyone. Once, Shi Xiaohong was listening to an actor talking about his last play. He looked up and saw Xie Lan sitting on one side.
"She just sat there with a book." Looking at Xie Lan, who is quietly reading a book, Shi Xiaohong thinks, "This kind of girl is really good."
Since then, Shi Xiaohong has been paying special attention to Xie Lan. He found that Xie Lan was exceptionally quiet, almost never lost his temper, and he was also very polite to the actors who worked on the field and walked on.
Slowly, Shi Xiaohong had a different feeling: "I seem to like her".
But Xiaohong didn't dare to confess. On the one hand, it is frivolous to express love so quickly because we haven't known each other for a long time.
On the other hand, Shi Xiaohong feels much older than Xie Lan: "Scary girls don't agree".
So after a struggle, Shi Xiaohong decided to silently guard.
On one occasion, Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lan shot face to face. After the shooting, Shi Xiaohong still had many shots.
Xie Lan didn't leave immediately with the attitude of observing and learning, so he stayed to observe. Later, because I was so sleepy, I curled up on the sofa and fell asleep.
It was already very cold. Noting that she was asleep, Shi Xiaohong quickly took off her coat and covered it for her.
Later, Xie Lan recalled: "At that time, I felt hugged by something very warm." .
Shi Xiaohong has brought much more warmth to Xie Lan. Once, Xie Lan was ill, and Shi Xiaohong, who got the news, ran a long way to buy medicine for her.
I wanted to give her the medicine in person, but when I arrived at the door of Xie Lan, Shi Xiaohong hesitated: "Isn't it good to enter the girl's room like this?" .
So he left the medicine at the door, knocked on the door and asked Xie Lan to get it himself.
Xie Lan pushed open the door and looked at the medicine placed at the door, giving birth to a little warmth in his heart.
But with the end of the filming, Shi Xiaohong lost the reason to contact Xie Lan, and there was no intersection between them.
But for Shi Xiaohong, "I finally met the girl I like", he didn't want to give up. Fortunately, he finally got the chance a year later.
After a year, their work "Yellow Land and Blue Land" won the prize, and when they received the prize, they finally met again, which made Shi Xiaohong excited.
After winning the prize, the director organized a party for everyone. After a group of people had enough to eat and drink, the director said, "Shi Xiaohong, drive your sister home." .
Seeing that the opportunity was just around the corner, Shi Xiaohong quickly agreed. On the way, Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lan chatted happily.
When the car drove downstairs to Xie Lan's house, Shi Xiaohong wanted to talk to her more, and they chatted again in the car.
Shi Xiaohong thought, "He will definitely invite me up for a cup of tea."
After getting off the bus, Cheng Xiang Xie Lan directly said "Goodbye then" and turned away without inviting Shi Xiaohong.
In Xie Lan's view, "It's very late now, so we can't invite a member of the opposite sex to our home. They don't know each other very well." .
But disappointed Shi Xiaohong thought, "Xie Lan may have a boyfriend." Because he didn't know how to talk, he left alone.
Fortunately, not long after, the crew organized another party, and with the previous preparations, the two chatted happily.
Shi Xiaohong learned that Xie Lan was single, and after a while, they became more familiar with each other. Shi Xiaohong decided to pursue Xie Lan: "I think she is my favorite and I should pursue her." .
Let Shi Xiaohong decided to confess because of a "car accident".
At that time, a brother of Shi Xiaohong bought a new car and wanted to send it to Changchun, so he invited Shi Xiaohong to visit Changchun together.
When the two brothers were chatting, Shi Xiaohong said, "Big Brother, I like a girl named Xie Lan now. She is also an actress ...".
Eldest brother and sister-in-law quickly gave her advice and taught him how to chase girls: "Call her and invite her to Changchun!" " "
In the evening, Shi Xiaohong called Xie Lan and asked her, "Have you been to Changchun?" As a result, Xie Lan has been there.
I heard that Shi Xiaohong is going to Changchun. Tell him, "Go, come back early, and be safe on the way." .
The next day, not long after Miss Xiaohong went on the road, she witnessed a car accident. The car in front of them was seriously injured. Shi Xiaohong and his party stopped to have a rest.
In the evening, a group of people discussed going for a drink to suppress their shock. Shi Xiaohong was a little drunk, so he thought for a moment: "Life is too fragile. If it was me who crashed the car today ... I'm not even married! My wife is not married yet. "
So Shi Xiaohong kept calling Xie Lan. Xie Lan thought he had arrived in Changchun, but Shi Xiaohong said no. Then he simply told her what happened today, and then he proposed directly.
At the other end of the phone, Xie Lan was completely lost. All he could think about was his last two words: "Xie Lan, you trust me, and I will treat you well all my life".
During this period, Xie Lan never thought of marrying an insider. She always thought that the marriage would be unstable, because the couple were both actors, but Shi Xiaohong's proposal bothered her.
After much deliberation, Xie Lan promised him a week later.
Shi Xiaohong held Xie Lan excitedly and wouldn't let go: "I will be good to you all my life." .
Then Shi Xiaohong and Xie Lan met their families respectively. For deaf parents in Xie Lan, Shi Xiaohong said that they were all acceptable, and even Xie Lan Dink's ideas were understood and accepted.
Shi Xiaohong said to Xie Lan emotionally, "I love you, so I respect your every decision".
In this way, they got married in 2000.
After marriage, the two have been developing in various performing arts careers.
With the help of Hsiang-hsiu Lee, a maid holding a dog, and Ding Xiaoli, the heroine of Snow White and Blood Red, Xie Lan gradually became popular.
With more and more scenes, Xie Lan has to stay in the crew for more than ten months a year, and the newlyweds are forced to move out.
Shi Xiaohong was worried that Xie Lan could not take care of himself, so he gave up some of his plays and was willing to play some small roles in Xie Lan's plays.
In "The Ancient Town and the River" directed by Chen Jialin, Shi Xiaohong played a lackey with few scenes.
They have a small home in the crew hotel. Every time Xie Lan finishes work, he can smell the food coming from home without entering the door.
Sometimes she stands at the door and smells and guesses dinner: "Today should be jujube millet porridge!" " "
On the set, you can always see Shi Xiaohong carrying a bag to deliver food to Xie Lan, and the actors in the same crew are envious.
Others will be thin when filming, and only Xie Lan is getting more and more mellow under the careful care of Shi Xiaohong.
Once filming happened just in time for Valentine's Day, because the set was very biased, Shi Xiaohong searched for a long time without a flower shop, so he had to go to the mountain to pick a bunch of cucumber flowers and bring them to her.
Xie Lan looked at the flowers and was deeply moved.
Later, they were guests of Men's World. Xie Lan said that Shi Xiaohong is not romantic and never said "I love you and miss you", but the actual action is that I love you.
After marriage, he has also played many roles as husband and wife, and has cooperated many times in Investigation, Tian Yi, Watching Love and Fatal Game.
Seriously, they quarreled on the set. Xie Lan, who has always been kind to people, only lost his temper with Shi Xiaohong. The unbearable Shi Xiaohong said angrily: "Forget it, we don't thank the teacher for his acting skills."
Watching the couple quarrel directly made all the colleagues at the scene laugh.
Although there is a little emotion, Shi Xiaohong knows: "Because I am her husband, she is angry with me, otherwise she would not be so cruel to others, and Xie Lan is so serious because she loves drama."
Shi Xiaohong has always been considerate of Xie Lan, knowing that she really likes drama.
Therefore, when Xie Lan's parents needed someone to take care of them, they decided to be filial to their daughter.
Xie Lan's parents are deaf, so life is very inconvenient. As they get older, they will get sick from time to time.
Every time I learned that my parents were ill, Xie Lan was worried that she could not eat well or sleep well on the set, so Shi Xiaohong offered: "Don't worry, I will go back to accompany my parents."
In order to communicate with the elderly, Shi Xiaohong also learned sign language.
At first, he practiced tirelessly in front of the video. Later, when he saw that he was learning too slowly, he simply signed up for a sign language class.
Shi Xiaohong's sign language is getting better and better. Sometimes even Xie Lan doesn't know how to express it, but Shi Xiaohong can tell it clearly.
In order to take care of her parents-in-law, Shi Xiaohong gradually gave up her acting career. She accompanies her parents-in-law out in the sun every day, prepares delicious meals for them at home, and sometimes drives them to road trip.
Xie Lan's mother's 70th birthday, Shi Xiaohong also carefully prepared gifts for the elderly. Xie Lan was too busy filming to come back, but he postponed an activity and went to the birthday party to celebrate his mother-in-law's birthday.
Although the parents-in-law can't speak, they are very satisfied with this son-in-law. Every time Xie Lan comes back, they will tell her in sign language: "He is really good. You are not mistaken about him. " .
Xie Lan gratefully embraced Shi Xiaohong: "Thank you, I really can't be two places at once without you", while Shi Xiaohong hugged his wife tightly, and they embraced each other affectionately.
With Shi Xiaohong's company, Xie Lan's parents' old age was very nourishing. The old man looked at his busy daughter and worried about their old age. He said to Xie Lan more than once, "It's time to have a baby".
But Shi Xiaohong never urged her. Once when they were walking in the community, they saw a little doll of several years old playing by the roadside. At one moment, she picked up a leaf, and at the other moment, she threw herself into her mother's arms with a babbling smile. Both of them couldn't help slowing down.
Xie Lan looked at Shi Xiaohong's envious eyes and felt particularly guilty.
So she said to Shi Xiaohong, "Let's have a baby".
Shi Xiaohong was surprised, but his first thought was, "It's too risky to have a baby at your age."
At that time, they had been married for more than ten years, and Xie Lan was in his thirties. See Xie Lan made up his mind, Shi Xiaohong red eyes nodded.
On April 20 12 17, Xie Lan gave birth to his son "Danzi".
Shi Xiaohong finally became a father at the age of 50, and he didn't become a father until more than half a century later. Shi Xiaohong looked at the infant and was too excited to know what to do.
Shi Xiaohong leaned in and kissed his son on the forehead, carefully afraid to touch him.
Xie Lan looked at Shi Xiaohong with a smile: "You are a big man, why are you still coy?" Shi Xiaohong scratched his head and smiled at her.
After having a son, Shi Xiaohong became a "super daddy", who could skillfully change diapers and put him to bed.
In order to accompany the children to grow up, Xie Lan also reduced the frequency of filming, and the happy appearance of a family of three was simply enviable.